"Thirty Only": "Lazy" Chen Yu never knows why Zhong Xiaoqin, a "good girl" who doesn't like to take care of things, bought a skirt for 3,000 yuan.
In the modern workplace-themed TV series "Thirty Only", we have seen many vivid and real characters, and Zhong Xiaoqin is undoubtedly one of the characters that has attracted much attention. The trajectory of her life, especially the relationship with the "lazy" Chen Yu, makes people think deeply, why does an ordinary good girl care so much about her 30th birthday?
Zhong Xiaoqin, a native of Shanghai, has a superior family background and grew up in the favor of her parents. She is the kind of girl who grew up in the palm of her hand, and has never suffered the blows and embarrassments of life since she was a child. Enjoying the best care and living by her parents' side, her state is the most enviable of the three.
However, Zhong Xiaoqin, who seems to be a "good girl", has experienced many unknown contradictions in her marriage. Her married life is like a game of "raising cats and fish", which is in stark contrast to her husband Chen Yu. Chen Yu's "laziness" has become a stumbling block in marriage, and Zhong Xiaoqin's "not caring about it" has also made this relationship delicate and confusing.
The marriage relationship between Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu is like a collision between "lazy" and "not worrying". As a journalist, Chen Yu is smart and responsible, however, his attitude towards marriage seems lazy. He married Zhong Xiaoqin just to save worry, which has long become a hidden danger in the relationship between the two.
In marriage, Zhong Xiaoqin's lack of worry is vividly expressed. In the traditional concept, it is a common model for men to make money and women to manage money, however, Zhong Xiaoqin completely handed over the matter of salary to Chen Yu. There is a clear contrast between her lifestyle and view of marriage and the traditional model, which makes the contradictions between the two continue to accumulate.
The age of 30 is an important life node for many people, and Zhong Xiaoqin chose to divorce this year. Her decision made the audience wonder why this seemingly well-behaved woman would make such a big decision at this stage?
On the day of the divorce, Zhong Xiaoqin changed her simple dress in the past, and specially bought a 3,000 yuan skirt to make a delicate shape. On the surface, this change seems to be to attract Chen Yu's attention, but it is more of a catharsis for her to her heart. Such a change is like saying goodbye to her marriage at the same time, she is also bidding farewell to her former self.
The reason why the director chose to show the plot of Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu's divorce at the age of 30 is to show the audience the various contradictions and inconsistencies in this marriage. At the age of 30, Zhong Xiaoqin may have realized that she was lost and bound in her marriage. She longs to find her true self, get rid of the shackles of marriage, and pursue her own happiness.
Through the description of Zhong Xiaoqin's life and inner world, the director gave the audience a deeper understanding of why she chose to divorce at the age of 30. This decision was not made by impulse, but by a release from her inner desire for freedom and the pursuit of truth. By changing her external image, she tries to find her former self while saying goodbye to her marriage, and pursue the life she truly desires in her heart.
The director skillfully used Zhong Xiaoqin's 30th birthday to make the audience pay more attention to her life choices. This not only makes the whole story more layered, but also allows the audience to better understand the emotional fluctuations and inner struggles of the protagonist.
The "lazy" marriage between Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu not only reflects the diversity and complexity of marital relationships in modern society, but also allows the audience to think more deeply about the choice of the life stage of 30 years old.
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