Recently, the marriage documentary reality show "Goodbye Lover 3" came to a successful conclusion, and the three couples who participated in the show all made their own decisions. One of them decided to rebuild the old relationship, the other went to an open ending, and Fu Seoul and Lao Liu chose to end their marriage.
Fu Seoul said affectionately that there was no one to be sorry for between them, but they couldn't go to the end of their lives, although the choice to separate made her heartache, but this decision was more like a relief for her, bringing a sense of relief.
In the show, everyone has a choice. If someone chooses to get off, then the show will go on. However, Lao Liu's feelings for Fu Seoul have obviously not disappeared.
He sat in the car, pondered, and decided to make a rational choice, because he didn't want to cause any trouble to others.
Although Lao Liu misses Fu Seoul, he knows that she deserves a better future, and he hopes that Fu Seoul can live a happier and easier life in the future, so his decision is more out of love and a sense of responsibility for her.
At the moment when the two cars staggered by, Sun Yi couldn't help but sing "Fulfill your freedom and courage" in "Fulfillment", and she empathized with Lao Liu and Fu Seoul's desire for freedom.
can't help but recall the sentence he wrote for Fu Seoul "Help you spread your wings", using the "help" of help instead of the "wish" of wishes, and the last thing he did was to let Fu Seoul leave with dignity.
After the show was broadcast, Fu Seoul's comment area fell into chaos, and many netizens thought that she just wanted a divorce, but forced Lao Liu to take the initiative to talk about it, making Lao Liu a tool for her to maintain her face in public.
Some netizens criticized Fu Seoul's behavior of wanting to leave Lao Liu after he became developed, thinking that if the gender is reversed, she is the kind of scumbag who abandons her partner, so is their marriage problem really Fu Seoul's fault alone?
Growing up in Seoul, Fu experienced the misfortune of being a left-behind child and a grandmother who divorced her parents, which made her understand the taste of poverty and loneliness, and also shaped her tenacious and courageous character.
With his perseverance, Fu Seoul has successfully made a name for himself. Not only did she publish a new book, but she also attracted attention for her excellent eloquence and humorous image of a joker in "Strange Sayings".
Fu Seoul's soaring prosperity made her and Lao Liu's marriage relationship unbalanced, so in the relationship between the two, Lao Liu became the weak party and was suppressed by Fu Seoul everywhere.
In order to buy a favorite thing, Lao Liu had to list the shopping list one by one to Fu Seoul for approval.
Although Fu Seoul had agreed in advance to let Lao Liu choose a suit for her, she would still ask Lao Liu to change it immediately because of her dissatisfaction. Lao Liu had no choice but to obey her wishes.
When the two lamented that life was not easy now, Fu Seoul always preemptively admitted that it was all his fault, so that Lao Liu could only helplessly ask her not to blame herself too much.
Although Lao Liu's point of view is correct, in Fu Seoul's opinion, there seems to be a hint of mockery in his words. When Fu Seoul was surprised to find that the sand and gravel outside the car window was actually green, Lao Liu explained that it was because the car window was covered with film.
However, Fu Seoul did not believe Lao Liu's explanation, thinking that he was talking nonsense. Even if Lao Liu opened the car window to prove that he was right, Fu Seoul only responded indifferently: "You can."
Lao Liu, who was once high-spirited, was also a leader in the workplace. Before leaving, he had his own career in both television and advertising agencies. Now, however, he seems to have lost his former luster and become "not very incompetent".
After getting married, he was complained by Fu Seoul because of his lying down attitude to life, and Fu Seoul often ridiculed Lao Liu as a topic of debate, and even claimed that the reason for not divorcing was precisely because Lao Liu was her inspiration**.
In the 36-question session of "Goodbye Lover 3", Fu Seoul deeply analyzed the influence of her original family, the source of her personality sensitivity, and said that meeting Lao Liu was a lucky thing in her life, because Lao Liu's warmth could fill the trauma she suffered in her childhood.
Fu Seoul suddenly changed the topic, it turned out that Mr. Liu was the guiding light in her heart, illuminating the way forward. However, as she grew stronger, the darkness no longer frightened her.
Today, the lamp has lost its original value to her.
Many of the guests present were able to comprehend Fu Seoul's point of view, and only Sun Yi cried for Lao Liu alone. She said bitterly, why is everyone concerned about Fu Seoul, but no one cares about Lao Liu's feelings, can he only passively bear all this?
The Gap Between Husband and Wife: The Difference Between Running and Lying Flat The biggest trouble Fu Seoul and Lao Liu encountered in their marriage was that they had very different attitudes towards life. Fu Seoul is a fighter with energy and determination, while Lao Liu chooses to lie comfortably in place.
Although Fu Seoul tried to arouse Lao Liu's enthusiasm, let him run together, and even used his connections to let him participate in the "Talk Show Conference", Lao Liu's performance was not satisfactory.
Fu Seoul reluctantly said that Lao Liu is a senior "lying flat person", Lao Liu agrees with this identity very much, and even named his social account "Lao Liu who lies to win", which fully demonstrates his pursuit of comfort.
Fu Seoul has repeatedly emphasized that he is dissatisfied with Lao Liu's leisurely life, and even feels very jealous of his lack of self-motivation.
Lao Liu has a clear understanding of his life, and he feels that it is enough to be satisfied with the status quo and live a steady life. And his negative attitude has always been out of step with Fu Seoul's outlook on life, and they were able to come together only because Fu Seoul was not completely independent at that time.
Today, Fu Seoul is strong enough to spread his wings and fly high on his own.
In the show, Fu Seoul once expressed dissatisfaction with Lao Liu's work, thinking that he was too lazy and would only order takeout for his children, and no one took care of the flowers at home, and the garbage was piled up.
Fu Seoul confessed that he handed over the renovation of the house and the procurement of floors to Lao Liu, but Lao Liu made a serious mistake in the plan, and the number of floors purchased was half a room more, which made Fu Seoul lose trust in him.
Fu Seoul once had 20,000 ** in her mobile phone, and she hoped that Lao Liu could help export them. However, the procrastinating Lao Liu only verbally agreed, but he never had time to act.
It wasn't until he started to do it that there was an accident. He accidentally formatted all those ** full of good memories. At the scene of the show, he formally apologized to Fu Seoul.
Fu Seoul sighed that she couldn't rely on Lao Liu once, and now she can't rely on it, and when she faces an accident, the first person who wants to seek support is her friend. In the show, she cried bitterly, never thinking that one day she would no longer need a partner, and the divorce was not only to pursue herself, but also accumulated by countless disappointments, and finally exploded.
Lao Liu hopes that Fu Seoul can spread his wings and fly high, on the one hand, so that Fu Seoul can be respected when he leaves, and on the other hand, because he feels as if he has been marginalized, and thus feels frustrated.
The warmth and coldness of marriage can only be known by oneself. Although Fu Seoul and Lao Liu have a deep relationship, they still chose to let go after all, believing that this was their decision after careful consideration.
We hope that they can all find their own better paths after separation.