1 I am from Ningbo, Zhejiang, and there is a Xi here, for Qingming, Ghost Festival or New Year's Festival, the day before you have to make "soup rice" to worship your ancestors - put food and wine on the table, light incense candles, burn paper money for the ancestors, etc.
Two years ago, in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, at noon my mother made a "soup rice", served it on the table while cooking others, the table was placed in the middle of the living room, and the kitchen was connected to the living room. It was already past 11 o'clock in the afternoon, and my dad came home from outside, and as soon as he came in, he went straight into the kitchen and asked my mother, "Are you still cooking soup today?"My mother looked suspicious: "Aren't they all outside, what's the matter with you?"My dad was surprised and said, "When are you going to put it there?"I just came in to take a look, and there was nothing empty on the table”
The two of them walked to the living room together, and it was really full of "soup", and my mother remembered: "Oops, no wine was poured!.""The Xi is to pour three times of wine into the cup at each position during the cooking of a "soup meal", and our family has been drinking a little wine since our ancestors, thinking that the ancestors are reminding my parents.
When I first told this story, my parents and I were still standing on end, and my dad kept saying, "When I came in, I looked at the table, and there was nothing on it." My mother said, "The ancestors fought hard to drink some wine." ”
——sara
2. In the village of our hometown, there is an area where each family's fish pond is located.
Naughty children often go to the fishpond to pick lotus, and the main reason for raising lotus flowers in the fishpond is to sell the lotus root for money - it is said that there is a long lotus root under each lotus, so the children who pick the lotus are not popular.
One of them may be because of the variety, the lotus is especially beautiful, too attractive to children, so in order to keep the lotus flower of their own family, they go on patrol every day.
Then one morning, the man who went to patrol the house said that a child had fallen from the pond, named Ah Cheng, because the patrolman couldn't swim, so he ran home to find help. In a village where the neighbors were all familiar people, they called their friends to bring things and prepared to help catch people, and finally surrounded a large group of people by the fish pond.
But there was no Ah Cheng in it - the whole pond was drained. Everyone laughed at the fact that the patrolman was blind. One day, my family told me like a joke about the cause and effect of this incident, and told me that I should see things clearly in the future before making a decision.
I thought the story was over until two years ago, when I went back to my hometown.
I talked to a playmate who was growing up about it, and I said that one of the children had fallen off. She said: "Yes, Ah Liang fell, 13 years old, from the Zhang family." ”
I was surprised and said, "How is Aliang?".Didn't Ah Liang just be electrocuted?It was Ah Cheng who fell. ”
She said suspiciously, "Who is Ah Cheng?"**There is a Cheng?”
I remember clearly, it was Ah Cheng, because he was not in the same village, I didn't pay attention to this person anymore, but we went to the same elementary school, and since he had an accident, this person has disappeared.
I still wonder if someone fell at that timeWhere did the child who fell go?Is everyone's memory erased, except me?
- Pu Jia
3. There are two brothers in the husband's family, and the husband is the second brother.
After we got married, we lived with our in-laws, and we often had small frictions with our in-laws because of trivial matters in life. Once after a quarrel with my in-laws, there was a lot of movement, but they barely lived together. One night not long after, I dreamed of a young man, who felt like he was in his twenties, and he couldn't see his face clearly, and he said to me a little fiercely: Be nice to my mother!Somehow, I immediately knew in my heart that this was the second child, and I felt a little strange in my heart!Later, I learned from the chatter of my in-laws' relatives that my mother-in-law had given birth to three children, the second child died, and my husband was actually the third!
Later, I lived separately from my in-laws, and the relationship eased a lot, and I never quarreled anymore. Of course, I haven't dreamed of seeing the second child. Be in awe of the unknown.
- See you
4 I have a relative in my family, an old lady in the countryside, who is strong and capable, with a square face, hanging eyebrows, and a horizontal face, and when she is not smiling, she has a fierce spirit.
One year on Chinese New Year's Eve, her little grandson was bouncing on the big kang one second, alive and well, and the next second he lay straight down, his hands and feet were cold, and he couldn't call. The family was frightened and busily pinched people, and after a while the child eased up, except for a little wilting, no energy, and nothing else. During the Chinese New Year, there was such a thing in the countryside, and everyone felt very strange, saying that they should find someone to take a look.
Suspicious, the old lady found a big immortal who could pinch and calculate, and burned incense to take a look, "Oh, the ancestors of the family (our local custom to offer the tablets of the deceased old man during the New Year) have all come back, this old man is rare children, and he accidentally brushed it." ”
Daxian taught her again, you coaxed the ancestor to be happy like this, and it would be fine to burn a piece of paper money and send it away. This old lady is not an ordinary person, when she heard it, she immediately became angry and scolded her. "I will invite you back for the New Year to eat and drink, you don't protect the juniors of the family, and you also come out to scare people, the old lady is no longer serving, you should go where you go!She angrily extinguished the incense and candles, overturned the offering table, and removed the house, and the family did not dare to go against her will, and let her toss it.
After this incident, some of the women in the village who chewed their tongues were privately discussing whether something would happen to her family again, and they were waiting to see the joke. But the old lady's children have a smooth career, their children and grandchildren are smart and cute, and their lives are prosperous.
I kind of admire this old lady, she respects ghosts and gods and is not afraid of ghosts and gods, she has a strong psychological quality, and she is not afraid of anything.
- Little Lazy Cat
5 My father and my mother have always had a good relationship, my mother was thirty-five years old when my father died, and after two or three years, some people slowly began to persuade her to find someone while she was young.
But my mother refused, I know she can't let go of her father, because the ** at home has not been put away, every New Year's holiday or their birthday, my mother will take me and my brother to the grave of my father.
I still vividly remember the day I got my college acceptance letter, I had a dream at night.
I dreamed that my father said, "Daughter, you have been admitted to university, Dad is so happy, Dad has another thing to tell you, you must remember." Tomorrow you take your mother to ***'s house for a walk, you must go. ”
I wanted to open my mouth to say two words, but it was like someone pinching my neck and couldn't breathe, so I woke up with a sudden struggle, and sat up to find that my face was covered in sweat.
In the morning, I asked my mother if she knew***, and my mother said that it was the grandmother who usually bought vegetables with her and taught her to knit sweaters, and was an elementary school teacher before she retired.
After eating at noon, my mother bought a carton of milk, took two cans of self-fried spicy sauce, and took me to Grandma Li's house.
As soon as I entered the door, I found that there was a guest, a middle-aged man, and some gifts on the table, and he smiled when he saw us.
The first time I saw him, I felt like my dad, especially the face shape and eyes, which were very similar.
Later, he became my stepfather not long after, and I heard him say that he just wanted Grandma Li to help him inquire about whether he was a single mother with two children.
The stepfather said that he also had twin children, a son and a daughter, and when he was nine years old, he took the children out of the house and had a car accident, and he survived, and the children were gone.
What was even more surprising was that his child and my father left on the same day, and I was just nine years old that year.
- Aman
6 When I was about 5 years old—although my previous memories were not very clear and blurred, I remember this event clearly.
My hometown is a small mountain village in Sichuan, I grew up at my grandparents' house, it was summer, adults went out early in the morning to do farm work, and my little doll stayed at home to take care of the house, and did nothing.
Also at home is my maternal great-grandfather (my grandfather's father), he should have been unwell at that time and had been resting in the back room all year round, the room is located at the back of the master bedroom, because it is an old house on the first floor, so it is a little damp all year round and does not get much sun, even in summer, it is not hot at all and very cool.
At this time, I was playing in the hall, and the door was open, but at this moment, in the sky on the roof of the tiled house of the house directly below our house, two people in white coats suddenly appeared (I don't remember the details of the clothes, it was the ankle-length coat worn by the snow-white ancient men) and walked straight towards our door with steps like going down the stairs, and I was frightened and didn't know who they were, so I hid behind our gate and peeked at them.
After they landed, they went directly to the back room, and after a while, one of them held my great-great-grandfather's armpit with one hand, and my grandfather's feet were bent in the air, and they were escorted by them like this, looking at my great-grandfather's expression, he was extremely unwilling. In this way, the two of them were escorted to the same way as before, and walked to the sky step by step.
When my grandparents came home at noon, I grabbed their clothes and told them what had happened, and they hurriedly went to the back room to check on the situation, and the result was that my great-grandfather had died peacefully and had passed away.
Now 28 years old, I remember one or two memories of my childhood, and this is one of the most impressive, no matter how many years have passed, I can always recall it. Therefore, I am willing to believe in many things in the world that are not natural laws.
- Ni