The child casually paints the car logo, adds wings, and changes the attitude of preschool education
Kindergarten homework"Draw your own car logo", the child casually drew the flying wing pattern, and the teaching attitude of the kindergarten changed.
Kindergarten is the starting point of a child's growth, and don't underestimate your child's comprehension ability at this stage. Their first few years of Xi experience will have a profound impact on their future thinking and character development.
For kindergarten students, teachers are a very authoritative presence. Every move and attitude towards preschoolers can have a profound impact on their self-perception and self-confidence.
Therefore, although kindergarten is not a stage of formal education, well-meaning parents have never overlooked its importance. It's worth noting that kindergartens also include family background checks, which comes as a surprise to many parents.
Recently, a father shared an experience that made people laugh and cry. It turned out that the kindergarten teacher had assigned a task to ask the students to draw the logo of the family car, and as a result, the father's son drew a pair of wings, so the kindergarten teacher's attitude changed.
At home, children generally show considerable independence, and parents encourage them to complete homework independently, and only particularly difficult assignments need help.
It may be because the child does not clearly understand the teacher's request, or it may be because he knows the teacher's request but finds the other signs more attractive, so he draws several winged car signs on the spot.
The assignments were completed according to the instructions in the extracurricular books purchased from the parents. However, after handing in the homework, the attitude of the kindergarten teacher changed unexpectedly. When he left the student in the morning, the kindergarten teacher was cold to him, but now he became very enthusiastic, took the initiative to greet the student, and even held his hand himself.
At first, the parents were a little confused: could it be that the principal had standardized the level of work?It wasn't until the kindergarten teacher got married and had to borrow a private car that it dawned on the parents that it might have something to do with her previous job.
Teachers may mistakenly believe that their family is more beneficial to them, so they may have to support some important occasions in the future, or have to do business with some contacts that annoy their parents, so they will become more polite than before.
Faced with this situation, parents are in a dilemma: if they directly tell the teacher that the student drew it casually when handing in the homework, they are afraid that the teacher will feel ridiculed. On the other hand, if they didn't tell the teacher, they were afraid that the teacher would think that they had such a car, so they had to say that they had sold it.
Why do kindergartens conduct family surveys, consciously or unconsciously?
The parents shared the experience online, but it caused a lot of reactions, and it turned out that similar situations are common, but in different ways.
According to the reactions of netizens, some kindergarten teachers asked students to take photos in their own homes to get an idea of the neighborhood they live in and the level of the house.
There are also kindergarten teachers who ask students to take a picture of the car at home, or to draw what the car looks like. However, as in the previous case, it is emphasized that car stickers must be included.
It is not difficult for parents to see that these efforts are actually organized to understand the student's family situation. This is confusing for parents who do not have this experience, and even if they are wealthy, they are not willing to pay double the kindergarten fee, believing that this practice is not necessary.
On the positive side, we can understand that kindergartens may want to assess students' personalities by understanding their family backgrounds, so that they can take a personalised approach to providing individualised training.
When communicating with parents, guidance can also be more targeted. Frankly, there aren't many kindergartens that can do that.
After all, these educators are ordinary professionals, and if they have a family situation and leave homework when they don't need to do it, it will naturally arouse the suspicion of parents.
Not all kindergartens have similar behavior, but this practice can damage parents' trust in kindergartens. Some of you may notice that trust between parents and kindergartens seems to be declining these days. On the one hand, kindergarten teachers complain that parents are too vigilant and have to report to teachers for every little thing"Discuss the law"。
In class, if several students raise their hands and the teacher doesn't call one of them, parents may think so"Damage to students' self-esteem"。If a student accidentally touches each other in a daily free activity, even if the teacher is not provocative, the parent will question the kindergarten and blame him"Failure to take good care of students"。On the other hand, many parents are worried about kindergarten"Pick the fat and pick the skinny"。
What should parents do if the teacher is patient with other students in the same class and their own child is neglected?Therefore, some parents deliberately choose to drive a better car to pick up their children, or dress up their children in a fancy way, hoping that this will make preschool education institutions feel that the student's family conditions are good, parents"A bit of a skill"。While they don't expect teachers to be favoritistic, they do want teachers not to look down on them. This phenomenon deserves in-depth consideration.
Although not all childcare centres have the above behaviour, parents now have easy access to information, and it is natural for them to fear that their children will be treated unfairly when they hear similar things.
All of these circumstances can influence how parents perceive nurseries and preschool professionals. It is hoped that professionals will refrain from asking about the family status of the nursery so that the profession of the nursery will be more recognized.
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