Married life is a difficult thing to have the best of both worlds, there are happy and unhappy, happy marriages are the same, unhappy marriages have all kinds of problems, and the final result is divorce.
We aspire to live a happy life at the moment, in the face of all kinds of people's **, even helpless, there is no immutable life, only the changing environment.
In such a volatile era, it is too difficult to keep one's heart, and it is a blessing to be able to be united, and if we are separated, it may be a relief.
If divorce hurts anyone, I think since divorce, both men and women are more relieved, and even happy, because the result of divorce is long and painful, and it is the best plan and result for themselves after weighing the pros and cons.
For women, it is not just as simple as getting a divorce certificate, women are often emotional, especially if they have children, they may have freed themselves from this unhappy marriage, and on the other hand, they have entangled in children.
The worry in their hearts is always the child, and the child is the home she wants to protect, which is also the reason why many women are obviously not happy, but they will insist on not divorce for the sake of their children.
As for the final divorce, they have no way, even if their married life is not good, in order to have a complete home for their children, most of them will keep their hearts and will not betray their marriage.
They understand that even if they get married for the second time, the child follows her, except for the mother, who is a relative, everyone else is an outsider to him, and they may make compromises for the sake of the child, and there is no way to divorce.
For marriage, that woman doesn't want to have a happy and long-term husband who loves her and obedient children, how beautiful is such a life.
Divorce, for a woman, means that a few years of youth is gone, and even half of a lifetime of happiness is gone, so for them, they will not easily take the road of divorce.
However, in reality, there are also many women who betray their marriages, and this idea of taking children as a weakness does not make sense for them, for them, their own happiness is greater than the happiness and future of their children.
Therefore, we do not pursue the quality of marriage, but only seek to have a long-term and stable marriage.