The second grandmother showed the decisiveness, magnanimity and foresight of a peculiar man, which made people sigh: "Who said that women are inferior to men".
She has a far-reaching strategic vision and long-term planning thinking. When faced with difficult times, he leads his family to live frugally, save up his limited funds, properly manage the key ingredients for opening a pharmacy, and plan to restart his previous business one day in the future, rather than sitting on his laurels.
She excels in public relations and takes risks. This bold behavior of hers attracted the attention of the old birthday star. When Baicao Hall was seized by Lafayette and became lonely, she locked the position of Chang Gonggong and took out more than 10,000 taels of silver to buy real estate and women to bribe him, so that she had the opportunity to return to Baicao Hall. Although there are certain risks, it is definitely a big investment if you are brave enough to try.
The second grandmother's ingenuity is mainly reflected in her deep understanding of "brand value", which is also the reason why she was able to go to Baicao Hall to retrieve the old plaque and participate in equity investment on this basis, thus laying the foundation for the prosperity and development of the mansion again.
She is deeply aware of the importance of human resources and its core competitive advantage. Under the circumstances, she did not choose to lay off employees, but improved her quality through continuous learning and Xi, so as to make herself an excellent talent manager. At a critical moment in the face of a difficult situation, she ignored everyone's opposition and cultivated senior employees in the pharmacy who were proficient in various skills. She believes that only by retaining talent can a business prosper.
Today, some multinationals have chosen to reduce wages rather than lay off employees in the face of difficulties, which is similar to the previous strategy. When her company encountered difficulties in its operation, it adopted a strategy of "fighting poison with poison" to get out of the crisis. She intended to take back the remaining half of the shares of Baicao Hall, so she did her best to control the secret recipe and prevent it from entering Baicao Hall, causing Dong Daxing and other shareholders to have to withdraw their shares. Although it was understandable that she owned a 50% stake in Baicao Hall at the time and injected it with a secret recipe, she was not fooled by the immediate benefits, but pushed the competition to a deeper level, and finally succeeded in regaining control of Baicao Hall, which was undoubtedly a grand investment.
Under the door of the family, without the company of elders, only a few children, her power is relatively weak, she is always committed to defending their rights and interests, and even sometimes favors them, and the rights of the old lady are also fully supported by her. When Sanfang Yingyu provoked trouble, her handling was both reasonable and beneficial, and she was very restrained.
In a feudal society, a woman who has not even been mentioned by her official name has made a series of decisions that are truly admirable. Her actions both inside and outside the family have earned her respect and respect, and her charisma has not only strengthened her position in the family, but has also been praised by the outside world. In the process, her words and deeds left a deep impression on people, and even became a good story by later generations. Even the enemy thinks that she responds to hatred with kindness, which is no easy feat.
In the past, when I was in "Mansion Gate", I always felt that the second grandmother was like a heroic woman, she was one of the heroines, she was like a strong rose, representing a perfect existence. But later, after watching her last suicide, I realized that she was a tragic figure, a tragic woman with a tragic fate. After re-examining, I realized that in her life, she had made two mistakes that led to the misfortune of those closest to her.
When the Eight-Nation Coalition invaded the city of Beijing, they chose Bai Yaping and Guan Shaoyi to flee together.
In the process of the second grandmother leading the whole family to Xi'an for refuge, Guan Shaoyi also rushed to the scene.
The Guan family planned to flee to Shanxi for refuge, and Guan Shaoyi came to greet Xiangling.
Xiangling resolutely didn't want to go with Guan Shaoyi, she decided to follow Bai Yaping, which was told to Guan Shaoyi by the second grandmother:
Why are you so rude in front of our house! It seems impossible to just take Xiangling with you, you have to leave with the mother and daughter, otherwise you can't take one person with you. After all, she is your daughter-in-law, and even if your illness has been cured, your heart is still so strong.
Then, she turned to Bai Yaping and made a speech:
Let's go, let's go, go with my daughter, and be sure to take care of yourself.
These shells have already hit Qihuamen, causing both the emperor and Lafayette to flee, which shows how dangerous the city of Beijing is and how likely it is to escape.
Although the second grandmother knew that Bai Yaping did not have a good impression of Guan Shaoyi and felt that he lacked enthusiasm all over her body, she still suggested that she follow Guan Shaoyi to move forward; Although the second grandmother understood that Bai Yaping did not want to return to the Guan family, she thought that the elder of the Guan family had become the editor of the Hanlin Academy, and she had no smile on her face every time she went in and out, but she still suggested that Bai Yaping flee with the Guan family; After Mingming's second grandmother learned that Bai Yaping killed her biological son because of a fall, Guan Shaoyi was determined to repay it with her own life, completely ignoring the deep feelings between the two families, and coldly drove Bai Yaping out of the house; Although the second grandmother went to Guan Shaoyi out of concern for the Bai family's uncle, Guan Shaoyi did not take into account Bai Yaping's contribution to the Guan family's one man and one woman, and he resolutely said that he would let the Bai family uncle die.
After her son disappeared, Bai Yaping's mood immediately collapsed. Compared with a father, a mother's love for her child is deeper and stronger. After losing her son, Bai Yaping's heart hurt almost breathlessly, and the pain she endured was comparable to Guan Shaoyi's, and sometimes even tens of thousands of times that of Guan Shaoyi. Her anger, her anger is indescribable. Guan Shaoyi has the ability to transfer all his unbearable pain to the Bai family and Bai Yaping, he can release his anger without scruples, ask the Bai family to exchange his life, and even drive Bai Yaping out of the Guan family and break off the marriage relationship with the Bai family.
I am a woman, and I have the right to demand respect from others. However, Bai Yaping couldn't tolerate it, because her negligence was the reason why her son left her, and she didn't listen to the advice of her second grandmother, thus turning "danger" into "danger", which ultimately led to the tragic death of her son. But is she really going to be abandoned? She can't blame the Bai family like Guan Shaoyi, because the Bai family is not only her birthplace, but also her strong backing. What's more, the second grandmother, who represents the Bai family, has already issued a warning to her, saying: "People are crazy, don't throw it away, it's not a joke to fall." "The heart she experienced was like a knife, and her pain could not bear it, so she could only swallow it silently.
As a father of a husband and children, Guan Shaoyi and Bai Yaping both blamed him. He thought that Bai Yaping's heart had been cut like a knife, and her trembling body tore off the carriage and was pushed to the ground.
The deeper Bai Yaping's pain, the more obvious Guan Shaoyi's coldness became; Bai Yaping became more and more crazy after losing her son, and her ruthlessness towards Shaoyi became more and more obvious.
He was so ruthless, so ruthless that he was violent to those around him, so ruthless that he threw the mother of his own children out of the house, and even threw an extremely vicious curse on a vulnerable woman.
The second grandmother witnessed all this personally, and she knew very well Guan Shaoyi's snarky, ruthless and unrighteous character.
The uncle of the Bai family was beheaded, and the ** grandmother of the Bai family who learned the news chose to hang herself to end her life, the Baicao Hall was blocked, Bai Mengtang felt powerless, and finally passed away, and the Bai family really suffered a huge blow.
Why did the Bai family fall into this predicament, although there was Guiwu's careful planning, but there was also a close connection with the Guan family. Although the Bai family uncle is innocent, the person who tried the case is actually on the same list as the Guan family's old man." The Guan family submitted an excerpt to the **, and Guan Shaoyi Ming unreservedly conveyed this information to the second grandmother of the Bai family:
Interestingly, you still have the face to plead with my dad? I mean my dad! People with a bright face don't do things that no one else knows, do you see? You see, how well he writes! This excerpt was written by my father, and the content is about your Bai family. I will tell you that the hatred of the murderer cannot coexist with it.
Bai Er's grandmother hopes that he can clarify the right and wrong of things, because the child's fall and death are not directly related to the Bai family's uncle, but Guan Shaoyi said:
My goal is to make him lose his life.
The Guan family has an in-law relationship with the Bai family, and the Guan family's attitude towards the Bai family is bad, which makes people on the street think of the Bai family. The person in charge of hearing this case, because of the relationship between the Guan family, both inside and outside, has a firm attitude of support for the Zhan family, he knows very well that the Bai family uncle has been wronged, but he has always been unwilling to clear the Bai family's grievances.
If the Zhan family wants revenge, it doesn't mean that the uncle of the Bai family will definitely be involved, because everyone knows the truth of the matter. So, let's get things out first. As long as the person in charge of hearing the case can clear the grievances of the Bai family, then this matter may be postponed, and in the end, a person will not be held accountable. That's a good idea, isn't it? But unfortunately, the Guan family wanted revenge, and the old man of the Bai family submitted another excerpt, which angered Lafayette and caused the life of the Bai family to be threatened.
Guan Shaoyi wanted to "exchange one life for one life", although he did not throw Bai Jingqi to death, he did take Bai Yingyuan's life. The old man of the Bai family finished his life with deep hatred because of things related to the uncle of the Bai family.
Accepted the bad element Han Rongfa.
In order to rescue the uncle of the Bai family, who was sentenced to beheading in prison, the second grandmother was assisted by the cell boss Zhu Shun and others. She devised an ingenious plan to replace Uncle Bai with a death row prisoner. Luckily, she managed to rescue Uncle Bai from prison and send him to a safe place where he could live for many years!
In view of the seriousness of this matter, once accidentally leaked, it may cause a large number of parties to face the risk of family annihilation. At the strong request of Zhu Shun and others, Second Grandma Bai had to keep her mouth shut and keep silent to all members of the Bai family. The second grandmother's secret was finally made public, and the dignity of the second grandmother in front of everyone was greatly hit, and she even suspected that this was some conspiracy planned by the second grandmother Bai. However, this incident has also become a trauma in the second grandmother's heart, she has been cautiously guarding this secret, and she has not dared to reveal it to anyone, including her husband, the second master of the Bai family, for many years!
Many years later, Han Rongfa, a scoundrel, at the instigation of Guiwu, only knew a little rumor, so he rushed out and pretended to be a big-tailed wolf, wanting to defraud the Bai family of many benefits. He shouted loudly and said some shocking things to the second grandmother, which frightened the second grandmother Bai and believed it to be true. In the end, she agreed to him and lived in the Bai family as her distant relative, and since then this scoundrel has lived a luxurious life in the Bai family!
Although Han Rongfa has enjoyed a luxurious life, he does not know how to be grateful, and indulges in eating, drinking, ** and gambling every day; Obviously a son of the landlord class, but he dressed himself like a nobleman. Although Han Rongfa has now lived a carefree life, his behavior has become more and more reckless and reckless; Although the Bai family provided him with a luxurious life that he did not dare to imagine in his life, he harbored ill intentions towards Xiangling, who lived in the Bai family, and took revenge without a bottom line; is obviously a ruffian, but he spends money at home for the silver spent in vain. There was a fierce conflict between Ming Ming and Grandma Bai, the second grandmother, and the third grandmother because of this small issue! knew that everyone in the family was strongly dissatisfied with him, and the second grandmother's dissatisfaction with him had reached an unbearable level, but he blatantly acted against Bai Yuting, and even fantasized about marrying Bai Yuting.
When the second master of the Bai family rushed over after learning the news, Han Rongfa's anger instantly filled his heart, especially the relationship with the second master of the Bai family. Han Rongfa was furious, he held a knife and wanted to dismember Han Rongfa, strip him of his **, eat his flesh, and drink his blood, but all this failed to eliminate the hatred in his heart.
The second master of the Bai family is the kind of weak scholar who only carries an inkstone in order to save his life, but Han Rongfa is a villain who does a lot of evil.
How can the second master of the Bai family match Han Rongfa?
In the end, Han Rongfa pushed the second master of the Bai family to the ground, which made the second master of the Bai family angry and unconscious! His two sons were also strangled alive. It didn't take long to lose his life!
He was afraid that the inseparable emotion would make him cry in front of Bai Jingqi, so he chose to silently watch Bai Jingqi leave the Bai family; He was afraid that the second grandmother would treat him as a "fool". He closed his eyes tightly, mistakenly thinking that in this way he would avoid seeing the second grandmother whipping Bai Jingqi "violently", thinking that in this way Bai Jingqi would not feel pain; He had always wanted to see the second grandmother, but he didn't know how she was doing. He is a very assertive and persistent man. He mentioned to his second grandmother many times that he hoped that Bai Jingqi could return from Jinan, return to the Bai family, and return to his side. But he has never been able to fulfill this wish. But unfortunately, until the last moment of his life, he could not catch a glimpse of his deeply missed son again, so he had to take the inkstone given by his son as a funeral gift and go to the Yellow Springs Road with him.
In the end, it was the second grandmother who made the wrong choice. In the face of major issues of right and wrong, the second grandmother behaved resolutely and bravely, her face did not change, and her heart did not beat, how could she tolerate Han Rongfa's rogue behavior?
Uncle Bai was indeed saved, but Han Rongfa never mentioned any key evidence, he just said it casually.
After Bai Jingqi returned, under the instructions of the second grandmother, didn't he also confirm Han Rongfa's true identity? Relying on the power and ability of the Bai family, as the head of the second grandmother, she can secretly find out Han Rongfa's true identity.
If it weren't for the second grandmother's decision to let Han Rongfa live in the Bai family, the second master of the Bai family would probably not be so angry, and he might even miss his son's last meeting.
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