The more you are afraid of delaying your Xi in these situations, the more you will delay your Xi
1. Ningbo. The girl's lung lobes turn white, and the mother is afraid of delaying her homework.
A girl in her first year of junior high school had a fever for a week, was diagnosed with mycoplasma pneumonia, her lungs had turned white, and the doctor recommended hospitalization**. Mom was a little hesitant, she was worried about delaying her homework.
Alas, it is understandable that mothers attach importance to their children's future, but in fact, at this time, the more afraid they are of delaying their children's learning Xi, the more they will delay their learning Xi.
2. There is often force analysis in physics, and we can also do a "force analysis" for children's Xi.
The factors that make children work hard to learn Xi are: the attraction of knowledge, the sense of accomplishment in learning Xi, the appreciation and recognition of teachers and parents, the shame of not being able to learn, the fear of criticism from parents, and the yearning for a better futureWait a minute.
The factors that make children not want to learn Xi are: heavy schoolwork, being criticized and blamed and belittled, a sense of powerlessness that cannot be completed, urging and controlling by parents, high expectations of parents, feelings of not being valued and not loved, disgust with parents, disgust with teachers...Wait a minute.
Parents can compare themselves to strengthen the factors that can make children learn Xi, and weaken the factors that make children not want to learn Xi, so that children will be willing to learn Xi and like to learn Xi.
In particular, parents should pay attention to the following situations.
3. The most important thing is to see a doctor when a child is sick.
If you are sick, let the child be treated well, cough non-stop, dizzy, even if you are forced to learn and Xi, can you read a few words?
In fact, when a child is sick, it is a good time for parents to show their love, and many people will say when they recall their parents' love, how do parents take care of themselves when they are sick.
If you force your child to learn Xi, what memories will your child make?
Children will be a little more estranged from their parents, a little more disgusted with their Xi, and the so-called disgust with school is saved little by little.
4. Children who are tired of school and drop out of school should stop forcing him to learn Xi.
It is not that a child who is tired of school and drops out of school does not want to learn Xi, but that the force that hinders him from learning Xi is too great, and learning Xi gives him too much pain.
Talking to him about Xi at this time is equivalent to talking about income with an unemployed man, which is to pour salt into the wound.
What parents need to do is to refer to the above force analysis to reduce the force that hinders their children's learning Xi. Do something that stops criticizing, nurtures feelings, appreciates support.
Because the attraction of support will not change, children's yearning for the future will not change, and children who are tired of school want to have good grades in their hearts.
As long as the forces holding the child back are relieved, he will start learning Xi again.
5. If the child's grades are declining, parents should not express anxiety.
A child's grades continue to decline, which is often related to his mentality. Self-confidence decreases, psychological baggage increases, and Xi efficiency affects the efficiency of learning, nothing more.
At this time, we should not rush to find the reason for the child and register for a tutor. It's better to find a counselor than to find a tutor. Because he doesn't get rid of the child's heart knot, he can't find the state of Xi school.
Parents try to control themselves and do not express their anxiety in front of their children. It's impossible not to be anxious, but try not to show it in front of your children. Let the child feel the calmness and trust of his parents.
Children may vent various emotions, such as frustration, irritability, etc., which is a good thing, it is better than holding back. Parents encourage their children to express themselves, let their children make decisions, and praise their children's performance outside of Xi. Give your child time to regain confidence and form.
Editor: rob