Since the TV series "The World" became very popular, there has always been such a saying on the Internet: "Only children who have no interest are here to repay the kindness".
Zhou Bingkun's outstanding performance in the work "The World", although slightly inferior to his brother and sister, his care and care for his parents and family, as well as his filial piety and hard work, deeply touched everyone in front of the TV.
Indeed, Bingkun was a responsible, good man and son, who was sincere and warm-hearted, kind-hearted, filial to his parents, full of concern for his friends, and always took care of his parents wholeheartedly until old age. He was also very filial to his children and never let them worry about their lives. As a parent, who wouldn't want a son as wonderful as Bingkun?Especially those who are old, they cherish Bingkun even more, because as they grow older, it is really a very happy thing to have a considerate and good son by their side!
However, is it really "the children who have no interest who come to repay the favor"?
No, definitely don't believe it easily!
Let's start by focusing on the three siblings of the Zhou family in the play.
From an open point of view, it seems that all the affairs of the Zhou family's parents are constantly worried and tired by Zhou Bingkun. Zhou Rong's mother fainted due to concern for her daughter Zhou Rong and became in a vegetative state, and Bingkun and Zheng Juan were in charge of taking care of her
Zhou Rong's daughter Yueyue, when she was growing up, always lived in her grandmother's house and was raised by her uncle and aunt;After his retirement, Zhou's father always lived with Bingkun's family, and he neither lived in his daughter's house nor spent a day in his eldest son's house
Zhou's father and grandson Congcong were playing chess when they suddenly fainted, he was Bingkun and a group of his friends who rushed their father to the hospital, while Bingyi and Zhou Rong rushed home after their father returned home from the hospital.
As the audience, we all witnessed the hard work of Bingkun and Zheng Juan and were deeply touched by them. However, we have seen that they also have a lot of helplessness and regrets!
Some viewers expressed misgivings about Bingkun Zhengjuan, who thought that since Bingkun Zhengjuan had been taking care of his parents for so many years, he should contribute even if his brother and sister did not put in the effort, and they never went home to receive any expenses.
In fact, this is really a misunderstanding of Bingyi and Zhou Rong. In the TV series "My Motherland and Me", they worked together to make great contributions to the country. In their original **, Bingyi and Zhou Rong have provided financial support to Bingkun more than once.
There are no such details involved in the TV series, or the screenwriter and director deliberately downplayed Bingyi and Zhou Rong's contributions to the family, and emphasized Bingkun's selfless dedication to the family, thus shaping the image of Bingkun as a filial and good son.
That being said, although Bingyi and Zhou Rong never paid Bingkun money, they have brought many unknown benefits and advantages to Bingkun over the past many years.
First of all, we want to ** why Bingkun chose to hold a position in the magazine?This is because he met Shao Jingwen, the benefactor of his life. Because how did he get to this newspaper?As a worker, how did he get acquainted with the editor-in-chief of a magazine?The reason why this is so is because of her brother-in-law, Feng Huacheng.
Without sisters and brothers-in-law like Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, as well as ordinary workers like Bingkun, it would be difficult to have the opportunity to meet literati.
Next, the reason why Bingkun was able to be transferred from the wood processing factory to work in the soy sauce factory was because who he needed to help?
Cai Xiaoguang. Why did Cai Xiaoguang reach out to help him?It's not because Cai Xiaoguang has a good impression of Zhou Rong.
Over the past few decades, Cai Xiaoguang has provided countless assistance to the Zhou family, and whenever the Zhou family is in trouble, he will not hesitate to lend a helping hand, providing funds and advice. All of this is because Bingkun's sister is named Zhou Rong.
Third, Gong Wei was particularly friendly and polite to Bingkun's family. When Bingkun was imprisoned, Zheng Juan's stall was forcibly taken away by the chengguan. Gong Wei went to the chengguan in person, retrieved her car for Zheng Juan, and brought back gifts and two hundred yuan for Zheng Juan.
Although Gong Wei's attitude has changed at the moment, he still maintains a deep concern for the relationship between the Zhou family and Bingkun. On the one hand, the reason why Bingkun is loved by people is because of his help to Gong Weize in the past, Gong Wei is out of respect for Bingkun's eldest brother Bingyi, and on the other hand, it is also because of the prestige of Bingkun's eldest brother Bingyi.
Fourth, Bingyi led the development of the light word piece, and Bingkun understood his brother's intentions at the first time. Not only did he support his brother, but he also became his first family to move into a new community, and as a result, he was given a discount on the area of the house, and he was given priority to the first floor with a façade.
Not only Bingkun, but even Bingkun's close friends National Day and Catch-up were also implicated. No, the son of the National Day also has to apply for the house ownership certificate. The reason why Guoqing chose to be with Bingkun was because he believed that Bingkun (Bingkun would stand by Bingyi's side later), so he was also assigned to the façade room on the first floor like Bingkun.
And the reason why he overtook his home was because Zheng Juan of Bingkun was willing to transfer Zheng Juan's old house to Yu Hong. Because they all know that if they want to sell their house, they must first apply for a title deed. However, Zheng Juan encountered some obstacles in the transfer process, which was successfully completed because of Bingyi's special approval.
Although it seems that Bingkun selflessly helped his friend, in fact, Bingyi also put a lot of effort into it. He is a responsible and compassionate person who is always able to lend a helping hand in the face of others' difficulties. Of course, following justice does not mean taking sides.
He knows his brother's situation and knows that brothers should take care of each other, support each other, and grow together. However, Bingkun also unknowingly experienced some of the benefits that his brother brought him.
In daily life, if someone has an older brother like Bingyi, then when dealing with affairs, he only needs to mention the name of the elder brother casually, and things will become much simpler.
If Bingyi and Zhou Rong both work in factories like Bingkun, and even face the same dilemma of layoffs and unemployment as the National Day couple, then the living conditions of the Zhou family, a big family, will not be much better than that of the National Day and the catch-up family.
In the original work, Bingkun felt fortunate because whenever he faced difficulties, his brother and sister were able to provide financial assistance in time to help him get through it. However, on the day of the National Day, they were not as lucky as him.
What was the life of the two days of National Day and catching up with the family?On the day of the National Day, my father chose to commit suicide because of financial difficulties, and Catch Up chose to lie on the track because of lack of funds. Imagine them, can you still say things like, "A child who has no money is here to repay the favor"?
Don't you show filial piety during the National Day?Isn't chasing a love of home?They really don't have the ability to create a better life for their parents and family!
Moreover, Bingkun is not really without a future. He grew up with the help of his older siblings, so they also respected and loved him. The phrase "unproductive" is actually just a comparison with his siblings. Compared with his friends National Day, Catch-up and Debao, Bingkun undoubtedly showed extraordinary talent.
If it weren't for Luo Shibin's influence, Bingkun would have shown an increasingly prosperous trend in both his career and family. Maybe he wouldn't have achieved what he has today, right?He eventually got a formal position at the magazine and was the manager of the magazine's hotels, and he believed that with his hard work and ability, his performance would definitely go to the next level!
Bingkun's performance at this stage has surpassed many ordinary men, so don't think that he is unproductive. His brother is a very accomplished actor, but he has not made much progress in his career. The reason why Bingkun is considered mediocre is because his brother's aura is too dazzling.
We often feel that those children who have no interest are here to repay their kindness, this is because in the work "The World", Bingkun's performance is so good that he is deeply loved by us, so there is the so-called "survivor bias".
I think this can also be said to be the most memorable part of "The World". We selectively ignore the National Day and chase after those men who are really unproductive, which leads to the family in a difficult situation, only to see Zhou's father and Zhou's mother enjoy the filial piety and care of their youngest son.
In our daily life, it is common to see a neighbor's boy or girl, despite their ordinary work, they are very filial to their parents, often accompany their parents to go shopping, buy clothes and food for them, and take them to the hospital in time when their parents are sick.
Children who grow up in such an environment will also think that their parents are great and very good. In this case, those elderly people whose children stay in first-tier cities to work because they have a profit and cannot go home often, or who cannot accompany them because their children often travel on business, will say enviously: "Look, what is the use of children's income?"It's not as good as those ordinary people, parents can enjoy the blessings of their children!”
But is this really true?If children are truly unproductive and have lost their jobs, they may also need to rely on their parents' pensions to make ends meetIf you don't have the money, you can't afford to pay for your medical expenses. So, how can children address these issues?
The parent has a serious illness that makes it impossible for them to afford medical bills, and although the child wants to be a parent**, he is frustrated and helpless due to financial difficulties;
Other people's children will take their parents around on holidays, taste all kinds of food, take pictures of beautiful **, and enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest, while children with poor economic conditions can only take their parents to hang out in the nearby park.
To make matters worse, since the children do not have enough money to buy a property and a car, and they do not have the funds to get married, all these major problems need the help of parents to solve;There are also parents who send their children to work in other places and hand over the house to themselves, but let their children buy a commercial house, and they have to look for a job again.
They get into heated arguments, sometimes escalating into physical altercations, over their parents' property or part of their property;Some people choose not to look for work after losing their jobs, but instead choose to spend time at home, play games, and rely almost entirely on their parents for their daily lives;After some couples divorce, they even have to rely on their parents to support their houses and cars. These problems have become one of the most serious social problems in today's society.
Some family members do not work and when they have no money, they turn to their parents for help, and if they don't have money, they don't hesitate to hit or scold.
This kind of unproductive child is not a behavior of not repaying, but is called a "debt collector".
Of course, there are also some children who are very disrespectful to their parents. Although their parents have worked hard all their lives, they have never cared for them like children.
Still, they don't need their parents to worry about their lives, nor do they need their parents to save money from between their teeth for them to spend.
In the work "The World", Bingkun is described as a very filial person. But I don't know if you have ever thought about it, since the house that Bingkun exchanged was forcibly repossessed, Bingkun's family has been living with their parents in the light word film, which actually means that they have lost their residence and have been living in their parents' home.
So in his heart, the light word piece is his home. However, during the eventual development and relocation of the light word piece, he naturally had a new residence without any objections from his older brother and sister.
On the one hand, Bingyi and Zhou Rong have a good relationship and a broad vision, and their parents have always been taken care of by their younger brother, so they naturally won't compete with their younger brother for that poor property;
The other is that they have had a common dream since they were young - to be a writer when they grow up. On the other hand, the children taught by Zhou Zhigang are kind, tolerant and not selfish, and the relationship between them is harmonious as siblings.
As a parent, you never expect your children to get ahead. Although their children may fly far in the future, their parents are still willing to be a support for them to spread their wings.
We should abandon the misconception that only unproductive children are there to repay the favor!
We have a responsibility to teach our children, to inspire them to be passionate about learning, to constantly strive for progress and excellence, even if their talents and talents are not yet outstanding, to continue to strive to exceed their limits.
We should motivate children not to be birds under the roof, but to be eagles with wings spread out, to fly as high as they can, and to help them fly as far as they can.
Children may excel, like Zhou Bingyi, who abandons his family to lead a city's residents to a better futureAlthough it may seem ordinary, it will persevere and contribute to the progress and development of society.
Every parent wants their child to get ahead and lead a successful life. Although everyone's talent is limited, most children will eventually become ordinary people.
Regardless of whether the children are "promising" or "unproductive", as long as they are honest and kind, love life, have good conduct, and go all the way, as parents, they will be satisfied!