In the TV series "Flowers", Li Li, the owner of Zhizhenyuan, is a very different person from other bosses.
In the words of his uncle: Li Li is a person who makes a lot of money quietly.
Before the opening of Zhizhenyuan, Li Li had been in Shanghai for three months.
Li Li quietly replaced the original Golden Phoenix's gas pipeline.
She also hired the best chefs and restaurant managers in Shanghai to prepare for the opening of her new restaurant.
Li Li's behavior conveys her strong inner determination, she doesn't care about the predecessor of the hotel, she doesn't care about other people's opinions, she just works hard to do herself.
People who really have determination in their hearts don't care about the wind and rain of the past, and they are not afraid of whether there will be wind and rain in the future, but they just do their best from the details.
The predecessor of Zhizhenyuan, Golden Phoenix, once had to choose to escape because of the boss's failed investment, and she has always been burdened with favors and debts.
Li Li did not choose to retreat and be deterred because of the past like Golden Phoenix.
Li Li chose to take advantage of the original advantages of Golden Phoenix, transform and upgrade, and start anew.
Don't care about the past and let go of the burden of the past, so that you can focus on the present and have a new beginning.
During the Warring States Period, when Wu Qi left the Lu State and came to the Wei State, he did not have a good reputation.
Wu Qi killed his wife in order to make meritorious contributions in the Lu country, and Wu Qi's relationship with his colleagues in the Lu country was not harmonious.
However, Wei Wenhou took a fancy to Wu Qi's outstanding military talent.
As a result, Marquis Wen of Wei asked Wu Qi to command the Wei army to fight, and in a series of battles to conquer the city, the Wei state gradually became stronger.
Don't care about the past, it's to let go of the baggage of the past.
I don't care about the past, but I also choose to "return to zero" with a mentality, start from zero, work hard from zero, focus on the present, and lead to the future.
When Bao was first invited to the Zhizhen Garden, Bao unceremoniously put forward his opinion to Li Li, "The Zhizhen Garden may not be open for three months. ”
Hearing such a voice, Li Li only replied calmly, "Thank you for the reminder." ”
For negative voices, choosing not to care, gently letting go, and focusing on your own things is the great wisdom of life.
When the historian Sima Qian encountered the disaster of Li Ling, he was denied and attacked by many people.
The emperor's anger, the negation of his colleagues in the court, and the devastation in prison all made Sima Qian feel the impermanence of the world and the indifference of human feelings.
However, even in the most lonely and helpless moments, Sima Qian was not coerced by the people around him.
He chose to block out the sounds around him, calm down, and devote all his energy to the creation of "Historical Records".
Zengguang Xianwen" said:Wine is drunk by confidants, and poems are sung to people.
If others don't understand themselves and are trying their best to deny themselves, why should we care about their voices?
Choose to block out the outside world, give yourself a peaceful environment, and also allow yourself to focus on doing things in the moment.
When evaluating the different realms of people, Li Li said, "What most people care about is the gains and losses overnight;And there are some people who are more concerned about making a game. ”
There is such a saying:How big the heart is, how big the pattern is.
People who care about overnight gains and losses, his pattern is also between the ups and downs of the moment.
And people with a big picture are more concerned about how to sow seeds, how to let the seeds grow slowly, become towering trees, and become a forest.
Du Fu has experienced many setbacks and blows in his life.
When he first arrived in the capital Chang'an, Du Fu was depressed and lived in poverty.
He said," he saidKnock on the door of Fu'er, and follow the fat horse dust at dusk. The remnants of the cup and the cold burn, everywhere lurking sorrow.
Later, during the Anshi Rebellion, Du Fu was displaced again and witnessed countless killings and partings.
Even though Du Fu worked hard to come to Tang Suzong's side, he was still not reused, and his talent could not be displayed.
And even in a very unsatisfactory situation, Du Fu did not stop the pen in his hand and did not give up his heart of worrying about the country and the people.
In Du Fu's heart, there is not only the court, not only the monarch, but also his own pursuits, his own aspirations, and countless people.
It is precisely this pattern of life that makes Du Fu write excellent poems from the bottom of his heart, which have become dazzling pearls.
Someone once said:Beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a hundred.
A truly interesting soul needs to have its own concentration.
This kind of concentration is to let go of external utilitarianism, shield the evaluation of the outside world, and look down on the ups and downs of life, and have their own firm direction and solid steps.
Teacher Feng Tang saidEvery cow has a stable core, so that it is not easy to be blown away by the wind in the universe.
A person who has inner concentration is nothing more than a nucleus in his own heart;Have a firm heart and belong to yourself;No complaints, no regrets, go your own way.
May you and I be able to have our own core, find our own concentration, be independent, not leaning, indifferent to gains and losses, listen to the wind and rain in our ears, and look at the clouds in front of us.