Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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In life, the first impression that some people give to others is that they are not easy to get along with and have hidden scheming. And some people, at first glance, it feels very pleasing to the eye and very comfortable.
This is the intuitive feeling that physiognomy brings to a person.
A person's physiognomy will reveal whether his heart and eyes are good or not. A person with a good heart will have a kind character, a good cultivation, and a good character.
If you are friends with people with good eyes, you will go more smoothly on the road of life.
On the road of life, you must choose friends and make friends. Whether a person's heart is good or not, you can know it by looking at the face
The eyes are the windows to the soul.
If you want to understand a person's heart, you can see a general idea from his eyes.
Zeng Guofan wrote in "Bing Jian": "Evil looks at the eyes and nose, truth and falsehood look at the lips, fame looks at the spirit, wealth looks at the spirit, ideas look at the fingers, turmoil looks at the hamstrings, if you want to see the order, it's all in words." ”A person's eyes hide his views and attitudes towards the people and things around him.
A person with cold eyes has a deep heart, and he will not easily let others see his plans.
Even if he often smiles at you, he is full of hypocrisy, and he does not smile from the heart at all.
When dealing with such a person, you must be careful and take precautions, and don't trust him, so as not to be calculated by him.
Most people with gentle eyes are kind-hearted people, who have a good upbringing and know how to care for others.
When communicating with others, he knows how to listen patiently, take care of others' feelings, and take the initiative to give encouragement and support to others.
Getting along with someone with gentle eyes will make you feel very at ease, very down-to-earth, and willing to give him all your trust.
From what a person says, you can see his personal cultivation.
A person who speaks appropriately and proportionately has a high level of cultivation. When communicating with others, know how to respect others and consider their feelings.
He doesn't talk about other people's pain points, and he doesn't talk about other people's privacy. If you find that others are more sensitive to the topic, you will change the topic in time and not cause trouble to the other party.
Know how to listen, don't interrupt others at will, and don't show off in order to get someone's attention.
And some people, who have no cultivation, make a lot of noise when they encounter a little thing, and even curse and curse, wanting to deter others with this.
Regardless of whether you are justified or not, you must always have the upper hand and devalue the other party to nothing.
I won the battle of words, but in fact, my image and cultivation were also exposed.
A person who has no cultivation in his mouth is also mostly an unreliable person.
In everyone's heart, there is a mirror. When others see through a person who is an uncultivated person, they will only avoid him.
The so-called "born from the heart" means that what you think in your heart will be expressed through your face, leaving the most intuitive feeling for others.
If a person is tolerant and kind to others, his face will become softer and more affinity.
Those who always have a smile on their faces, warmth on their faces, and care in their words will naturally leave a good impression on those around them.
His whole mental outlook is upright and positive, and others will be more willing to make friends with him and walk with him.
And those who are selfish, cunning, and calculating, because they think about their own interests all day long, think about how to play tricks behind their backs, and their faces will become mean and ugly.
A man who calculates everything, always on guard against his own interests, his face is tense, and his eyes are also defensive.
After a long time, the face will gradually change, which makes people very uncomfortable at first glance, and they just want to stay away.
A person's physiognomy is the true revelation of a person's inner being, which is difficult to hide.
Whether a person's heart and eyes are good or not can be seen from his face.
People with good eyes have a modest face and a sincere smile, which makes people feel comfortable and like a spring breeze.
If you want to change your appearance, you must first cultivate your heart. Improve your self-cultivation and have a good heart, and the road of life will be easy.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.