100 schools of help plan "one life, two luck, three feng shui, four accumulation of yin virtue and five reading, six seven phases and eight godliness, nine nobles and ten health, eleven career and mate selection, twelve good luck and evil avoidance." From the perspective of the I Ching, it is equivalent to clearly pointing out what forces determine a person's fate, and conversely, understanding this sentence will also grasp the key to changing fate.
We may often hear this sentence, and there is something "everything is up to fate, not by others", some people were born in Rome, born rich and noble, and some people have a good destiny and can turn the tables against the wind. Today I will tell you the story of my aunt. This is also recently heard that my cousin successfully took the doctoral examination, but the aunt on the way to the cousin's examination was a stumbling block, she did not want her cousin to be admitted to the doctorate, we do not know what the specific reason is, but I still want to tell the story of the aunt.
There were six sisters in my mother, including my only uncle, and if it wasn't for that sport, my father might have been someone else, while my mother traveled around with a decent pension, and of course several other aunts.
A few decades ago, my grandfather was the head of a small county in the northwest, because he said the wrong thing, he was **, not so much because he met a nobleman to help his family move to the current province, but rather to run for his life. At that time, my aunt was not yet born, and my grandparents led several children to change their names and surnames, climbed mountains and waded through rivers to a remote village, and my grandfather had a high emotional intelligence and was kind, and soon had a good reputation in that village. Not long after my aunt was born, my grandfather still didn't escape, and the people above pulled my grandfather away very accurately, and my grandfather ate free meals for 11 years. After my grandfather was arrested, my grandmother couldn't stand the blow, looking at several children and a young aunt, I wanted to give my aunt away several times, worried that my aunt would starve to death, but my mother kept blocking it, and then my aunt was not given away, so my aunt was not accompanied by my grandfather in her childhood. At that time, the burden of supporting the family fell on the head of my mother, and my mother and several aunts would sometimes sit together and reminisce about that gloomy life.
When I was born, my mother and several aunts and uncles were already married, and only my aunt was in junior high school. Life was too hard at that time, my grandmother married her daughters early, and it would have been okay if my grandfather asked to bring all his children back with him, but my grandfather didn't do so, and he didn't even take compensation. Mother and three aunts stayed in this place, my grandfather took away my grandmother's uncle's family and my aunt who went to school, and arranged a job for my uncle after I went back, and my aunt also arranged a job for my aunt who had no education, and then went to college at public expense, and arranged a job after graduation, which is now Guodian work.
After my aunt went to work, there was a time when the unit organized to go to the Xi, and I met a stranger, and that person said that you people belong to this girl's best life. This girl is my aunt. At that time, someone was curious and asked the reason, and the person said that there was a mole on a certain part of my aunt, and this mole was a Fu mole. My aunt was also puzzled that she had a mole, which was in the part that the person said, but in the end, she didn't take it seriously.
Grandpa has always felt indebted to my aunt, as much as possible to give my aunt good material conditions, we went back to our hometown to see a lot of old **, grandpa everywhere with his aunt, a table of adults on the aunt a child sitting next to grandpa, has been grandpa tried his best to pamper.
My aunt also married late, and I got married in my 30s in that era, and my grandmother always felt that no one was worthy of my aunt, and her little daughter couldn't marry far away and had to stay by her side. Later, I was introduced to my sister-in-law, who was a few years younger than my aunt, worked in CCB, and was polite, so my sister-in-law's family felt that it was their own high climbing, and my aunt had not served her mother-in-law, and she had not even made a meal, and her sister-in-law's family had such a college student, and it was said that my brother-in-law's younger brother was also very good at Xi, but he gave up in order for his sister-in-law to continue to go to school, and helped subsidize the family very early.
The sister-in-law is famous for his stinky temper in the unit, but he is always good-tempered at home, and he has never seen what it looks like for the aunt to speak loudly, and the aunt cooks and the sister-in-law helps to lay down and wash the dishes, and the sister-in-law is also a temperamental, likes to travel, and every time he is driving, the aunt loves to nag, and he listens to the aunt in various commands along the way. Last year, my sister-in-law took my mother, aunt and aunt out to visit five provinces on annual leave, and my mother said that my aunt couldn't stand nagging all the way, but my sister-in-law was not affected at all, and I didn't quarrel, we all know that my aunt's problems don't like to go shopping or travel with her, which really affects the mood. I remember when my little sister got married, my aunt was shopping in the mall to buy clothes for herself a week in advance, and my aunt brought a trolley box full of clothes she bought, and on the day of the wedding, my aunt was wearing her old clothes, and bought three or four sets of clothes that she didn't wear, and we all took it as a joke.
My aunt had a child with her cousin, and at that time, my grandmother and aunt persuaded her to have more children, and they all helped to bring them, but my aunt resolutely said that she would never have children again. My cousin grew up under the pampering of my aunt since I was a child, and I didn't wear cheap clothes, but my cousin was not spoiled, and he was very good at Xi school, and he was very obedient, as if he hadn't heard of any rebellious period for his cousin, I heard that the most serious thing was that his cousin fell in love when he was in high school, and his aunt broke off this idea with various coercion and temptations, which did not affect his cousin to be admitted to his ideal university with high scores. Aunt is worried that her cousin will not take care of herself during college, and her cousin has been used to not having any self-care since she was a child, in fact, we were all worried at that time, and my aunt rented a suite next to my cousin's university, and she wanted to take care of her cousin's life in person, and my aunt spent tens of thousands of dollars for a month, and my cousin asked my aunt to go home, and I could take care of myself, and my aunt finally had no choice but to go home. The cousin really didn't disappoint everyone, and successfully went to graduate school, the score at that time could go to Tsinghua University's graduate school, the tutor also liked the cousin, and would introduce students to the cousin for guidance, and the cousin earned 5 figures every month, and there was no need for the aunt to give another living expenses.
My cousin graduated from graduate school, many state-owned enterprises and central enterprises have thrown olive branches, and my aunt finally intervened to stay in their provincial capital, and my cousin went to class for a few months, and he decided to take the exam again, and my aunt means that you are going to work while Xi to take the exam, it is estimated that you will not be able to pass the exam if you don't have time Xi to study. In March this year, I took my parents to Yunnan, by the way to see my grandmother, and by the way I met my cousin, my aunt bought a suite for my cousin, and lived alone, my cousin went back to the house in addition to eating is studying Xi, there are no wine bottles and no cigarette handles in the house, we can't help but envy my aunt, this child is really worry-free, and then my cousin was admitted to the doctorate, and my aunt was angry for a long time, and we were speechless.
A few days ago, the eldest sister held a college banquet for the child, I didn't participate in it when I was far away, and the eldest sister complained about the aunt: that is, her own aunt, she has long stopped interacting with others, and I don't know how the aunt can endure it, I smiled and said that the aunt's life is good, no matter what, I have my aunt, the eldest sister said that this is really a good life, there is no way to get it.
Mother and several other aunts because of that movement, their fate has to turn the gears turn upside down, my mother still looks down on my father, and my father is proud of marrying my mother, and now my uncle and aunt say that my father has a good life, married the daughter of the county magistrate, I think my father's life is good, he has four daughters.
My aunt has only spent a few years in the countryside and is in school, and she has basically never done farm work, so she may not be able to distinguish various crops until now.
My aunt has one more mole than others, and her fate is better than that of many people, and if she has a good-natured gentleman and a sensible child, she has already won.