Feng Dan finally divorced Han Jinjin.
Feng Dan got the evidence of Han Jinjin's cheating, domestic violence and misappropriation, and successfully swept Han Jinjin out of the house.
After solving Han Jinjin, Feng Dan made a move on Chen Li.
Taking advantage of Chen Li's drunkenness, Feng Dan gave Hou Yuanyuan a **, and Hou Yuanyuan scolded:
"You're announcing that you're a junior, right?Feng Dan figured out Hou Yuanyuan's attitude, Hou Yuanyuan was determined to divorce Chen Li.Let me tell you, Chen Li is the garbage I don't want, I threw it out, and I took the initiative to divorce!”
Feng Dan took care of Chen Li all night, and cooked soup for Chen Li in the early morning, and she said to Chen Li ambiguously
"Brother Li, if you and your sister-in-law really reach the point of no return, I am willing to take this responsibility.Feng Dan pretended to inadvertently reveal the red bell on his wrist, which Chen Li had once tied to Feng Dan's hand. After Feng Dan was injured by Han Jinjin's domestic violence, Chen Li once took in Feng Dan, Chen Li said that he was worried that she would need someone to take care of her at night, so he gave her this bell.I mean, I'd love to be with you. ”
It was from that time that the relationship between the two quickly heated up.
From "good feelings" to "emotional".
Chen Li didn't dare to face his heart, even if it was Hou Yuanyuan's ironclad torture, Chen Li lied and said that he and Feng Dan were innocent.
In fact, Chen Li has long been mentally derailed.
Feng Dan's confession made Chen Li shake.
On the one hand, there is Hou Yuanyuan, the loveless and sexless but hard-working original partner, and on the other hand, there is Feng Dan, a confidante with all kinds of charms, which one you choose, it means that you will lose the other.
Chen Li was very distressed and couldn't make a decision for a long time.
Feng Dan gave Chen Li a month to think about it and waited for his reply.
It wasn't until the eighteenth day that Chen Li reluctantly sent a message to Feng Dan:
"I'm back in my hometown, with Yuan Yuan and my daughter, don't wait any longer, I won't get divorced. ”
The choice Chen Li made was not from his own heart, but forced by reality.
Chen Li rejected Feng Dan, his eyes turned red in an instant, he was reluctant to give up Feng Dan, but he could only "endure the pain and cut his love".
Chen Li's hesitation, heartache and helplessness were all shown on his face.
Feng Dan would never have imagined that Chen Li obviously didn't love Hou Yuanyuan, so why he refused to divorce.
Chen Li has never loved Hou Yuanyuan.
Marriage is loveless, sexless, monotonous and boring, so he will think about Feng Dan.
In order to take care of Feng Dan, Chen Lihui lied to Hou Yuanyuan many times, but he would not give up Hou Yuanyuan for Feng Dan.
Chen Li in "Xiaoman Life" is a very realistic man, and the four reasons why he does not divorce are more heart-piercing than the other.
1. The fragility of Chen Li and Feng Dan's "extramarital affair".
Chen Li didn't love Hou Yuanyuan, and he didn't love Feng Dan that much.
Feng Dan was injured and committed suicide, which aroused Chen Li's desire to protect her, but Chen Li's feelings for Feng Dan have not yet reached the point of "she has to be".
Chen Li and Feng Dan lived together for a short time, and their relationship was ambiguous, but there was no substantive relationship.
Chen Li's physical "restraint" gave him a chance to turn back.
In Chen Li's concept, as long as the last line of defense is not broken, it does not mean derailment.
Chen Li guarded that line, indicating that he was not ready to really be with Feng Dan.
Feng Dan is gentle and beautiful, but her attraction to Chen Li only comes from her appearance.
To put it bluntly, Feng Dan aroused Chen Li's desire, but he never touched Chen Li's soul and did not really enter Chen Li's heart.
Chen Li and Feng Dan's relationship is not so deep, even if they are separated, it will be painful for a while at most, which is not enough to break up their wives.
Chen Li is very greedy, he wants both women, but if he really makes a choice, he will not hesitate to choose Hou Yuanyuan.
The difference between the original partner and the lover, Chen Li can still tell clearly.
Feng Dan, a weak and colorful woman, needs a man to protect her, and is suitable for falling in love, but she is not suitable for marrying home as a wife.
Although Hou Yuanyuan is not as emotional as Feng Dan, he is a good hand at living, and Hou Yuanyuan is the good woman who can let him have no worries.
2. Chen Li's "squeezing" of Hou Yuanyuan
The dirty work after marriage was all done by Hou Yuanyuan.
Hou Yuanyuan sacrificed his career and accompanied his daughter Chen Jiaqi back to her hometown to go to school, so that Chen Li could work steadily.
In the relationship, it is also Hou Yuanyuan who is taking the initiative.
Chen Li doesn't need to call Hou Yuanyuan, he doesn't need to care about Hou Yuanyuan, he only needs to accept Hou Yuanyuan's "check", and he can be safe.
Hou Yuanyuan and Chen Li's mode of getting along made Chen Li Xi to "being loved".
Chen Li doesn't need to spend too much energy to have a stable family, which Feng Dan can't give him.
Chen Li and Feng Dan are together, it is Chen Li who protects and takes care of Feng Dan, and Chen Li needs to pay more.
A selfish man like Chen Li can't sacrifice himself.
What's more, Feng Dan has a rich love history, she is not a woman who keeps to herself, and she is far less reliable than Hou Yuanyuan.
3, Chen Jiaqi's "rebellion".
It was his daughter Chen Jiaqi who made Chen Li painfully decide to separate from Feng Dan.
Chen Jiaqi was humiliated by Guan Shuying's teacher at school, and Hou Yuanyuan sought justice for Chen Jiaqi and had an argument with Guan Shuying.
Unexpectedly, an accident happened.
Guan Shuying had a heart attack, and Hou Yuanyuan also became the one who hurt Guan Shuying
There was such a big thing at home, Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan overcame the difficulties together, and Chen Li stood on Hou Yuanyuan's side.
Only then did Chen Li know that Hou Yuanyuan was a full-time accompaniment, which seemed easy, but it was actually very hard.
Looking at Hou Yuanyuan's thin back, Chen Li's heart softened.
Chen Jiaqi's grades are not satisfactory, and she is in adolescence, sensitive and rebellious, and it is really not easy to take care of Chen Jiaqi.
It was this sudden change that made Chen Li see the importance of family.
The family has to face ups and downs together, and for the sake of his daughter, he can't break up the family.
Chen Jiaqi is the link between Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan, Feng Dan, who is unable to have children, can't give Chen Li a complete family, Hou Yuanyuan will work hard for Chen Jiaqi, and Feng Dan will always be an outsider.
4, Chen Li's "get by".
After Chen Li's marriage, he longed for freshness and had an ambiguous relationship with Feng Dan, but he didn't have the courage to break the original balance.
When Feng Dan and Han Jinjin divorced, Han Jinjin said to her:
"You, you don't understand men at all, you abandoned me so without hesitation, Chen Li will not divorce.Han Jinjin broke through Chen Li's essence in one sentence.A man like him will not divorce even if he is aggrieved. ”
Chen Li is indecisive and indecisive, and he can't take the step of divorce.
Chen Li is Xi to his current family and career, and divorce means breaking everything and rebuilding a new relationship.
This is something that Chen Li dare not think.
Hou Yuanyuan will take care of the family, his mother-in-law is also good to him, his daughter trusts him, and his friend Ye Yifan does not support him and Feng Dan together.
If Chen Li really chooses Feng Dan, he will face the end of betrayal and separation.
Chen Li can't afford that kind of consequence.
Chen Li likes Feng Dan and doesn't dare to confess or admit it, which is enough to prove his cowardice.
Feng Dan at least has the courage to divorce and pursue love, and Chen Li is not as bold as Feng Dan.
Mr. Liu said that some employees "rely on the old and sell the old" in the unit, and Chen Li is such a person.
A stable job and marriage have worn out Chen Li's passion, but he doesn't have the courage to jump out of the siege, so he gets by in a mess.
It is precisely because of this that Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan have not divorced for more than ten years.
Chen Li was too afraid of change, he dragged and refused to divorce Hou Yuanyuan, so he dragged Hou Yuanyuan into the fire pit again.
The reason why Chen Li married Hou Yuanyuan was because Hou Yuanyuan "cheated on marriage".
Hou Yuanyuan lied that he was pregnant and couldn't have a baby, forcing Chen Li to marry her.
Marriage without love and responsibility is a mess after marriage.
Hou Yuanyuan was hurt by Chen Li, misunderstood by Chen Jiaqi, and had to clean up the mess for their father and daughter, Hou Yuanyuan is the saddest person.
Hou Yuanyuan forcibly married Chen Li, which was the beginning of her unhappy marriage.
Without a loving family, her daughter Chen Jiaqi did not grow into a healthy and sunny appearance.
Chen Jiaqi always has a gloomy expression, is withdrawn and introverted, and has no friends at school.
Some classmates showed favor to Chen Jiaqi, but Chen Jiaqi did not respond indifferently, her incompatibility made the teacher and classmates very disgusted.
Chen Jiaqi's character is inseparable from Hou Yuanyuan and Chen Li's marriage.
Hou Yuanyuan was insecure, anxious, and short-tempered, and passed on his emotions to Chen Jiaqi;And Chen Li Xi used to being the shopkeeper, and he didn't care enough about Chen Jiaqi, and Chen Jiaqi had no one to talk to.
On the issue of Chen Jiaqi's education, Hou Yuanyuan and Chen Li were both at fault.
In fact, compared to Chen Li, Hou Yuanyuan loves Chen Jiaqi more.
Hou Yuanyuan witnessed Han Jinjin** Chen Li and Feng Dan, all thoughts were lost, and he decided to divorce, and did not forget to buy the roast duck that Chen Jiaqi likes to eat.
On Hou Yuanyuan's divorce agreement, both houses were given to Chen Jiaqi.
Chen Jiaqi was wronged by Guan Shuying, Hou Yuanyuan would believe Chen Jiaqi and force Guan Shuying to apologize to Chen Jiaqi.
Chen Li, who is a nest, may not dare to stand up for Chen Jiaqi.
This is also an important reason why Chen Li refuses to divorce, Hou Yuanyuan is the pillar and backbone of the family.
Chen Jiaqi is more willing to get close to Chen Li.
After Chen Li and Feng Dan lived together was discovered by Chen Jiaqi, Chen Jiaqi chose to help Chen Li lie.
Chen Jiaqi's white-eyed wolf behavior is the biggest satire on Hou Yuanyuan.
Everyone is hiding from Hou Yuanyuan.
Hou Yuanyuan paid a lot for his family, but in exchange for Chen Li's betrayal, Chen Jiaqi's incomprehension.
Chen Jiaqi rejected Hou Yuanyuan because Hou Yuanyuan took care of everything and did all the thankless things.
Urging Chen Jiaqi to learn Xi, giving Chen Jiaqi make-up lessons, and even urging Chen Jiaqi to drink milk, these are all things that Chen Jiaqi does not want.
And Chen Li only needs to go to work, feed the cats, and play the role of a good father.
Even Chen Li and Feng Dan derailed mentally, Hou Yuanyuan forgave Chen Li for Chen Jiaqi, agreed to Chen Li's return to the family, and did not divorce.
Maybe when Chen Jiaqi grows up, he will understand Hou Yuanyuan's good intentions.
Xiaoman Life" Hou Yuanyuan kept the integrity of this family, she waited for Chen Li's gratitude, but she could never get Chen Li's love.
Hou Yuanyuan made the wrong move of "cheating marriage", and he will suffer for the rest of his life.
In a marriage with a rift, there will always be a thorn.
A two-way relationship is meaningful.
Hou Yuanyuan gave all his love to his husband and daughter, but he forgot to love himself well, people, sometimes you can be appropriately selfish.
The giving in the relationship should also be done in moderation, and do not let the other party take enjoyment as a Xi.
Hou Yuanyuan's ending is very realistic, and this is the most painful.
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