Dr. Tao Yong is the winner of the 12th China Medical Doctor Award in 2020. If you still don't have an image, it is the victim of a violent injury to a doctor in the ophthalmology department of Chaoyang Hospital in January of that year. In that year, a patient failed to perform many surgeries, Dr. Tao Yong wiped his peers' buttocks, performed the last operation on the patient, became the object of hatred of the patient, was chased and killed by a kitchen knife, Dr. Tao Yong's left hand was fractured, neuromuscular blood vessels were broken, head trauma, and occipital bone fracture were released, and he was able to get out of danger of life two weeks later, and four months later, Tao Yong resumed his visit.
A doctor who loves ophthalmology so much, but because he asked his 12-year-old daughter to wash dishes on her birthday, and then licked the baby on her personal homepage with affection, she didn't expect to overturn and was grabbed and criticized by netizens. (from the Yangtze River**).
Because the family lived in three separate places, it was hard to seize the opportunity to educate his daughter on her birthday, so Tao Yong asked her daughter to take a group photo, but her daughter did not cooperate;Let the daughter serve rice to the old man and make roast duck rolls for her uncle and aunt, and the daughter will do the same;After eating, he asked his daughter to wash the dishes, but the whole family objected. There was no way, in order to make his daughter a lady, Tao Yong used Tang Seng's broken water grinding work, and finally let his daughter wash the dishes.
A kind father, in order for his daughter to grow up healthily, his good intentions can be seen.
Can my daughter wash the dishes on her birthday?Not only is Tao Yong's big family opposed, but also netizens, and their opinions are also holding on to each other, and the competition is in full swing. Dr. Tao Yong asked his daughter to wash dishes on her birthday, causing controversy
As a parent, you have the obligation and responsibility to ask your child to wash dishes and do housework, which is a life skill, and after the child will be able to live independently. Moreover, helping with housework can help children experience the hard work of their parents, cultivate children's empathy, increase the relationship between children and parents, and a sense of belonging to the family. After all, you know how to cherish it only when you pay.
The opposing side believes that it does not necessarily mean that the education of daughters has to be pampered and not allowed to do housework. Instead, he believes that Tao Yong's behavior has a lot to debatable.
The first is Tao Yong's behavior of showing the baby's frontal photos on social **, which shows that Tao Yong, the father, does not understand the attributes of the Internet, Weibo and WeChat circle of friends and family groups are not the same, and the positive photos of the child are not conducive to protecting the safety of his daughter.
The second is that Tao Yong is using his own actions to practice his family education idea of "cultivating his daughter to be a lady". Now there are many fathers in China who think the same way as him, but this family education idea may not be correct. This is a long-standing social discipline that is not intentional on the part of individual men. We can't change the minds of so many people in their thirties and forties. In recent years, feminist ideas have developed, which is of course good, but it is not very positive to clash too fiercely with fathers like Dr. Tao.
Educator Conclusion
Educators clearly support Dr. Tao Yong's idea of cultivating ladies and not witches, boys must be cultivated as boys, and girls must be cultivated as girls. The reason is very simple, all things are born, there is yin and yang, and only when each abides by its duty and embodies the attributes of yin and yang, the world will coexist in harmony. Roosters laying eggs and hens crowing are pathologies, not the way the world should be. The education of girls as boys is mostly the result of the lack of male role of the father, or the absence of the role of the father.
Of course, Dr. Tao Yong, although he has good intentions in educating his daughter, also needs to be more thoughtful. While developing your child's life skills and independence, it is also important to protect your child's safety and privacy.
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