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A good relationship is cultivated, two people are destined to come together, but they don't pay attention to the cultivation of feelings, don't know how to use words to maintain this relationship with actions, and often do things that hurt the feelings of two people, such as rude words, saying some derogatory words to each other, two people are busy with their own affairs, often ignore each other, and finally the feelings of two people will slowly fade away.
For men, after maintaining the affection of the hand, you don't need to invest too much, you can talk with your heart, do things with your heart, and often manage the relationship between two people.
I found that women love to hear these 4 words the most, how many words have you said?In fact, what women like to listen to is also different from person to person, the most important thing is to "say what women like to hear", and finally tell her more, which can often enhance the relationship between two people.
1."I'm here. I've always been here. ”
The so-called "young male wife", a woman and a man together, is nothing more than to find a man for herself who can be relied on for a lifetime, she subconsciously hopes that the man she chooses can become her backer at a critical moment, and lend her a shoulder to rely on when she is emotionally lost.
When a woman loses affection, when a woman is in trouble, when a woman feels insecure, if a man can say to a woman, "I'm here, I've always been there." "Women tend to feel warm when they see men by their side all the time, and they become more attached to men.
2."I changed it to surprise you. ”
When the opposite sex is together, men think highly of themselves, feel that they are perfect, and do not allow women to have an opinion on their own affairs.
When a man does something wrong, the man will only justify his fault and listen to the woman's opinion, and at this time, the woman will be disappointed.
On the contrary, a man can humbly accept a woman's opinion, and when a woman criticizes him, a man can say to a woman: "I have changed, surprise you." ”
Men can also back up what they say with actions, women will be surprised, women will feel that such a man is reliable, and they are willing to give their hearts to this man.
3."You're so nice. You're really astonishing me. ”
In a relationship, there is no woman who does not want the affirmation of a man, how many times have you affirmed a woman?How many times have you complimented women?Have you noticed any small positive changes in women?
There is a lot of beauty in life, and women also have a lot of shining points, don't be blind, observe carefully, and when you find the good in a woman, express it bravely. Say to the woman, "You're so nice. You're really astonishing me. ”
You can see the good in a woman, you can express your gratitude, and a woman will feel valued by you, which will move her.
4."Don't hurt yourself. It hurts my heart. ”
In a love life, what woman wouldn't want to be loved by the man she chose?
In this era, it is not easy for women, work and family, women have to take care of it, and women have to be wronged, at this time, if men don't understand, they often turn a blind eye, and women's hearts are often sour.
If a man values a woman, say to one more woman: "Don't wronged yourself, I will feel distressed." "You rest, I'll do this. "Where are you?""I'm here to see you. I just miss you all of a sudden. When women hear these words, they are often inexplicably moved in their hearts, and they only feel that there are people in their lives who love them, and no matter how hard and tired they are, they are also worth it.