Looking back on the blind date between Uncle Bai and Aunt Wang, we can see a humble story unfolding. Uncle Bai, a retired cadre, has a full and colorful life, but feels lonely and lonely at night. Aunt Wang, a gig worker with an income of 3,000 a month, hopes to find a wife with financial conditions.
After the two met, they started talking, and Uncle Bai tried his best to introduce his conditions to Aunt Wang, but the other party didn't seem to care. Uncle Bai tried to scare Aunt Wang with his own spending, but Aunt Wang thought it was a social performance. In the end, Uncle Bai directly said that he wanted to find a younger partner, and mentioned economic conditions such as insurance. Although Aunt Wang humbly flattered, in the end this blind date ended in failure.
During this blind date, the conversation between Uncle Bai and Aunt Wang was full of humility and asymmetry. Judging by their backgrounds and conditions, the two themselves are differentSocialHierarchy. As a retired cadre, Uncle Bai has rich economic conditions and a full and colorful life, while Aunt Wang is oneSalarymen, life is relatively tight. This substance andSocialThe imbalance in status leads to their humble performance in the blind date process. Uncle Bai tried to evaluate Aunt Wang's true thoughts by blackening herself and scaring her, but Aunt Wang didn't care about these and continued to humbly curry favor with Uncle Bai. In the end, the humility of the two clashes with their desire to pursue a life of different classes, leading to the failure of this blind date.
Humble withLoveThere is a certain contradiction between the needs. LoveIt is built on the basis of equality and mutual respect, if one of them is too humbleLow self-esteemIt is difficult to achieve an equal relationship and can lead to disharmony and contradictions between each other. Moreover, being humble does not lead to true love, it only makes oneself and dignity deprived. In this blind date story, Aunt Wang's humble expression of Uncle Bai did not make him interested in her, but made her feel sad and pathetic. Therefore, we should be inLoveshould not give up one's worth and dignity in order to cater to the other party.
This blind date story is a profound reminder that the relationship between men and women must be reciprocal, otherwise it is difficult to achieve happiness. In this story, there is an obvious asymmetry in the conditions and backgrounds of Uncle Bai and Aunt Wang, which leads to humility and contradictions in the blind date process. HappyMarriageIt needs to be based on equality and mutual respect, and both spouses should have their own economic conditions andSocialstatus, rather than a party being in a humble and vulnerable position.
This blind date story gave me some food for thought and inspiration. First of all,LovewithMarriageIt should be built on the basis of equality, and neither the humble nor the weak are conducive to happinessMarriageRelationship. Both parties should maintain their own dignity and worth, while also respecting the dignity and worth of the other. Secondly, economic conditions andSocialUnequal status can lead to instability and contradictions in the relationship, so when choosing a partner, in addition to emotional factors, economic conditions andSocialStatus matching is also an important consideration. In the end, humility does not buy true love, it only damages self-esteem and dignity. In pursuitLoveand happiness, we should stick to our values and principles, and not easily give up our dignity and respect.