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If a woman doesn't get what she wants from a man, then she is likely to look for a new lover to make up for her regrets.
Usually, when a man finds out that a woman is unfaithful, he wonders whether the woman loves herself more or her lover more. Read these two stories to find out.
Writer Qian Zhongshu has long said that marriage is a besieged city. And I was stuck in the city and felt very unhappy every day.
My husband and I have been in love for three years and have been married for two years, but our married life is a mess.
First of all, he wasn't as considerate to me as he was when I was in love, I don't remember my wedding anniversary, or even my birthday, or even a gift. Usually there are far more quarrels than love, which makes me regret marrying him!
Secondly, we live with my mother-in-law. Every time I have a conflict with my mother-in-law, my husband always chooses to stand by my mother unconditionally, even if he doesn't favor me, there is no need to be unreasonable!
In the end, because of these things, I gave up on him. But one time, I happened to see him chatting with another woman. I didn't expose him because I didn't care anymore.
It wasn't until I met a man who knew I loved me that I found the feeling of love and being cared for again. If my husband finds out that I am unfaithful, I am willing to give up everything for my lover!
My husband wasn't bad to me, I was his first girlfriend. Basically, he did everything he could to me.
But after a long time, I found it boring. Living with a man who is too honest, while safe, lacks passion and fun.
My lover, Mr. Shen, is a "bad man" who especially understands women's minds and emotional needs, and with him, I am very relaxed and smile more.
It's just that after a woman's betrayal, there will always be a lot of changes. So when my husband found out something was wrong with me, he forced me to tell the whole story.
To my surprise, he was willing to forgive me as long as I was separated from my lover.
I weighed the pros and cons and felt that although I was very happy with my lover, I didn't have a stable life, so I still chose to return to my husband with a monthly salary of tens of thousands and continue to be a spoiled child.
Write at the end. In fact, the writer Zhang Ailing once said: A man will have two women in his life, white moonlight and red roses.
But actually, do you want to know which one men prefer?The answer is obvious, either you can't get it, or something that is more beneficial to him.
The same goes for women who are having an affair. If she pursues novelty, she will choose to love people;If she wanted security, she would choose a husband.
But no matter which one a woman chooses, she must love herself the most. Because a woman who will betray is essentially an extremely selfish person, and she is not responsible for her feelings.
Therefore, when a man encounters such a thing, he only needs to learn to stop losses in time and continue to work hard to live, and there is no need to entangle with an unfaithful woman and finally hurt himself even more.