Mr. Ji Xianlin said, "Some people think that longevity is a blessing, but I don't think that's necessarily the case. People have lived too long, and they have seen all kinds of aspects of life and all kinds of beings thoroughly, but they are less inspired and more sighing. It is far better to leave the world as soon as possible, the place of right and wrong, and leave an ear and a clean ear. ”
When a person goes through all kinds of hardships in life, in his old age, he finds that life is still full of suffering. So, how easy is it to enjoy a comfortable old age?
In a person's life, we may not have to pursue longevity too much, as long as we can spend each day to the fullest, do what we should do, and be ready to leave at any time, we may not face the final humiliation.
Whether longevity is a good thing depends on whether the body is healthy and whether the material foundation is sufficient, because although some people live a long life, they struggle with illness, which not only troubles others, but also pains themselves, and loses the dignity of life.
Some people, due to the lack of basic living security, cannot enjoy the joy of life, and cannot see the hope of the future, so they gradually lose confidence in life. Perhaps, leaving the world early is also a relief for them.
And those who have experienced the ups and downs have seen through everything in life and understand the impermanence of the world. They no longer expect too much longevity so as not to suffer more disappointment and suffering.
Life is just a process, everyone's experience is different, and the length of everyone's life is not the same. But as long as we can face challenges with a normal heart, be open-minded, have less internal friction and anxiety, and live a rich and interesting life, then longevity is also a kind of happiness.
Just imagine being able to take care of yourself, not to cause trouble to others, to enjoy life well, and to feel the beauty of things around you. Isn't this kind of life much better than sighing and feeling sorry for yourself every day?
In this world, everyone has their own values and lifestyle, but no matter what kind of life, there will be joys and sorrows. We don't have to strive for perfection, as long as it suits us, it is the best.
In fact, the meaning of life is the true feeling in our hearts, as well as the choices we make in life at every critical juncture.
Some people choose to trade their health for wealth when they are young, but when they are old and infirm, they realize that no amount of money can buy them back.
There are also people who use all means to pursue fame and fortune when they are young, and they end up betraying their relatives. When they are old, they find that the fame and fortune they once had disappeared like a cloud.
Others find it particularly painful whatever they choose. But in fact, when I was old, I realized that all living beings are suffering, no matter who they are, they are constantly redeeming themselves in joy and sorrow.
Life has its ups and downs, fame, money, joy, and sorrow. It's just an empty dream. In this case, it is better to enjoy every moment of life, especially in old age, and live every second meaningfully.
If it is simply to increase the length of life, to live for the sake of living, and to lose the quality of life, this kind of "longevity" should not be done.
People are busy all their lives, accustomed to seeing the warmth and coldness of life, joys and sorrows, although not everything can be as they wish, but we should still maintain the love of life.
Yu Hongmin said: "Every day in life, the sun rises, and every day you see the sun set. You can see the morning glow, see the sunset, see the moon rise and set, see the sky full of stars, and that's the most beautiful meaning of being alive. ”
The true meaning of life lies in the experience and perception of every moment and moment. We should enjoy the beauty of life and cherish the present time, just to live up to our life journey.
Perhaps, the trajectory of life has long been destined, as long as you go with the flow, do not complain, do not regret, so it may be the best life.
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