Not all cheating men are worth redeeming.
Many men may really have feelings for the mistress, even if the wives are separated once.
The cheating man has no choice but to break off with Xiao San because of the situation, but the old love will soon rekindle.
The wives found out again that cheating men are still the same operation.
After a short break with Xiao San, he will still break the connection, and he will start again when he finds an opportunity.
If you keep cheating on the same person over and over again, and your wife still cheats on the man, she can't help it, so she won't choose to divorce and stop loss.
Because this kind of cheating man will not repent, and wives do not want to spend their lives in being cheated on and settling extramarital affairs, divorce is the best option.
Blue Fang has dealt with an extramarital affair case before, and this is the case with a cheating man.
The mistress who cheated on the man is considered the ex-girlfriend of the cheating man.
The two met on a blind date, and they saw each other right at that time.
But the parents of the cheating man knew that there were two younger brothers in the junior family.
I don't agree with these two people being together, and I'm worried that the cheating man will get married in the future, and I will have to help the younger brothers of the junior.
The cheating man didn't have deep feelings for Xiao San at that time, and he must marry Xiao San.
Even the parents said about the situation of the mistress, if the cheating man gets married, he may face the dilemma, and the cheating man himself is worried, so the cheating man is not willing to continue with the mistress.
However, the cheating man was reluctant to tell the mistress that his parents did not agree, and he was actually very willing.
Xiao San also acted as if he had affection for the cheating man at that time, but he had no fate.
Later, the cheating man met the original partner through a blind date, the original partner was the only daughter in the family, her parents were both state-owned enterprises, and her retirement salary after retirement was very objective.
It's just that the original match is not outstanding in appearance, and the personality is not distempered, although the conditions are good, but it is not very smooth to find the other half.
If you let a cheating man go on a blind date with his original partner from the beginning, he may not like it.
But the original match was just after the junior, so there was a comparison of the junior.
Cheating men and family members are thinking about the benefits of marriage.
The conditions of the original match just meet this point, and the parents are guaranteed, and the property will be the original match in the future.
So the cheating man doesn't like the original partner very much, but he still chooses to get along with the original partner and get married later.
This original partner said that she actually knew that the cheating man didn't love her.
After getting married and having children, she knew that the cheating man had always been indifferent to her.
But because of the blind date at the beginning, the cheating man said that he fell in love with her at first sight, and then took the initiative to pursue it.
She still fell, after all, no man had confessed to her like this before, and pursued her.
Therefore, the original pair of cheating men is true love, even if the cheating man does not love the original partner.
This also led to the fact that after the man cheated on the mistress, the original partner was reluctant to divorce the man.
Why do men repeatedly cheat on this mistress?
Because the cheating man actually liked a woman like Xiao San at the beginning.
At that time, because he was considering marriage, the junior did not meet the conditions for marriage in other aspects.
The cheating man proceeds from interests and chooses the original partner with better conditions and can give more help after marriage.
But he may have regrets about Xiao San, and thinks that Xiao San's conditions are better, and he will definitely marry Xiao San.
I can't forget it, and when I meet Xiao San again, I find that I can be a lover.
A cheating man will be ready to move, after all, choosing a lover doesn't need to think about it so much.
This junior actually thinks the same as the cheating man's parents, and has been helping his younger brother since he got married.
Therefore, the contradiction with the in-laws is very deep, and it even reached the step of divorce later.
After the divorce, the junior slowly got rid of the shackles of his mother's family, and just met a cheating man.
Xiao San will also feel that he married a cheating man at that time, and maybe he is very happy now.
Therefore, the mistress is also willing to develop an extramarital affair with a cheating man, and even wants to develop for a long time and finally take the position.
Why does a cheating man repeatedly cheat on the same mistress?
On the one hand, he has a certain affection for this junior.
Because he loves Xiao San and doesn't love his wife, he needs the benefits given by his wife, and he also wants the love given by Xiao San, so in order to stabilize his wife, he will choose to break up with Xiao San temporarily.
But once the marriage is stable, he will begin to cheat on the mistress again and continue to fall in love.
On the other hand, the cheating man is perfunctory to the original partner every time, because the original partner can't do anything about him.
This original partner loves cheating men, so he has never mentioned divorce.
The cheating man is a little fearless, thinking that his wife will not really divorce, so he will keep cheating on the mistress.
Any act of seeking comfort will not make you grow.
For example, hangovers, traveling, crying, and even having long conversations with friends.
These are just a temporary sense of security. Growing up is actually a very difficult introspection, and you have to let go of all the nice words. The biggest enemy in life is sometimes the self trapped in the walls of thought.
Many wives just trap themselves in the wall, and not being able to get out is the most painful.
Lan Fang did not think that it was the best choice for wives to insist on such a marriage.
It's just that I'm afraid of life after divorce, and I'm always worried that I'm not going to have a good life, so I don't dare to go out of the wall.
In fact, this kind of cheating man can give his wife a limited amount, and it is a relief to divorce and stop the loss as soon as possible.
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