I am unhappy because my heart is not strong enough.
We are often overwhelmed by things we don't need, meat that has been in the refrigerator for a few years, friends who have been in the WeChat list for a few years, words that others say inadvertently, etc., can become garbage that we don't want to throw away.
Indeed, if you carry the garbage forward, no matter how strong you are, you will be dragged down.
We all need to clean up ourselves, computers, mobile phones need to clean up the memory to run more smoothly, there are more people, learn to break, in order to be stronger.
The book records the story of Miss Yoko:
Miss Yoko is a woman in her 30s who is very good at organizing. After knowing how to leave, I immediately cleaned the house and threw away a lot of things.
Include unwanted items and some social science books. However, she only kept those romances ** and didn't want to throw them away.
She later discovered that these romances always ended in an unsuccessful love. This coincided with her own feelings, and she found herself in relationships with people who were completely fruitless.
It turns out that she has a psychological tendency to refuse marriage, she doesn't want to lose these **, that is to say, she doesn't want to change these.
Realizing this, she resolutely threw away all the books in the box and said goodbye to her past self.
Later, she also tried to understand marriage.
In my opinion, what Yoko-sama has lost is not a box of simple books, but the loss of her original paranoid self. What's the point of throwing away the book if she just throws it away without knowing herself from the inside and not making a change?
Renunciation is not simply giving up, but learning to know oneself and know oneself. Renunciation is not for the object, but for the sake of oneself.
Cut-off, cut-off can be things, distractions, bad habits, and stubbornness.
Break free, and more importantly for yourself. At the same time, allow yourself to re-choose, ditch the garbage, and make room for better things in the world.
However, in this day and age, technology is so advanced that access to knowledge is just a matter of moving a finger.
On the Internet, we can see people who travel every day, who live in the mountains away from the hustle and bustle of the city, who are immersed in a sea of books all day long.
These seem to enrich our own spiritual world, as if we are going to live, and the progressive society provides more options for us to dazzle.
Are the habits that others give you what you want?Not necessarily.
Thoreau arrived at Walden alone at the age of 28 with an axe.
Before that, he hit a wall everywhere, as a reporter, his manuscript was not recognized, he was rejected for his beloved, and the tribulations of life made him see the road ahead.
So he built himself a hut by the lake, and lived a lonely life for two years and two months.
His story touched countless people, including a young man who wrote to him saying that he too wanted this life away from the world and that he also wanted to live alone.
But Thoreau did not encourage him to do so, and he wrote back to him, hoping that he would follow his heart and be a unique person, rather than doing something on the spur of the moment that might not be suitable for him.