Emotion
In our lives, love is always with us, and everyone is looking for their own exclusive feelings. But have you ever thought that you think you like a lot of people, but in fact, you just like a person's shadow many times?This is the topic we are going to ** today: the psychological mystery of love.
1.Love Illusion:**
We've all had the experience of seeing someone at first glance, as if we had found the missing piece in our hearts. In fact, this is just a desire for love, and when you dig deeper, you will find that this person is not necessarily your true love.
2.Shadow Lover: **
Have you ever wondered why we often look for the same traits in different people?This is because we subconsciously project our feelings for someone person onto someone else. This is called a "shadow lover".
3.Love Transfer:**
When a relationship doesn't meet our needs, we often choose to give up and find a new purpose. This is the transfer of love, and this often makes us miss out on true love.
4.True Love Identification:**
How to identify true love?It's all about whether you can find a sense of security, trust, and belonging in a person. All three elements are indispensable.
5.Emotional Engagement:**
Love is not only heartwarming, but also requires emotional investment. Willing to pay for each other and work hard for this relationship is true love.
6.Love Growth:**
In love, we all need to grow. Only by letting go of the shadow of the past can we welcome a new love.
7.Hearts and Minds:**
True love is a spiritual fit. Whether your thoughts, values and attitudes towards life are the same determines whether the relationship will last long.
8.Concept of Love:**
Everyone has their own view of love, and understanding and respecting each other's view of love is the key to maintaining a relationship.
9.True Love Fearless:**
In love, we need to face reality bravely and not be afraid of difficulties and challenges. Only in this way can love be more satisfying.
10.Emotional Reincarnation:**
Love is a cycle, and every failure accumulates experience for us. Only after experiencing wind and rain can you see the rainbow.
In love, we all need to learn to Xi and grow. Understand the psychological mysteries, so that you will no longer be confused in love and find true happiness. Hopefully, this article will make you understand that loving someone is not just about liking, but also about understanding and tolerating. On the road of love, may you find that happiness that belongs to you.