I really regret it for the past two days.
The day before yesterday, I posted a ** in the circle of friends, and this ** was not interesting. **Taken after dinner, I went out for a walk, it had just snowed heavily, and I saw many cars surrounded by wind and snow in the wind and snow, like beggars, as if they had no mother's children, which made people feel pitiful. Therefore, in this context, I took a ** and wrote a few lines of text, which wrote "These cars in the snow are like children without mothers", and then clicked to send.
Actually, it's just a small fragment of my ordinary life, or a small episode in my life, just as a record of the bits and pieces of life, when we look back as we get older, there are some good memories, that's all.
However, what I didn't expect was that it was my small gesture that touched the fragile hearts of several friends, and many relatives and friends liked it, but I didn't take it seriously, but the likes of a few of my friends made me feel a little different. I have to say that we don't have too many intersections, and we don't have a lot of interactions with each other to post on Moments, so I started to feel a little strange when I saw them like, but I thought about it, and it was true that I was a little inadequate.
Of course, this is not subject to people's subjective will, even if they feel helpless, there is no way to do it, so seeing my **, if it affects his mood, it is indeed a helpless thing, and he has to give up.
And my other two friends, their situation is a bit special, that is, their mother left them when they were still young for various reasons, and I know that in any case, it has left irreparable trauma on their young minds, and they will have a psychological blow after seeing me this **. In this case, I had the intention to give them some explanations, but then I thought that if I explained to them, it would attract their attention, and it would be counterproductive, as if there were no three hundred taels of silver here. In this case, I didn't explain too much.
Later, I thought about it, if it doesn't work, delete this circle of friends, otherwise it's not good to keep it, in fact, I also hesitated. Later, when I thought about it, if it was really deleted, I was worried that these two friends might have some misunderstandings when they saw it. So, in the end, I kept that circle of friends. Isn't it a bit indecisive, suffering from gains and losses?
In any case, I feel guilty, even though it is a reflection of my real life, but I have invisibly hurt some of my heart, so in this sense, I feel a little regretful. In the future, when you send ** or ** distribute some text, you still have to think about it to avoid some bad misunderstandings.
Each of us lives in this world, we are not an independent individual, we are surrounded by relatives and friends, we all have colleagues, we all have friends. Perhaps, there are not many interactions in ordinary times, and they may be ordinary, but an unintentional sentence may hurt each other, just like in a poem. "A word of comfort for others is just a bullet that hits oneself", so what we sometimes say invisibly is also a bullet for others?
I can't help but say that as I get older, I have more time to suffer from gains and losses, and I am always afraid of wolves and tigers when I do anything, which is what people usually call indecision. Sometimes there is really no way, we can't get out of this world, because we are all social animals, and we all have to keep each other warm in times of difficulty and spend some hard days with each other. So, sometimes I have to think about everyone's feelings when I do something, and sometimes I reflect on these things, and then I know that people actually have to be considerate and understand each other.
In fact, I am also a sensitive person, a thumbs from others, or a sentence left by others, in fact, I will think for a long time, this is the case in this world, there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. Especially for me.
About author:Yan Maotan, pen name Yan Han. He is a member of the Jining Writers Association of Shandong Province, and his works have been published in journals such as "Jining**", Qilu Evening News, Beijing Evening News, Shandong Poetry, Shandong Prose, Chinese Poetry Influence, Chinese Han Poetry, etc., and in 2022, he published the anthology "Spring Dream Without a Trace". A collection of essays, a collection of poems, and a collection of ** are scheduled to be published simultaneously in 2024.