Only your own feet know if the shoes will fit, and only you know if they will fit.
In today's society, people's lives are limited by various relationships and conditions, and if someone is unable to deal with these issues properly, it can lead to the generation of negative emotions, which in turn affects their normal life and decision-making.
Sometimes I still miss the people of the seventies and eighties of the last century, who bravely loved, hated, innocent and fearless, and dared to say goodbye to the life they didn't like.
The person I want to introduce at the moment was once a generation of actresses, and later set foot in the business world and engaged in potato chip sales. Do you know how her life is now?
Li Xiuming, who was born in Tianjin in 1954, his parents are ordinary workers, and his family's economic conditions are average, but they attach great importance to their children's education.
At that time, the concept of "preference for sons over daughters" was common in feudal society, but Li Xiuming's parents were more enlightened, and they also expected their daughter to receive a good education and lay a good foundation for the future.
Under the influence of his parents, Li Xiuming developed a strong interest in reading when he was a child, and although he was born in an ordinary family, he also showed a temperament equivalent to a scholarly family.
The only appliance in her home is an old black-and-white TV.
Her favorite thing to do every day after her homework is to turn on the TV, and even though there aren't many options to choose from, she still feels very happy.
Perhaps because of his curiosity about the unknown, Lee so-ming also began to have the idea of becoming an actor.
She successfully entered the cadet class of the Tianjin People's Art Theater, which was a very rare opportunity for Li Xiuming, who graduated from junior high school in 1972.
She thought that after graduation, she would be able to find a job as an actress in the theater with her excellent grades and outstanding appearance, but the reality kept her hitting a wall.
Li Xiuming's appearance is indeed outstanding, and he has been praised as a beauty since he was a child, but when filming the movie, he did not pay special attention to the appearance conditions, but paid more attention to the fit between the character and the role.
At that time, she was just a young girl who had just stepped into society, she had not achieved anything, she had not established relationships, and everyone thought she was just a vase just because she was beautiful.
Chen Peisi's father, Chen Qiang, went to Tianjin in 1975 when he selected actors for the crew of the film "Haixia". At the time of the announcement, he immediately became interested in Li Xiuming and confirmed that she would play the role of Yuxiu in the film. However, in the end, this role was played by Hong Xuemin.
Director Xie Jin was filming the movie "Chunmiao" at Shanghai Film Studio at the time, so Li Xiuming cooperated with Feng Qi and Da Shichang to play the role of the women's captain Tian Chunmiao.
"Spring Miao" was a hit, and the beautiful actor Li Xiuming officially started her acting career, so everyone began to know her gradually.
Her outstanding performance not only won the love of more fans, but also attracted the attention of Beijing Film Studio, and eventually became a professional actor of Beijing Film Studio. There, together with Zhang Jinling and Liu Xiaoqing, she became a celebrity known as the "Three Golden Flowers of Beiying".
Li Xiuming has been an obedient and sensible girl since she was a child, and she is recognized as a child by her neighbors. Seeing that her daughter was about to turn 30, she began to urge her daughter to talk about marriage.
Li Xiuming starred in the movie "Xu Mao and His Daughters" in 1981, playing the role of the fourth daughter Xiuyun, and this performance made her successfully win the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award.
Many men have pursued female stars, including business owners, male actors in the same industry, and civil servants in the system. Maybe it's because there are so many suitors that it's difficult for female stars to make a choice.
Li Xiuming often co-starred with Tang Guoqiang of Bayi Factory in TV series, from "Starry Tonight" to "Peacock Princess", everyone thinks the two of them are a couple.
Even the directors at the time would joke: You really look like a match made in heaven, so it's better to just be together.
Both were focused on their careers at the time, and there was no room to think about feelings at all. Who would have thought that even a big star with unlimited scenery would encounter the trouble of urging marriage outside.
Li Xiuming's parents don't want her to find actors in the same industry, because actors need to travel around a lot for filming, and it's okay if the two match the time, but once they miss it, they may not see each other a few times a year.
Under the introduction of relatives, Li Xiuming met an officer of the army. All things considered, she didn't find anything that dissatisfied her, and she could try to get in touch further, but she didn't have a strong urge to get married.
In the end, she couldn't stand the urging of her parents, she married the male officer, and welcomed their daughter a year after the marriage, which made Li Xiuming's parents very happy.
Now that you've made your choice, it's time to run it all in.
After Li Xiuming had a family, he reduced his workload and had more free time to spend with his husband and children. Everyone said that she married into a good family.
Over time, problems gradually arose between the two. Filming is not a normal work, leaving early and returning late;Coupled with the arrival of her daughter, family chores have also increased.
Her officer's husband wants her to stop acting because her children are growing up and need to be taken care of, and he wants her to be able to take care of the family full-time at home.
Li Xiuming has just completed the filming of "Dream of Red Mansions", and her popularity has risen rapidly as the series has become popular. At this time, it may be difficult for her to give up her career and return to her family.
Li Xiuming's parents also persuaded their daughter to postpone work and face her husband's request. Family is the most important thing, and she also fell into deep thought. Looking at the attitude of her family, she also fell into deep thought.
Is it right or wrong, stand your ground?
While on vacation, Lee saw a TV report that now was the perfect time to do business, but her husband opposed the idea.
After getting married, it not only means sacrificing the career you love, but also means that you can't follow your heart's desires and can only hang out at home, which is completely inconsistent with the life you yearn for.
Lee immediately made the decision to divorce her first husband and decided to live alone with her daughter.
In the past few years of self-recuperation, newcomers have continued to emerge, her popularity has also declined, and she has encountered a bottleneck in her acting career.
At a social event, Li Xiuming reunited with her second husband, which was exactly what he dreamed of becoming a boss for.
Cheng Jiushi comes from a business family, he runs Beijing Xingyun Industrial *** business with a lot of income, and recently ended a marriage.
Li Xiuming has become a goddess in the hearts of many people in recent years with her beautiful appearance and superb performance, and Cheng Jiushi is no exception.
After learning that the goddess was also divorced, he launched a fierce pursuit, and finally with sincerity as nirvana, the two formed a family again.
Li Xiuming originally had no plans to remarry, but when she proposed that she wanted to do business, Cheng Jiushi did not follow the first.
Her husband was no exception, and not only did he not oppose her, but he affirmed her vision and expressed his willingness to give it his full support.
In 1992, the husband and wife participated in the "Marketing" lecture taught by Professor Wu Tongguang of Beijing Institute of Finance and Trade, and learned Xi and made progress together.
Later, to the surprise of Li Xiuming, he found that fast food products were popular in the Chinese market, but since burgers and colas were already available in China, he turned his attention to potato chips.
The former actress has now switched careers and is engaged in selling potato chips.
Faced with a new field, Li Xiuming felt a lot of pressure at first, even serious enough to lead to insomnia and a lot of hair loss, but her husband was always by his side to give encouragement and enlightenment.
In 2002, Li Xiuming's potato chip company caught the attention of PepsiCo, and since then she has become a rich woman who can make money from home.
Soon after, Li Xiuming and Cheng Jiushi married and ushered in the birth of a boy, but Cheng Jiushi did not ignore Li Xiuming's daughter because of this, and took care of her like his own child.
In order to provide the best quality education and living conditions for his children, Li Xiuming immigrated to Canada with his family in 2003.
*Recently reported**, Li Xiuming in the middle is 69 years old, her figure is a little fat, but she is still beautiful. From the looks of it, she should have a good life.
Lee so-ming is a responsible person who knows what she wants in life and strives for it. Although she was married to her first husband for the sake of her family, she always took life seriously. When she married her second husband, she was equally kind to her daughter.
It can be seen that Li Xiuming is not only an excellent wife, but also a qualified mother, and hopes that her future life will be better.