Article 7lessonAffectionate love
1. What is a family?(The connotation of family).
The family is an organization of kinship life formed by marriage, blood or adoption.
2. The meaning (function) of home
Home is the dwelling place of our body and mind. Our lives are given by our parents, and our growth is inseparable from the nurturing and support of our families.
Home is the harbor of our souls. There are relatives at home, and there is family affection at home, family affection, so that our hearts have something to rely on.
3. The connotation of "home" in Chinese culture (what is home in the minds of Chinese)?
In Chinese culture, home has a profound meaning and rich connotation.
In the minds of Chinese, home is a community of life that has been passed down from generation to generation and connected by blood, and a haven of sweetness, warmth and relaxation.
4. Why should we be filial to our relatives and respect our elders?
In Chinese family culture, "filial piety" is an important spiritual connotation.
Filial piety and respect for elders is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is also the legal obligation of every Chinese citizen.
5. How to be filial to your relatives and respect your elders?
Filial piety in the present. Honoring your parents and elders and caring for your family is not only a matter of growing up, but from now on, express your filial piety with actions.
Learn some skills and methods of filial piety and respect for elders. For example: aRespect your parents and elders and listen to their opinions and teachings. b.Listen to them and keep in touch with them often. c.Be grateful, be grateful, and express gratitude with action.
6. Why do Chinese think about and look forward to going home for the Spring Festival?
Home is the dwelling place of our body and mind. Our lives are given by our parents, and our growth is inseparable from the nurturing and support of our families.
Home is the harbor of our souls. There are relatives at home, and there is family affection at home, family affection, so that our hearts have something to rely on.
In the minds of Chinese, home is a community of life that has been passed down from generation to generation and connected by blood, and a sweet, warm and relaxed haven.
7. How to understand (taste) family affection?
Everyone has an emotion in their hearts that they are constantly giving up on their families, and this emotion is the love of family in the family.
Every family behaves differently.
The family structure has changed, and the family affection is still there.
8. Why does love collide in the family (the reason why we have parent-child conflicts with our parents)?
When we entered junior high school, we realized that we had grown up and our relationship with our families had undergone subtle changesOn the other hand, they expect more attention and care. (The contradiction between independence and dependence of middle school students).
We begin to examine the love our parents give us, we begin to question our parents, and even challenge our parents' authority and experience.
As two generations, we are with our parentsMind, knowledge, experience, etcaspectsThere are large differences, there are inevitably differences in the understanding and feelings of the problem, and parent-child conflicts are sometimes unavoidable.
9. How to reduce or resolve the collision of love (parent-child conflict)?
Effective conflict resolution requires both an example from our parents and an effort on our own.
Seriously feel and appreciate those moments with your parents.
Love needs to be cared for. Love deepens in communication, and parent-child conflicts need to be resolved through good interaction and communication between both parties. (Interactive communication skills and wisdom in dealing with conflict are the lubricant of love between parents and children.)
If there is a conflict with the parents, we should choose the method that does not hurt the feelings of the parents and does not affect the parent-child relationship. Learn parental communication skills.
Try to accept your parents' practices and understand the love that lies in their parents' actions.
Try to make our parents aware of our changes and needs and express our love in a way that is acceptable to them.
10. What are the characteristics of a modern family?
The structure, size, and concept of the modern family have changed to varying degrees.
The communication of family members and the way of communication have changed greatly.
The family atmosphere is becoming more and more egalitarian and democratic.
11. How to build a harmonious family and make the family better?
Home and everything is prosperous. Mutual trust, consideration and tolerance among family members can enhance understanding and resolve conflicts and conflicts.
I share the housework. We should actively participate in housework, develop work Xi, constantly improve self-management ability, enhance family responsibility, and contribute to building a harmonious family.
Face the changes in the family with a good attitudeIt can make family affection stronger and make the family more harmonious.
12. What should we do if there are contradictions or conflicts between family members?(p85 Methods & Skills) acts as a "glue."
Help family members soothe their emotions.
Make yourself an impartial neutral.
Guide family members to see each other's strengths.
Help family members get out of the "face" dilemma.