When courting girls, the issue of gift-giving often confuses boys. I haven't decided on the relationship yet, do I need to give a gift?As an experienced person, I don't think there is a fixed answer to this question, but it needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis. Here, I would like to share with you my thoughts and some practical examples.
First of all, let's make it clear that gift-giving is just a way to express feelings, not an end. When we pursue girls, the most important thing is to establish good communication, understand each other's interests and needs, and show our sincerity and charm. Gift-giving can be used as an adjunct, but it must not be dominant.
For example, when I was still courting my girlfriend, we met by chance and left each other *** In the following days, I learned through chat that she likes to read, so I gave her a book that she had been looking forward to for a long time. It was not a precious gift, but it made her feel my care and attention. Eventually, we were in a relationship, and the book became a fond memory for us.
Secondly, gifts should be given in moderation, not too often, and not too expensive. Giving gifts too often can make the other person feel pressured and even disgusted;Gifts that are too expensive can be a burden on the other person and they feel that they cannot reciprocate. A modest gift that can both express your heart and make the other person feel comfortable.
For example, a friend of mine chose to send his heart on an important day when he was courting the girl he wanted. For example, on a girl's birthday, he sent a bouquet of flowers and a handwritten greeting card, which was simple but full of sincerity. Such a gift makes the girl feel both surprised and warm, and is willing to give him more opportunities to understand and contact.
Also, give gifts that are personalized. Everyone's preferences and needs are different, and when we give gifts, we should try to choose gifts that match each other's interests and needs, so that the other party can feel our intentions.
For example, I once pursued a girl who loved **. On a date, I gave her a ticket to a ** club that she liked the band, and she was very happy and felt that I understood her very well. That ticket was an important opportunity for our relationship to grow.
In closing, I would like to say that pursuing a girl is not a contest of gifts, but a contest of sincerity, care and understanding. When we give gifts, we should pay attention to the feelings of the other person and express our emotions sincerely. Only in this way can we win each other's hearts.
In short, when courting a girl, giving gifts can be a way to express your heart, but the key is to establish good communication, understand the interests and needs of the other person, and show your sincerity and charm. Gifts should be moderate and personalized, so that the other party can feel our intentions. The most important thing is that we must treat every feeling sincerely, pursue it with our hearts, and operate with our hearts. In this way, we can win the trust and favor of each other.