On the second day of marriage, my mother-in-law came to collect the rent and had to pay for the house
What the hell is going on?Why is this happening?Let's take a look at this together.
30-year-old Ms. Feng:
The day after I got married, I had to kick my husband and mother-in-law out of the house. Even though yesterday was our wedding day, it became the day I drove them away. When many people heard about it, they came to rebuke me. The neighbors said that it was like this on the second day of the wedding, and a daughter-in-law like you was really unprecedented. Whatever happens, you should be patient. After all, that's your mother-in-law and husband. How can you be so ruthless, is it really good to do this?After you get out, how are you going to live together?How will you live your life after you do this?Have you considered the consequences?I really can't figure it out, am I wrong?
Today, I'm making this public. Please help me judge. The day before yesterday, my boyfriend and I got married. I didn't mention the bride price when I got married. Because I knew that my boyfriend's family was not wealthy, I didn't mind. However, after I got married, I found out that everything was a lie, and it turned out that their family made a living by collecting rent. In the past they told me that they owed a lot of money.
Gradually, I realized that someone else owed them a large amount of money. Although their family is not wealthy, it is definitely above the well-off level. It is said that they can get 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a month for rent, close to 20,000 yuan. Isn't it great that you can easily get close to 20,000 yuan a month for nothing?In contrast, some people have to work hard a month to earn a few thousand dollars. However, they don't have to work, and they can easily get an income of nearly 20,000 yuan a month, which is enough to maintain a family's expenses.
But they were reluctant to pay the bride price. At the time, I thought they were in financial difficulty, so I didn't force it. I didn't expect them to hide so deeply. Many people think that since they are so wealthy, they should live happily. But I want to say, what does it matter to me if they have money?On the second day of the wedding, my mother-in-law came in the morning. At that time, I thought she was looking for me, so I got up quickly.
Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law told me that today is the day of rent collection, and she wants to explain something to me. Then the mother-in-law took out a bunch of keys. I thought she was going to give me all these houses. After all, my mother-in-law is old, and I may be responsible for the rent in the future. Am I going to be a charter wife?I was very happy. But within two minutes of being happy, my mother-in-law said to me, "What are you laughing at?"
I handed you a key to tell you that this house is mine. You don't have to give the rent to anyone else in the future. You give me 4,000 yuan a month for rent. If this house is rented to outsiders, it will cost at least 5,000 yuan. Since you live with my son, give me 4,000 a month. Such a big house in this good location is worth at least 5000 yuan a month.
But you are my daughter-in-law and my family, so I will charge you 4,000 yuan. And you should also understand that our family lives on rent collection. Even if it is for relatives to live, the rent should be paid. Although you are my family, my daughter-in-law, you also need to pay rent. If you don't pay, will we be able to make ends meet?For you, the 4,000 yuan should be nothing. You can easily earn five or six thousand yuan a month when you work outside.
Taking 4,000 yuan out of your salary to pay the rent is not excessive, right?Whether you live here or somewhere else, you will need to pay rent. In rented housing, give money to other people;Live here and give me the money. Does this do not allow fertilizer and water to flow into the fields of outsiders?And I don't treat you badly, others living in such a big house will definitely have to pay 5,000 yuan.
But if you live, I only charge 4000, which is enough for a discount, enough to be good for you. I've made it clear that this is a contract, you can take a look at it, and if it's okay, sign it.
I didn't know how to respond for a moment. I thought my mother-in-law would give me everything, but instead she talked about collecting rent. She said that we are a family, do we still have to pay each other's rent as a family?If your family gives you the house to live in, will you pay the rent to your parents?
I don't think we should pay the rent because we are all a family. At this time, my husband came out and he said that paying the rent was a matter of course. There is a return for pay, and there is motivation for pressure. If we don't pay rent, we lose our ambition. Besides, renting this house to others can earn 5,000 a month, and renting it to us for 4,000 has already lost 1,000, so we can't let them lose money anymore.
He offered to pay 4000 a month, and although I was rarely at home, he paid 1000, and I was often at home, 3000. He thinks it's fair because you're at home longer than I am. So, I signed the contract obediently. They thought I was going to resist, but I didn't.
I signed the contract and told them that you forced me to do it, and don't regret it when the time comes. I didn't hesitate to sign the contract and hand over some money. I told them that I was going to live for three months, which was 9,000 yuan. You may regret it, especially your mother-in-law. If you hadn't provoked this, maybe nothing would have turned out like this. My mother-in-law asked, are you intimidating me?
How could I regret living in my house and paying rent?And rightfully so. There is no free lunch in the world, no matter what you eat in, you have to pay. In my case, too, the family should share the costs. Money needs to be clearly distributed so that we know what we need to do. From now on, paying your rent every month will do. You've given me three months now, and I'll be coming back in three months to ask for money.
I didn't care and said, "Whatever you want, it's only 3,000 yuan a month." Since you collect rent, I will collect rent as well. Starting today, if your son wants to come into my room, you'll have to pay for it. This is my room, 100,000 at a time, 1 million a month, 10 million a year. You can do it yourself, I don't force you to agree, and I don't want you to come in. If your son has to come in, he has to pay, or I'll call the police. "My words made my husband angry.
He said angrily, "How can there be such a wife?".You're my wife, we're husband and wife, and it's normal to live together. Even if you want money, you can't go so far, 100,000 at a time, 1 million a month, it's better to grab it. I responded, "No, it's more reasonable than robbing." Didn't you force me to do this?You can collect rent, and I can rent my own house. Although we are husband and wife, it does not mean that I am your property. If you want to be with me, you have to give money, 100,000 at a time, 1 million a month, 10 million a year. I don't force you, it doesn't matter if you agree or not, you decide for yourself. ”
My husband said, "This will lead to our divorce, I don't agree to this, the rent is my mother's request, it has nothing to do with me." I just agree with her. I replied, "I didn't force you to agree to me, you can do whatever you want." If you want to come to my room, you have to pay, this is rent, don't think about coming in if you don't give it. You said that you are rarely at home, 1000 yuan is enough, right?If you don't come into my room, I don't want you to give me a penny, so I'll have a good time. You took advantage, I don't force you, see what you do. With that, I went back to my room without looking back.
Then my husband knocked on the door and said angrily, "Don't do this, we're only on the second day of our marriage, how can you treat me like this?".We're husband and wife, so you can let me in. I'm your husband, shouldn't I live together?I responded, "Although you are my husband, the law does not stipulate that husband and wife must live together." If you want to come in, you have to pay 100,000 yuan once, and you can pay at any time, Alipay, WeChat or cash. Don't expect to come in without paying. ”
My husband became more and more anxious, and finally said, "I really can't do anything about this, I'm going to go in." I replied coldly, "Let's sleep next door in the future, and don't bother me if it's okay, unless you pay." Living with me, paying rent is a matter of course, I have the final say. If you come to live with me, I have the final say on how much it is. The more determined I was, the angrier my mother-in-law became. She then said, "How can you do this, this house is mine, and it is natural to collect rent." ”
I responded, "Rent it to me, it's mine." How I collect the rent is my business, and it has nothing to do with you. I didn't force you to come into my room, you can do it yourself, I don't care, it's good to live alone. "In the end we got into a fight, and I ended up kicking them all out, and I really didn't want to argue anymore. When the neighbors heard about this, they expressed their opinions. Am I wrong?If they hadn't gone too far, would I have been like this?Am I wrong for doing this?If it were you, what would you do?