Recently, a paparazzi photographed Jia Nailiang taking a beautiful woman home after the dinner.
The new relationship is suspicious**.
Many netizens sent blessings and said that they were infatuated"Honest people"Jia Nailiang finally ushered in a relationship.
Finally came out of the shadow of the past divorce.
Some time ago, on Tianxin's birthday, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu took a group photo in the same frame.
Although they are not husband and wife, as the parents of their children, giving their children care is the greatest dignity and thoughtfulness.
Perhaps time is the best catalyst, and many things are slowly relieved.
remembers that Jia Nailiang tried his best and painstakingly in order to pursue Li Xiaolu.
Later, the two became a model couple in the entertainment industry.
Finally"Do hair things"After the East Window incident, many unknown stories of the two slowly surfaced.
In fact, the two of them have come to this point, and there is already evidence to follow.
Too extreme and partial love, full of dangers and unaware of it.
When we look at other people's marriage and love stories, we can see marriage and love more clearly, so that we can make a more rational choice.
I want to give in"Siege"Or out"Siege"A little inspired.
In one episode of the program, Li Xiaolu once saidShe didn't fall in love with Jia Nailiang back then.
On the one hand, because Jia Nailiang is younger than him, she doesn't want to find someone younger than herself.
On the other hand, Jia Nailiang is relatively handsome, which makes her very insecure.
In the final analysis, Jia Nailiang is not her favorite candidate.
The most important reason should be that the gap between the two is too large.
The big gap will lead to the difference in the three views of the two.
Li Xiaolu was born in an artistic family, and since her grandfather's generation, the family has worked in Bayi Studio.
His father was a director at Bayi Factory, while his mother was a famous movie star in the 80s.
Jia Nailiang: There is not even a square dance in their family.
Li Xiaolu became the queen of the Golden Horse Awards at the age of 17, and Jia Nailiang was still a little-known actor at that time.
The two are quite different in terms of family background, achievements and status.
In front of Li Xiaolu, Jia Nailiang is inferior.
In front of Jia Nailiang, Li Xiaolu is confident and proud, and he doesn't look down on Jia Nailiang.
He tried his best to chase for a year, and finally got the beauty.
He was obedient to Li Xiaolu, and only had 30,000 yuan in his pocket, all of which was used to buy clothes for Li Xiaolu.
In order to attract Li Xiaolu's attention, he made a row of ear piercings in his ears, and later his ears were suppurated.
Jia Nailiang's love is humble and flattering.
As Zhang Ailing said, it is low to the dust.
When you're in a relationship, you pretend to have that trait for what kind of person you want to attract.
For example:You want to find a confident person as a partner, and you will be convinced that a confident person is someone who will not like low self-esteem.
Then you make yourself look confident, or at least look confident.
Jia Nailiang knew that Li Xiaolu liked humor, so he made himself very humorous in front of Li Xiaolu.
But whatever Li Xiaolu likes, he will become what Li Xiaolu likes.
The greater the difference between the outward self and the real self, the more tired the person will be.
Turning yourself into another person is like acting every day, which consumes a lot of money.
Too hard love is actually very draining of people's energy, and it is easy to return to the original shape.
So when chasing Li Xiaolu, Jia Nailiang will use it"Chase hard"Two words.
In fact, we ordinary people are the same, in front of the person we like, we often show our best side, or the other party's favorite side.
And hide the bad side.
Therefore, in the relationship stage, we often use a lot of illusions to attract the person we want the most.
In front of Li Xiaolu, Jia Nailiang is humorous, hip-hop, and interesting.
But these are not the real Jia Nailiang, and they are exactly what he lacks.
In fact, when you are in love, it is the best choice to try to show your true side.
Otherwise, neither person can be sure that the other person is the right person.
Of course, you must also have the insight to see through the other party, and don't be confused by the way you show it.
And Li Xiaolu was finally moved by him, thinking that he was what he showed.
also laid a hidden danger for Li Xiaolu's disappointment in him later.
After all, being moved is moving, and that is not love.
If what you need is love, then refuse to be moved.
Li Xiaolu said: After they received the certificate, Jia Nailiang said with relief"You're mine at last"。
And the day after their wedding, Jia Nailiang went to filming.
It is understandable that Jia Nailiang is busy with work after marriage, after all, after marriage, he has more energy and time to devote to work.
And what Li Xiaolu craves most is companionship.
She said that Jia Nailiang had a huge gap before and after marriage.
The essence is that the needs of the two are different after marriage.
Before getting married, the most important thing for Jia Nailiang was to chase Li Xiaolu. He can not film for a few months and accompany Li Xiaolu.
After getting married, the most important thing for him is to earn money to support his family.
Of course, Li Xiaolu's derailment is a thousand mistakes, which is not denied.
It's just that after getting married, for both of them, it's love disillusionment.
In real life, you will also see that after a man has made a lot of effort to catch up with the woman he likes, he thinks, it's okay, and finally caught up.
I don't cherish what I can say.
With this mentality, it is not easy to maintain a marriage.
After all, after passion, tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar is the real life.
Marriage is precisely the beginning of married life, not that there is no need to manage feelings and family after marriage.
As Sanmao said: If feelings are not implemented into small things such as dressing, eating, and sleeping, it is not easy to last for a long time.
All the bits and pieces in married life require two people to communicate, be considerate, compromise and understand.
Of course, love disillusionment is not a bad thing.
For disillusionment is a gift that allows us to no longer be deceived by delusions.
We always think that if we have someone, we will be happy.
Just like a prince and a princess, they have lived together happily ever since.
It's an illusion.
Everyone is moving forward, and it's normal to have a new relationship.
After all, no one is going to stay in the past.
On the Internet, invade and delete.