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Teacher Zhang Xuefeng, a famous teacher for postgraduate entrance examinations, once said that the ultimate purpose of children's learning Xi is not to test how much knowledge children have learned, in fact, seventy or eighty percent of the knowledge learned in textbooks is useless in real life, and what is used in real life is children's ability to solve problems.
In the process of children's education, we parents must pay attention to the comprehensive quality of children, and cultivate children's problem-solving ability, rather than focusing on children's academic Xi performance. In fact, after the child's comprehensive quality and problem-solving ability are improved, the child's grades will naturally be no problem. So how can you improve your child's problem-solving skills?Here are five steps to share with you
The first step is to encounter things, we parents should not give our children answers easily, and do not make decisions for our children. The first thing we parents do is to listen, and taking our children's listening seriously is to give children the respect they deserve, and it is also the basis for cultivating children's problem-solving skills. We need to listen to the child and listen to the child tell the whole story in its entirety. Of course, in the process of talking about things, we must let children talk objectively, without their own subjective thoughts. This step is to guide the child to tell the whole problem objectively and completely.
The second step, after the child finishes speaking, our parents should ask him what you think about this matter, and this step is to see if the child's three views are correct. Because the correct world view will make children look at the whole world more comprehensively, and the correct values will make children not be confused by shallow money, but become drunk and misguided, and the correct view of life will make children understand the meaning of struggle, instead of spending their lives like the walking dead. Under normal circumstances, a child's three views should be established at the age of 10.
The third step is to ask him again, how do you think this matter is better handled?What are you going to do?Saying this can exercise children's language skills and ability to think independently. The most important thing in this step is to guide the child to think and solve the problem independently, and when facing difficulties, whether the child finds a way to solve it by himself or escapes and retreats, the result will be very different, because the child can only gain rich experience and lessons in the practice of continuous problem-solving.
The fourth step is to tell your child to listen to their parents before taking action, which is to guide your child to be thoughtful and prepared. Because children are still young after all, many times their ideas are relatively simple, so when the child's ideas are irrational and immature, we parents can give the child appropriate advice at this time.
The fifth step is to tell your child to do it immediately after he has a solution to the problem, and don't be afraid to do it badly. Parents are always the child's firm supporters and strong backing, even if the child does not do well, we parents will not blame the child, but will only help the child to sum up lessons in failure, so that the child has no worries about solving the problem.
To cultivate children's problem-solving ability, we need our parents to guide them little by little, give them autonomy, encourage them to think independently about problem-solving methods, and let children cultivate problem-solving skills in continuous practice. If you want to know more simple and practical home education methods, you can follow me, I share it every day.