Many times, we don't want to disappoint anyone and end up disappointing ourselves.
This life is like a passing year, in front of life, there is no repetition, only cherishing.
Only by letting go of what should be put and letting go of what should be put can you live freely and make yourself a better scenery.
Everyone has a temper, but tantrums don't solve anything.
Only by controlling your emotions can you make your life calm and satisfying.
I watched a movie called "A Man Named Ove Decided to Die", and the protagonist Ove is a person who loves to find mistakes everywhere and is very angry.
He loses his temper when he sees someone else's lawn untidy.
He loses his temper when he sees that the bike is not parked within the prescribed grid;
Sometimes, even in the face of an ugly stray cat, he loses his temper.
The neighbors thought he was a rigid, stubborn, unreasonable old man, who loved to find fault and lose his temper, and they all called him "the evil neighbor from hell".
However, Ove thinks that everyone around him is against him, and nothing around him can make him go well, and in such a bad mood, he is deeply in pain from which he cannot extricate himself.
Anger only makes people lose their minds, erodes their hearts, and makes their lives worse and worse.
If you are full of negative energy every day, your life will get worse. If you are an optimistic person, your world will be full of hope.
Keep a calm mind and face everything with a smile, and your life will be smooth sailing.
In life, many people overdraft themselves in order to work and make money, but health is 1, everything else is below 0, there is no 1, and there is no 0 is meaningless.
A wife posted online that her 36-year-old husband, a father of two, died working late hours. He chose to work in Africa to support his family.
He didn't go home for two years, basically didn't take a vacation during the Spring Festival, often worked all night, and finally fainted and died after being rescued.
No matter how heavy the burden is on your shoulders, take care of yourself first. Because if you fall, your family will fall too.
The other day I witnessed another work-related death.
On January 13, Zhao Lei, a designer of a company in Shanghai, died suddenly in a rental house at the age of 26.
According to Zhao Lei's relatives and friends, from January 13 to 27, after receiving the bid, Zhao Lei has been in a high-intensity working state, often leaving work from 2 to 4 o'clock in the morning.
No one's body can withstand such a long workday. It's really not worth it to destroy your own body in order to make more money.
In fact, whether you are rich or poor, healthy, life can go on.
We often work hard to earn money in pursuit of a better life. Even at the expense of your health.
However, once you get sick, you will find that no amount of wealth will be meaningless if it is not premised on health.
Don't burn out your body by making money;Without a healthy body, everything is zero.
Your kindness must be based on your protection of yourself. Otherwise, you will be the last loser.
One netizen told her own story:
My husband and brother-in-law started a company together, and the company had limited funds at the beginning, so I asked her to help.
She started doing taxes for the company, managing the bank, and training employees ......Throughout the year, there are only a few days off during the Spring Festival, and the rest of the time is dedicated to the company.
Although the salary is not high, when she thinks that it is for her family, no matter how tired she is, she has no regrets.
But her sister-in-law, who never went to work, was paid a higher salary, which made her feel a little dissatisfied. Later, the company was reformed, and the husband proposed that the company should save expenses, and the sister-in-law could not do things without wages, but the brother-in-law disagreed.
Proposal: My wife doesn't eat it, and your wife can't eat it either.
In order to settle the matter, her mother-in-law and husband chose to ignore everything she had done and acquiesced to her brother-in-law's request.
She felt very cold at the time, they gave so much, but chose to ignore it, this is using themselves as a sucker.
To this end, she decisively handed over the work and quit the company's management.
Later, when there was a problem with the company, her husband thought of her and asked her to solve it.
She decisively refused, determined to live for herself in the future and stop doing bad things in her heart.
Too much kindness will make people think that you are weak and easy to be bullied.
Don't get wet by holding an umbrella for someone else.
To those who don't deserve it, turn away from them and don't be afraid to offend others.
In the second half of your life, you must learn to be kind to yourself.