Over the years, withSocialWith the adjustment of development and fertility policies, more and more elderly people have begun to give birth to "second children" to young couplesThree childrenBut recently, I found that the old people have lost their previous enthusiasm for "birth" and seem to have become "silent". So why are the old people in".Three childrenThere is no movement under the policy?
First of all,EconomyThe increase in stress is one of the main reasons why the elderly are no longer actively provoking. Nowadays, the cost of raising a child is different from the past for familiesEconomyThe conditions put forward high requirements. In addition to the usual living expenses, raising children also needs to pay for preschool education, interest classes, etcMedicalfees and other expenses. Especially for young couples who have just gotten married, they are burdened with heavy mortgage pressure, coupled with the birth of a childEconomyThe pressure is even greater. Due to the fact that the mother could not work during the period of giving birth, the family expenditure did not decrease but increasedEconomyThe burden naturally increases. The elderly also observed and experienced this situation, and they understood that life had to go on, so they no longer gave birth to children.
Secondly, the distress of the elderly is also one of the factors that lead to the decline of the willingness to have children. As parents, the elderly, like young couples, are very concerned about the well-being and burdens of their children. When a young couple has just given birth, the old man is willing to come over to help, in fact, out of feeling sorry for his children. They are well aware of the hardships of taking care of their children, such as their daughter-in-law taking care of their children around the clock, their son going out to work, and so on. Seeing their daughter-in-law and son come home late every day, they were distressed. Because of their love for their children, the elderly began to understand and respect the wishes of the husband and wife, and no longer gave birth to children.
In addition, the physical discomfort of the elderly is also one of the factors that causes them to stop actively producing. As they get older, their physical condition begins to deteriorate gradually, and their energy is not as good as before. When the firstborn child was born, they were more or less able to cope with it, and they did housework and cooking in an orderly manner. But when the birth was born, they had to take care of two children at the same time, and were busy with housework and going out, and the old people obviously felt that their bodies began to be overwhelmed. In addition, young people nowadays generally marry and give birth later, so the older people are older and cannot keep up with their energy. Even if the elderly are willing to help take care of the children, their body and energy are not at the same level as before.
To sum up, why inThree childrenUnder the policy, the old people have become "motionless"?EconomyStress, parents feeling sorry for their children and the elderly themselves are the main reasons for the decline of the elderly's willingness to have children. withSocialWith the increase in the cost of living, the cost of raising children is different from the past, and raising children has become a greater burden for most families. The elderly are always concerned about the happiness and burden of their children, and they understand the hardships of taking care of them. In addition, the aging of the elderly themselves also makes their physical condition deteriorate and they are unable to take on more care responsibilities. As a result, older people have begun to understand and respect the fertility wishes of young couples, and no longer actively promote childbirth. Having a child is a common decision of the family, and it should be done according to the means of the familyEconomycondition and the physical condition of both spouses.
Therefore, do not be obsessed with the urging of the elderly, husband and wife should consider whether to have children more rationally, do what they can, for the harmony of the family and the happiness of the children, it is recommended to maintain good communication with the elderly, and respect each other's decisions. Childbearing is a matter of responsibility and consideration, and it is only a rational and happy choice when both spouses are ready and willing to take on the corresponding responsibilities.