Is marriage, love enough? Is the importance of material conditions underestimated? A lot of people will have a different perspective on these issues. However, we have to admit that the love in marriage will eventually weaken with the passage of time, and for women, the choice of marriage must not be based on love alone. In marriage, material conditions are a crucial reference factor. Although love is the foundation of marriage, material conditions are also indispensable. If a woman marries hastily just because she loves a man, then she may quarrel frequently after marriage because of financial problems. Therefore, women should have certain material requirements for their other half, which not only motivates men to be more motivated, but also creates better living conditions for both husband and wife. In fact, many cases have shown that women with material pursuits tend to marry better. Perhaps, though, we should revisit the issue and not just limit ourselves to material conditions. A man's job stability is crucial.
If a man doesn't already have a stable job before getting married, or is just thinking about his future job as a future plan, then a woman should think twice. After all, after getting married, you need to face not only the life of two people, but also the expenses of having children in the future. Without economic support, it is easy to have conflicts and quarrels. In this case, the marriage may quickly break down. In addition, it is also necessary to understand the family situation of the other half. A person's family environment of origin has a profound impact on them. The personality and behavior of parents often affect the development of children invisibly. Therefore, knowing the family background of the other half is also crucial for the stability of married life. Marriage is not just a matter between two people, but a major event that needs to be carefully considered. Factors such as material conditions, job stability, and family background are all worthy of our seriousness.
Of course, this is not to say that love is not important, but I hope that everyone can have a more comprehensive understanding of marriage while pursuing love. When faced with the choice of marriage, have you ever thought about whether you can accept the endless birth in the face of your in-laws' traditional concept of patriarchy? When talking about marriage, have you ever considered whether the other party's family environment and parents' three views meet your standards? Do you care whether the other party gives a bride price or not, and do you consider the importance of asking for a bride price? What role do love and material play in your heart? In married life, in addition to love, material conditions are also essential. A proper material foundation can help us create better family conditions together, instead of consuming love because of material deprivation. We all want to live a good life, so yearning for material things is not a bad thing. Knowing the importance of material things, but not greedy for vanity, is the best way to get along.
If there is a patriarchal tradition in your potential partner's family, will you be able to accept this family environment? In marriage, the problem of two people becomes the problem of two families, are you ready to meet this challenge? Marriage is a major event in life, and you can only make a decision after thinking about it. What is your attitude towards the traditional Xi of bride price? Perhaps, the bride price can reflect the other party's attitude towards you to a certain extent, but it should not be the only consideration in the marriage. You can accept the bride price appropriately and use it for future family life, or you can reject the vain bride price, which you need to weigh according to the actual situation. Love and materiality may seem contradictory, but they are actually complementary to each other. The right material foundation can provide a better soil for love, so that we can move forward hand in hand on the road of creating a better life together. Therefore, we should take a correct view of material things, know how to cherish and strive to create better living conditions.
Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. When you are faced with a marriage choice, you may want to think from a broader perspective, considering the other person's family environment, parental concepts, bride price Xi, and both parties' attitudes towards love and materialism. Only by considering and measuring holistically can we make decisions that are responsible for ourselves and the other party.