Love is an ever-evolving journey, full of passion, warmth, and countless confusions and tests. On this stage full of realistic challenges, the marriage of Fu Seoul and Lao Liu is like a picture of happiness and contradictions. Let's explore the truth of this relationship together and see the sadness and helplessness hidden behind it.
Body:
Fu Seoul's sobriety is not a symbol of happiness, but a heavy burden. In "Goodbye Lover", the hourglass sent by Lao Liu seems to be a rescue, but it makes Fu Seoul feel helplessness in marriage. Lao Liu in life, the romance and sense of ritual have long since passed away with the wind, which makes Fu Seoul full of emotion.
The dilemma of marriage stems from the shadow of Fu Seoul's childhood. The divorce of her parents and the remarriage of her mother left a deep trauma on her soul. These shadows, like some kind of curse, affect her expectations of love. Even though Lao Liu has been working hard, Fu Seoul's heart has always been insecure, which has brought their relationship to an impasse.
In Fu Seoul's view, Lao Liu's blandness on the surface is actually a manifestation of his inner depression and inferiority. In the 15 years together, they were each other's most important pillars, however, the passage of time seems to dilute this tacit understanding. Fu Seoul's career is successful, and Lao Liu gradually loses himself in the family, and his inferiority complex and frustration become more and more obvious, making the relationship between the two alienated and negative.
Fu Seoul's excessive sobriety made her see the problems in her marriage, but it also made her ignore the true meaning of love. For Lao Liu's words and deeds, she often picks and blames, and ignores that marriage should be the result of two people's joint efforts. The ideal marriage she pursues is not easy to achieve in reality, and this idealism gradually escalates the contradictions between the two.
Fu Seoul thinks that Lao Liu has become incompetent, but he has not examined whether he has also fallen into the quagmire of false sobriety. Her excessive pickiness about Lao Liu made the originally warm family atmosphere dull and tense. Perhaps, marriage is not a blind taking, but the result of joint efforts and communication between both parties.
Conclusion:
In the long river of love, Fu Seoul and Lao Liu's marriage may be experiencing a test of growth. Perhaps more tolerance and understanding, more communication and care are needed, so that both parties can move forward together on the road of life. Perhaps, true sobriety is to look down on all imperfections, face them with an open-minded heart, and let the flowers of marriage bloom more beautifully in the years.