In this world, honest people are often considered soft persimmons, as if they were born with the label of "bullying me", and it is difficult to counterattack. But actually, we often say:"Man is not as good as heaven. ”If you think about this sentence carefully, you will find that the reason why honest people are bullied is that most of them don't understand these three articles"Celestial rules".
"Rabbits bite when they are in a hurry": Don't be too patient, turn your face when it's time to turn your face
There was once an ancient girl, Hu Shi, who married Liu Yan, an officer. This girl is beautiful, and she has to pamper the queen mother in the palace. But when Liu Yan saw that Hu Shi was back, he didn't greet her, but suspected that she had a leg with the emperor. Then a family version of the "Quarrel War" began.
In such an era of male superiority and inferiority to women, most women "lost their husbands and kept their chastity", but Hu is unusual. Not only did she not endure it silently, but she also wrote a letter of resignation, and as soon as the paper was handed over to Zhuge Liang, the result was that Liu Yan was beheaded.
So,Rabbits bite when they are in a hurry". Honest man, you are usually docile and cute like the rabbit, but when you are bullied, you have to have the courage to bite.
"When things go wrong, there must be demons": Don't believe in people at will, and have an eye for everything
Have you ever trusted someone unconditionally?Or have you ever been deceived because you were naïve?
There is an old fable here, "Mr. Dongguo and the wolf". Mr. Dongguo saw a wounded wolf and quietly helped it avoid the pursuit of the hunters. But in fact, the wolf was a deliberate wound, and the hunter was its accomplice. Mr. Dong Guo blindly believed that he was finally betrayed by the wolf and paid a terrible price.
This is "there must be a demon when things go wrong", honest people, when you encounter strange things, don't believe it so easily. You think the other party is a wounded wolf, but in fact it may be a "demon" waiting to bite you!It's right to be suspicious of your own kind, but it's even more right to be suspicious of outsiders.
"Persimmon picks up soft pinch": Be a man, don't be a soft persimmon, have some personality
Bullying the soft and fearing the hard, this is the philosophy of many honest people. Honest people are easily labeled with a label: "soft persimmon", then they have to learn to tear off this label.
Did you know?The Matthew effect tells us that as much as a person becomes stronger, he will become stronger and stronger. is like Yang Guo was unpopular when he first appeared, and was identified as a character who "walked crookedly". But he didn't stand still, but by showing his personality, he ended up gaining respect.
Life is like this, take a little time to form your own personality, let others see that you are not good to bully, and become the person who is "not easy to mess with". Learn to refuse help, take the initiative to stay away from right and wrong, put on an indifferent appearance, do some "bad things", and make yourself like a bitter persimmon.
One light, another light
There will always be one or two times in life, but after a few tosses, you will go ashore. Don't wait for someone else to save you, the greatest savior is yourself.
In the journey of life, if you encounter setbacks and injustices, don't be discouraged. Remember, if you push the honest man into a hurry, you won't even have a chance to kneel. Learn to be courageous and act when bad luck is bad.
Challenge the rules of heaven and counterattack life
Honest people, this world does not belong only to the strong. Mastering the three rules of "rabbits bite when they are in a hurry", "there must be demons when things go wrong", and "persimmons pick up soft pinch", you can also change your fate and counterattack life.
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