Xiaohong and her boyfriend have been together for almost two years. When they first met, they would occasionally go out to eat together.
But after they established a relationship, they began to rent out more frequently and spent more time together.
My boyfriend is gradually becoming a little lazy, doesn't help with cleaning, likes to finish the drinks in the refrigerator, but doesn't add them to it, and never takes the initiative to buy dishes.
He also never gave red envelopes to Xiaohong, bought expensive gifts or flowers. He is always full of good ideas, but rarely acting.
In recent times, he said that he was short on money and had no money to refuel. Xiaohong had refueled him twice, but never mentioned it again.
Almost every day, Xiaohong gets up first to buy vegetables and cook, and then wakes him up to eat together. Xiaohong also washed his clothes.
Although he often said that he had no money, he was able to find a way to raise money when his family was sick and needed to spend money.
One afternoon, when Xiaohong was outside, he asked her when she would come back, and Xiaohong said that it would be later and asked him to go back to cooking first. But he said there was no food.
Xiaohong offered to let him buy it, but he said he had no money. Recently, the weather has become colder, and Xiaohong has to wake him up and cook every morning, usually calling many times to wake him up.
The morning before yesterday, Xiaohong went out for business, and before leaving, he said that he would cook for her and wait for her to come back. But when she got home, she found that he hadn't done it, and he said there was no food.
Xiaohong asked him why he didn't buy it, and he said that he didn't have any money.
Xiaohong felt dissatisfied, and saw that he didn't have enough clothes to wear after winter, so she spent money to buy him two new sets of clothes and shoes and socks.
Usually, the cost of going out to climb the mountain is also paid by Xiaohong. They had been together for so long, and he almost never spent anything.
Xiaohong didn't care about that, what she cared about was his lack of awareness of herself. This afternoon, Xiaohong went out for a bike ride to exercise her body and mind, and he drove to find her.
Red tells him to go home and cook first, but when she gets home, she finds him busy preparing dinner in the kitchen.
Although there were some surprises and surprises, Xiaohong still reminded him not to leave the clothes he took off in the living room to stain the floor when he changed clothes in the future.
However, he misunderstood that Xiaohong was blaming him and felt aggrieved and angry.
He begins to pack his things and prepare to leave, seemingly choosing to run away and give up on solving problems every time there is an argument.
Similar situations have happened a few times, and in the past, Xiaohong would usually hold him and not let him go, and try to communicate to solve the problem.
But today she didn't, and she's tired of all this endless bickering and misunderstanding.
Little Red felt annoyed, she felt like a child who hadn't grown up, even though he was 30 years old.
She realizes that the relationship may not be what she wants, and that maybe breaking up is the best option.
She decided to talk to him and see if she could find a mutually acceptable solution.
If you can't, then you can only bravely face the reality and end this unhappy relationship.
Thought question at the end of the article:
1.Why do you think Xiaohong's boyfriend treats her like this?Is it not mature enough or not loving her enough?
2.What do you think Xiaohong should do to change their relationship?Break up or continue to try to communicate?
3.What responsibilities do you think men should take on in a relationship?What are the responsibilities of women?
We look forward to hearing from you in the comments section.