The sky is blue, and the jubilant Spring Festival atmosphere fills the old aunt's house. Two sons and daughters-in-law, as well as two lovely grandchildren, gathered together, and the family was warm and harmonious. My aunt's heart was full of joy, and the family laughed and spent a happy New Year together. However, because of the unfair treatment of giving red envelopes to grandchildren, it has brought irreparable regret and family rifts.
My aunt has two cousins in the family, the eldest cousin andTwo tablesElder brother. The eldest cousin and eldest cousin are state employeeslifeabundance, whileTwo tablesBrother andTwo tablesMy sister-in-law can only do odd jobslifeNot rich. To helpTwo tablesMy brother's family got through the difficulties, and my aunt often helped her, and she used her own money to buy all kinds of delicacies andHousehold items, sent toTwo tablesBrother's family, let themlifeSlightly better.
During the Chinese New Year this year, my aunt decided to give red envelopes to her two grandchildren, but she made a different choice. For the children of her eldest cousin's family, she gave out a red envelope of 1,000 yuan;And forTwo tablesThe children of her brother's family, she gave out a red envelope of 2,000 yuan. I thought that this would not be noticed, and there was nothing wrong with it. The second family is in financial difficulty, so it is also appropriate to give more. Moreover, she believes that no one knows about her actions, and she is even more convinced that there will be no problems.
However, everything was revealed at that moment when the children easily opened the red envelope. When the two children counted the money, they found that the amount of red envelopes was different, and the eldest cousin's child immediately went to tell his mother and asked why his red envelopes were 1,000 yuan more than his younger brother. The eldest cousin's daughter-in-law thinks that the number of children is wrongAngryreprimanded him, because in her heart, both grandsons were equal. However, the child insisted on his own statement, so the eldest cousin's daughter-in-law checked the red envelope of the second grandson and found that it was 1,000 yuan more than the red envelope of the eldest grandson.
The eldest cousin's family, who were tormented, confused and angry, left silently after getting into the car. After returning home, the eldest cousin called the old aunt and complained about her unfair treatment of her grandchildren. He asked her why the same grandson was treated differently and why he had become unimportant in his grandmother's mind. And, he said they don't care about the amount of money, they have enough money. They only care that their children can be treated fairly and let them know that they are just as important as grandma's heart.
After listening to the anger and accusations of her eldest cousin, my heart was full of self-blame and remorse. She felt that her impulsive behavior and thoughtless approach had taken a heavy toll on the entire family. In the past, she used this way to distribute red envelopes, but why did the problem come to light this year?
The people around her persuaded her not to blame herself too much, and she could give the children an extra 1,000 yuan for town affairs. The old lady felt that she could not accept their kindness, and she knew that her unfair treatment had left a shadow in the hearts of her grandchildren. She realizes that her decisions will cause her to lose the love and trust of her grandchildren, making them suspicious and disgusted with her.
After this incident, I deeply realized that it is important to treat children with respect and fairness. In the family, every child deserves to be treated and cared for fairly. Although the difference in the amount of red envelopes is just an impulsive act in the eyes of the old girl, it has caused a huge sense of loss and unfairness in the hearts of the children.
As a guide for children as they grow up, we should give them equal opportunities and treatment. No matter what their background, every child has the right to be treated with the same care and attention. We can't divide children into classes based on material differences, which will only make them feel frustrated and unfair.
In order to mend the rift caused by the red envelope issue, I think my aunt should take timely action and re-declare her love and care. She can give the children an extra 1,000 yuan in red envelopes again and admit her negligence and mistakes to them. She could explain the mistake by citing her advanced age and confusion. At the same time, she should show her children her deep love and importance for them, so that they feel that there is no difference in her heart.
In addition to making adjustments to the red envelopes, I think we should also pay attention to the equal treatment of children on a daily basis. Regardless of whether it is inlifeIn the trivial matters or in the process of education, we should adhere to the principle of justice and treat all children equally. In this way, they can establish correct values in the process of growing up, believing that their position in the family is irreplaceable and irreplaceable.
Through this story, I deeply reflected on the way I treat my children in my family. As parents, siblings, relatives, friends, or others, we should treat our children fairly and respectfully in our actions and words. Differences in class, wealth, and position should not be a sign of children's status, and we should treat each child with an attitude of equality, justice and respect.
In the futurelifeI will pay more attention to the equal treatment of every child. Whether it's handing out red envelopes, assigning tasks, educating and guiding, or in other ways, I will treat each child with fairness and respect. I believe that only in this way can our family be more harmonious and happy, and let every child feel equal and valued in their hearts. It is only through our unremitting efforts that we can build a solid love and trust in the hearts of every child.