When you mention the name Ruan Xun, you may feel unfamiliar.
But when it comes to the role of Emperor Jiaqing in "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", people suddenly realized: "It turns out that this actor is called Ruan Xun!."”
He has participated in many famous TV series and conquered a large number of audiences with his excellent acting skills.
In his love life, he and his wife Wu Qiong, who is 15 years older than him, have been with him to this day.
The road to love between the two was bumpy and twists and turns, but fortunately, they overcame the difficulties together and became a good story in the entertainment industry.
The only pity is that the two have been married for 19 years but have no children, which has become a sore spot in their hearts.
So why on earth did they not have a child?
What kind of bumpy road is the relationship between the two?
Ruan Xun has been outstanding in appearance since he was a child, and he is also very talented in art.
In 1994, he participated in the movie "Casting Sword", and more and more people noticed him, including Zhang Guoli.
In 1996, Zhang Guoli left him the role of Emperor Jiaqing in "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", and he became an instant hit.
Ruan Xun's career has taken off, and he has starred in many works such as "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview" and "The Legend of Queen Lu".
Over the years, he has insisted on his acting career and devoted himself wholeheartedly to it.
It wasn't until 2002 that Ruan Xun met the love of his life - Wu Qiong.
On that day, Ruan Xun was invited to participate in the MV of the song "Soul Broken Blue Bridge", and the singer of this song was Wu Qiong.
Wu Qiong was originally a Huangmei opera actor, and later entered the China Broadcasting Art Troupe and entered the music scene.
At that time, Wu Qiong was already a well-known "Queen of Huangmei Song", and an acquaintance made the two bond from then on.
Wu Qiong was attracted to Ruan Xun from the first time she saw him, but she knew the age difference between her and Ruan Xun, so she didn't dare to be delusional.
During the filming, Ruan Xun's words hit Wu Qiong's heart like magic.
The reason was that they were going to walk on an old and dilapidated bridge, and before filming that part, Nguyen Xun said:
"Wait a minute, I'll go up and see if there's any danger. ”
Although it was just an ordinary sentence, it made Wu Qiong feel extremely warm.
It turned out that Wu Qiong had been wandering alone for a long time, and she hadn't heard words of concern for a long time.
Ruan Xun's casual greeting was deeply imprinted in Wu Qiong's heart.
And Ruan Xun didn't have a good impression of Wu Qiong at first, she painted a white face, and Ruan Xun was startled.
But in getting along more and more, Ruan Xun gradually discovered the shining point on Wu Qiong, which attracted him to want to get closer.
Later, after the filming, Ruan Xun accidentally learned that Wu Qiong paid for the filming out of her own pocket.
So he told Wu Qiong that he didn't want to be paid, just to do his friend a favor.
Wu Qiong was worried about paying for the film at this time, because she kept improving, but unexpectedly exceeded the budget.
Seeing that Ruan Xun took the initiative to think about her, she was even more moved.
Subsequently, the two kept in touch, and the more they knew each other, the more they liked each other.
Finally one day, Ruan Xun took the initiative to express his love to Wu Qiong.
Wu Qiong was pleasantly surprised, but she was also a little hesitant, and after careful consideration, she still chose to follow her heart.
In this way, the two came together, but the road after that was full of thorns.
The biggest problem between the two was the 15-year age difference, and at that time, such a sibling relationship was not acceptable.Wu Qiong often feels inferior and is afraid of being gossiped about by others, so her love with Ruan Xun seems to be unsightly.
Once, the two were in a car together and met Wu Qiong's colleague.
Wu Qiong was very flustered, and subconsciously asked Ruan Xun to lower his head and pretend to be calm to greet his colleagues.
Another time, when the two were shopping together, Ruan Xun wanted to hold her hand, but Wu Qiong not only refused to let her, but also deliberately stayed away.
Every time after that, Ruan Xun wanted to hold Wu Qiong's hand, and Wu Qiong would run away quickly.
At first, the two only felt that they were hiding from people and falling in love every day, and there were still some exciting feelings.
Ruan Xun also teased Wu Qiong and said: "You hide so fast, like a little mouse." ”
But after a long time, Ruan Xun's heart was still a little uncomfortable.
Especially that time when they were walking down the street together and met a friend, Wu Qiong lied and said that Ruan Xun was an assistant.
Ruan Xun was a little sad, and he said to Wu Qiong: "If we really love each other, why are we hiding?"”
His words stopped Wu Qiong, thinking about it carefully, it was indeed unfair to Ruan Xun.
Since then, the two have reached an agreement to fall in love generously in the future.
However, after they made their relationship public, new problems arose.
Many people talk about the relationship between the two, after all, the difference is 15 years old, and no one can see their innocence.
Some people said: "Ruan Xun eats soft rice and finds a sister to raise him." ”
Another person said: "Ruan Xun is either a name or a money, in short, their relationship is not pure." ”
The more others spoke, the more ugly they became, but Ruan Xun didn't care, he loved Wu Qiong unaffected.
In 2004, the two had been in love for two years, and they both identified each other.
One day, Wu Qiong suddenly said to Ruan Xun: "Let's get married." ”
Ruan Xun was stunned for a second at first, then jumped up excitedly after reacting, and agreed repeatedly.
Subsequently, they explained to their respective families about their love.
Unexpectedly, when Ruan Xun's father found out about this, he was furious and said:
"If you want to marry a 42-year-old woman, my old face will be lost by you!”
In the face of his father's strong opposition, Ruan Xun did not give up, and he tried his best to convince his father.
But Nguyen Xun's mother was an enlightened person, she said
"Let the children make their own decisions about their own affairs, who they love and who they don't love, we can't interfere. ”
So, Ruan Xun and his mother did ideological work for his father, and his father gradually wavered.
However, waves of unsettled waves arose, and Wu Qiong's father was also furious when he learned of the incident.
He scolded angrily: "You are in your forties, find a young man in your twenties, how can I meet people in the future?."”
Due to the death of Wu Qiong's mother, Wu Qiong's marriage became a major problem for her father.
He naturally hopes that his daughter can find a suitable person to stay with for the rest of her life and be happy in the future.
"But what is the right person?I'm happy right now. Wu Qiong asked her father.
The father was silent, he just wanted his daughter to meet someone who loved her, and then agreed.
In 2004, the two entered the palace of marriage, Ruan Xun was 27 years old, and Wu Qiong was 42 years old.
Therefore, many people are still not optimistic about their marriage, thinking that Ruan Xun will definitely abandon Wu Qiong in the future.
But in fact, after getting married, Ruan Xun loved Wu Qiong as always, even if the other party mentioned divorce.
Two years after the two got married, Wu Qiong became pregnant, and the whole family was looking forward to the birth of this child.But at that time, Wu Qiong still insisted on working, and the drama "The Noble Lady Returns Home" contained her hard work, and she was unwilling to give up. Later, due to the long hours of work, her body resistance was not good, and she got a severe cold.
In order not to affect her work, Wu Qiong took antibiotics to continue rehearsals.
As a result, when it was time for the prenatal checkup, the doctor said to her, "The child has a problem with development, and it is recommended to get rid of it." ”
Wu Qiong cried bitterly on the spot, she didn't know that her persistence had harmed the child.
Even if she was reluctant, Wu Qiong still beat the child accompanied by Ruan Xun.
Ruan Xun looked at Wu Qiong, who was crying into tears, and was very distressed, and comforted her
"Don't worry, we'll have children in the future. ”
However, no matter how much Wu Qiong recuperated her body, they did not welcome their own children.
Wu Qiong's heart was like ashes, she didn't want to involve Ruan Xun, so she filed for divorce from him.
Ruan Xun knew his wife's thoughts, he didn't agree with anything, and insisted on staying by Wu Qiong's side.
"It's okay if you don't have children, as long as you're around," he said. ”
Fortunately, Wu Qiong, who has no children, was not troubled by her in-laws, but her in-laws treated her very well.
The mother-in-law even said: "She is very filial, and I have long regarded her as my own daughter." ”
Seeing that Wu Qiong was sad because she had no children, her mother-in-law took the initiative to come forward and comfort:
"If you don't have children, don't you still live like this?We don't have to worry too much about it. ”
Today, Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong have been married for 19 years. Although it is a big pity not to have children of their own, it is also a good thing that they have gained true love. After that, they adopted a daughter, formed a family of three, and lived happily ever after.
May they be happier and happier, and grow old together.