In August 2023, Siqin Gaowa has entered the stage of life at the age of 73 and entered her old age. Her hair has turned silvery-white, and her face reveals the traces of time, but she still insists on doing acting work in China in a wheelchair.
Siqin Gaowa's marriage experience has not been smooth, she has experienced the pain of two divorces. However, she did not give up the pursuit of love, and finally chose to marry far away from Switzerland and became a Swiss-Chinese.
Life was going well, but I never thought that in the cold February of 2022, Siqin Gaowa's partner and ** family Chen Liangsheng passed away unexpectedly, leaving her alone on Swiss soil.
Siqin Gaowa's children have chosen to settle down in Beijing, and she has no other relatives to accompany her in Switzerland. In her later years, Siqin Gaowa felt emotionally lonely and full of attachment to her children, which was embarrassing ...... this current situation of life
Siqin Gaowa was born on January 20, 1950 in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia. Her father was an old Red Army, her mother Wu Yun worked in the local court, and she had two younger brothers, and the family lived a simple and happy life.
However, fate was not always merciful to Siqingova's family. When she was six years old, her father died of illness, and the family's life suddenly fell into a trough.
Wu Yun is responsible for raising three children on his own, and faces multiple pressures of physical, financial and mental pressure. Seeing that her life was so difficult, relatives and friends enthusiastically searched for a suitable partner for her.
However, for someone like Wu Yun, it becomes extremely difficult to take one step further. Because once someone is willing to marry her, it is equivalent to taking on the responsibility of four people. Wu Yun once tried a blind date, but the man was afraid of the burden being too heavy and was unwilling to enter the palace of marriage with her.
In 1959, Wu Yun finally met a like-minded person with him. This man, who also works in the judicial system in Ningcheng County, has also experienced emotional setbacks. He didn't dislike Wu Yun and already had three children.
Someone kindly advised Siqin Gaova: You should stop your mother from remarrying as soon as possible, otherwise you and your brother will suffer sins as soon as your stepfather enters the house.
Siqin Gaowa joined forces with her two younger brothers and insisted that her mother break up with each other. When the stepfather-to-be came to the house, Siqin Gaowa and her younger brothers blocked the door and prevented him from entering.
Wu Yun said to the children with a heartache: Mom is really hard, and my uncle did not come to the house to abuse you, but to give you fatherly love.
The soon-to-be-stepfather, realizing that Siqin Gaowa had entered a mature age and was relatively more sensible. So, he began to use some means to "curry" with her. He bought a beautiful flower dress for Siqin Gaowa, gave her a cute plastic stationery box, and even took her to the ** movie.
Coupled with the fact that Siqin Gaowa's mother always praised the benefits of her stepfather in front of her, this made Siqin Gaova's attitude towards her stepfather begin to change.
Next, she began to persuade her two younger brothers and told them in a scaring way: If you don't listen to me, I won't take you to play. Since the two younger brothers have always relied on Siqin Gaowa, they no longer object to their mother's remarriage.
About half a year later, Wu Yun took her three children to enter the palace of marriage again.
Soon after her mother remarried, she had a child with her stepfather, and the two adults took care of so many children, plus they had to work, so they were obviously too busy, so they sent Siqin Gaowa and her younger brothers to their grandparents.
Although they live with their grandparents, however, due to their advanced age. In addition to taking care of her younger brothers, Siqin Gaowa also has to take on some housework within her ability.
At that time, Siqin Gaowa often followed her grandparents with her five little brothers. The daily task is to herd sheep, cattle and dig wild vegetables.
In addition to these, Siqin Gaowa also likes to dance very much, and is very talented, and she relied on it when she was in junior high school"Cup Dance" became famous in the local area, and later, because of the dance, he changed his fate.
At a chance moment in 1965, she had the honor to participate in the National Art Show held in Beijing. On stage, she danced lightly, attracting everyone's attention.
After the performance, the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe took a strong interest in her and hoped that she could join their team to perform together.
However, to join the song and dance troupe, she needs to go through some formalities related to her hometown. But at that time, Siqin Gaowa lived in very poor and didn't even have enough money to pay for the round-trip journey.
Just when she felt helpless and ready to give up. Her grandmother shuddered and took out forty dollars. For their family, this money was a huge asset at the time.
Later, Siqin Gaowa learned that her grandmother had to sell the only two sheep in the family in order to raise the money.
In this way, with the help of her grandmother, Siqin Gaowa successfully entered the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe, and since then she has devoted all her experience to practicing Xi dance. Soon, she made her mark in the song and dance troupe.
In addition to her role as a dancer, the leadership gave her the duties of announcer. Just as Siqin Gaowa is getting closer and closer to her dream, she meets a man who she regrets for the rest of her life.
At that time, Siqin Gaowa met twenty-five-year-old Sun Tianxiang in the song and dance troupe. When she was young, Siqin Gaowa had three-dimensional facial features and an exotic appearance, which made Sun Tianxiang fall in love at first sight and began to pursue Siqin Gaowa frantically.
Siqin Gaowa has not had a father since she was a child, and she gradually developed a good impression of this man who was nearly nine years older than herself. Two years later, at the age of eighteen, she decided to marry Sun Tianxiang.
After getting married, she welcomed a pair of lovely children. However, when she thought she had found a lifelong partner, she didn't expect that the tragedy had just begun.
After spending a happy time, Siqin Gaowa gradually discovered that Sun Tianxiang was an emotionally unstable and extremely irritable person.
At first, the two only occasionally argued. However, in the back, Sun Tianxiang actually began to punch and kick her.
The reason is also very simple, that is, with Siqin Gaowa's emergence in the entertainment industry, she inevitably had frequent contact with some male actors during the filming process.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1975, Sun Tianxiang heard that she had a close relationship with a certain male colleague in the regiment, and that he was extremely possessive and controlling.
This domestic violence incident left Siqin Gaowa completely disheartened.
The next day, she did not hesitate to file for divorce from Sun Tianxiang. Eventually, the court ruled that the daughter should be raised by her, while the son followed her ex-husband.
Siqin Gaowa never expected that this court's ruling would cause her and her son to have a huge conflict later.
The failure of this marriage left Siqin Gaowa at a low point for a while, and she devoted all her energy to her acting career.
After the divorce, Siqin Gaowa quickly joined the crew and began to shoot "Occupation, Collar and Song". However, due to the sensitivity of the subject matter, the film was not completed in the end, which made Siqin Gaowa feel a little regretful. However, it was in the process that she met her second husband, Ao Xingchen.
Ao Xingchen is a translator fluent in Mongolian and Chinese, and he plays multiple roles in the crew, including translator, guide and drama manager. He is tall and handsome, and he gradually resonates emotionally with Siqin Gaowa.
Ao Xingchen didn't mind Siqin Gaowa's divorce and taking care of the children, and Siqin Gaowa also took a fancy to Ao Xingchen's gentleness. The two quickly decided to get married.
In 1978, Beijing Bayi Film Studio went to Inner Mongolia to look for an actor suitable to play the heroine "Yuzhen" in the movie "Return, Heart, Like, Arrow", and finally selected Siqin Gaowa.
However, fate seems to play some tricks on people, and Siqingova is pregnant. She attached great importance to this opportunity to perform, so she discussed with Ao Xingchen to have an abortion first, and then consider fertility later.
But the problem is that Ao Xingchen is full of expectations for the arrival of this new life. He longed to be able to continue this joy and make this child a testimony of their love. However, he is also well aware that Siqin Gaowa's career has just started, and she needs more time and energy to pursue her dreams. Therefore, despite the contradictions in his heart, he reluctantly agreed to her request.
Later, Siqin Gaowa successfully finished filming "Return, Heart, Like Arrow", after the film was released, it was a huge success, Siqin Gaowa became popular all of a sudden, and it was also at this time that Bayi Factory threw an olive branch to Siqin Gaowa. This also gave Siqin Gaowa a chance to go to Bayi Film Studio as an actor.
Siqin Gaowa did not want to give up this opportunity, and she was even more reluctant to live separately from her husband. So, she asked that as long as she was transferred, Ao Xingchen must also be transferred at the same time.
Bayi Film Studio gladly accepted Siqin Gaowa's application as an actor, while Ao Xingchen served as a producer.
One is in front of the stage and the other is behind the scenes, and the gap is destined to gradually widen.
In 1982, the movie "Camel, Xiang, Zi" was released, Siqin Gaowa quickly became popular, she was well-known to the audience for the role of "Tiger Girl", and won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress and the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actress.
Siqin Gaowa has become a dazzling star, her time is occupied by her career, and she can't take care of childbirth.
Under the shroud of his wife's light, Ao Xingchen gradually felt inferior. Whether in career or in life, he is not as glamorous as his wife. Although he regards Sun Dan as his own, deep down he still longs to have children of his own.
In the end, Ao Xingchen couldn't bear this situation anymore and took the initiative to file for divorce.
Siqin Gaowa experienced two failed marriages, which made her completely lose faith in love.
In order to quickly get rid of the troubles of her last relationship, she devoted all her energy to her career, and has been in the film industry for many years, bringing countless classic works to the audience, such as "Big House, Door", "Kang, Xi, Wang, Dynasty", etc., and has also won four actress laurels.
Seeing that her career is getting better and better, Siqin Gaowa can't feel a trace of joy. The reason is that her son was sent to prison.
After Sun Tianxiang divorced Siqin Gaowa, he took his son Sun Tie to start a new life.
Despite his failed marriages, Sun doesn't seem to have learned his lessons. He still maintains a Xi of violence towards his new wife.
During a heated argument, an angry Sun Tianxiang actually stabbed his wife with a knife, and as a result, he was imprisoned.
Sun Tie grew up in an environment full of quarrels and scolding, which made his personality very withdrawn.
When his father Sun Tianxiang was imprisoned, Sun Tie completely became a child that no one loved. However, instead of reaching out to his mother, he chose to live a self-defeating lifestyle.
When he was 14 years old, Sun Tie was imprisoned for participating in fights. Siqin Gaowa, who learned about this, was anxious, and she tried her best to save her son, but everything was to no avail, which also became an eternal regret in Siqin Gaowa's heart.
In 1984, director Ling Zifeng mysteriously found Siqin Gaowa. As soon as the two met, he made his intentions straightforward.
I have arranged a wonderful marriage for you, which is definitely suitable for you. ”
Although Siqin Gaowa has lost hope in love, seeing Ling Zifeng's such a firm guarantee, it is difficult for her to refuse directly.
With the mentality of love at first sight, Siqin Gaowa met Chen Liangsheng under the introduction of Ling Zifeng. Chen Liangsheng, the elder Siqin Gaowa is 17 years old, and is an internationally renowned composer.
Because he had admired Siqin Gaowa's film works, Chen Liangsheng had long admired her. Now that he finally had the opportunity to meet her face to face, he did not hesitate to express his admiration to Siqin Gaowa.
But Siqin Gaowa was already desperate for love, so he politely declined the other party's pursuit, however, Chen Liangsheng was unwilling to give up, and in the days to come, he had been sincerely pursuing Siqin Gaowa, and in the end, Siqin Gaowa was moved by the other party's sincerity, and the two came together.
In 1986, Siqin Gaowa and Chen Liangsheng tied the knot and began the third marriage in her life.
However, after marrying Chen Liangsheng, Siqin Gaowa chose to live in Switzerland, a decision that caused some controversy.
However, what is surprising is that in less than a year, Siqin Gaowa returned to China because she couldn't give up her love for acting.
Chen Liangsheng did not object to this, on the contrary, he respected and supported Siqin Gaowa very much to continue to engage in the acting industry.
In 19**, Siqin Gaowa participated in many works one after another. And Chen Liangsheng always follows closely, no matter whether Siqin Gaowa is filming in **, he will accompany her, as if they are a couple who have just fallen in love, cherishing every moment of time together.
In 2006, Siqin Gaowa decided to direct and act in a film called "Moon, Crescent, Child". Chen Liangsheng became a supernumerary member of this team. At one point, in order to show the grief and helplessness of the actors, they needed to use some ambient sound to enhance the atmosphere.
Often, people choose thunder and lightning to add to the effect of the environment. This time, however, Siqingova wanted to try a different approach.
After many thoughts and attempts, we still can't find a satisfactory solution. Until Chen Liangsheng made a suggestion: use Xiao Sheng and wooden fish as the background** to bring out the inner world of the characters. The suggestion caught everyone's eye, so they decided to give it a try.
After practice, they found that Chen Liangsheng's suggestion was unexpectedly effective. The sound of the flute and the sound of the wooden fish complement the actors' performances, adding a unique emotional touch to the whole scene. This innovative sound effect choice allows the audience to feel the inner world of the characters more deeply, making the whole film more vivid and moving.
Chen Liangsheng is not only Siqin Gaowa's partner in life, but also her right-hand man in her career. His wisdom and insights have injected new vitality into Siqin Gaowa's career, and his vision and pattern have become Siqin Gaowa's endless wealth.
However, as the years passed, Chen Liangsheng gradually entered old age, and various physical problems began to appear.
For the sake of her husband, Siqin Gaowa decided not to film frequently. However, Chen Liangsheng was unwilling to be a burden to her and advised her to reduce her workload.
He believes that it is enough to shoot only one film a year, which is neither too busy nor boring.
Since 2014, Siqin Gaowa has followed Chen Liangsheng's advice and only accepted one play a year. Once the filming is complete, she will immediately go home to accompany her husband Chen Liangsheng.
's career is thriving, and her relationship with her husband Chen Liangsheng is still indestructible after years. It would be nice if life could always be so good!
However, on February 28, 2022, Chen Liangsheng passed away, and the partner who had walked hand in hand with Siqin Gaowa for 35 years passed away.
For Siqin Gaowa, who is over seventy years old, widowhood in old age is undoubtedly a huge blow!
The departure of her husband has left Siqin Gaowa in a trance, unable to accept the feeling of emptiness in her home and unable to face everything that her husband once knew. Every time she closed her eyes, the figure of her husband would come to her mind, which made her feel extremely painful.
In addition, Siqin Gaowa's children are all in China, which makes Siqin Gaowa even more lonely in her heart, and her daughter Sun Dan has been worried about her mother and persuaded her to return to China to live. However, Chen Liangsheng died in Switzerland, which made Siqingova reluctant to leave.
In order to be closer to her husband, Siqingova prefers to live alone in Switzerland. Her persistence was touching and tearful.
She is willing to stick to her husband, and for this sincere love, she is willing to accompany him to old age.