Where will the wheel of fate put us?This question is perhaps the most haunting mystery of life's long journey. Someone once said: "Good tempers are grinded out, and bad things are habitual." "Yes, people live and always hope for a smooth journey, but in fact, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?
Sometimes, we seem to be acting in a Three Kingdoms drama, with the expectations of Brother Taoyuan in our hearts, but we often encounter the demons and monsters in Journey to the West unexpectedly. Interpersonal relationships are complex, and there are very few people who are truly worthy of deep friendship. Because people's hearts are not exchanged equally. Therefore, in the drama of life, we need to adjust our mentality, not be impetuous, maintain emotional stability, grind out a good temper, and retain more good luck.
But remember, don't indulge in human interactions. Some people, on the surface, are close to you, but behind the scenes, they are trying to calculate you. This is just like what Zengguang Xianwen said: "There are still thorns under the branches and leaves, how can people's hearts be protected from poison." "Don't be impulsive when you encounter problems, and talk less about people's rights and wrongs, so that you can live a full life and live comfortably. Because the best way to ruin a person is to have nothing to do and nothing to do.
People, there are always trials in life, just like a huge game. Some people pursue all external success in order to be happier than others, but they lose their inner peace in comparison. I've heard of a girl who has a job in the system, a high-quality boyfriend, and a seemingly happy life. However, when she learned that her friend was living a happier life, her heart was turbulent. Why do we always live so hard?It is because we are not pursuing happiness, but "being happier than others".
Therefore, we must learn to stop comparing and truly understand that happiness is an inner state, not an external material. As a wise man once said, "Happiness is an ability, and being happier than others is a desire." "Only by enriching one's heart and refusing to be manipulated by desire can one find the most lasting source of happiness.
Have you ever felt tired from your life?Actually, it may be because you have too many superfluous things in your heart, like the taste of being full. 99% of the troubles in life are caused by ourselves。I can't let go of trivial matters, I can't give up the troubles of interpersonal relationships, and I can't forget the obsession ...... that I can't ask forThese are the shackles that we have imposed on ourselves.
"Afflictions arise from attachment, from ignorance, from not being able to see, out of selfishness. ”It's a long road to suffering. Therefore, in the journey of life, we need to constantly prune our spiritual garden and remove those heavy branches and leaves, so that we can walk more easily. Distracting thoughts are cleared, and the past is turned over, so that we can see all the beauty in the world.
In this day and age, we often strive to expand our circle of relationships. However, sometimes, I try my best to make friends, only to find that the other party doesn't pay enough attention to me;Try your best to squeeze into a certain circle, and the result is always ignored. Let's not always feel underestimated, let's look backDo you have enough weight? Because interpersonal communication is based on the principle of reciprocity. The stronger the strength and the higher you stand, in order to gain respect and popularity.
The seed does not fall in the fertile soil but in the rubble, and the seed with vitality will never be pessimistic and sighing, because there is resistance to sharpen. "Every resistance is a baptism of life. Adversity is both suffering and opportunity, and only by standing the test will we become stronger. So, even if the road ahead is difficult, let's not shy away and retreat. Bravely face setbacks, live the most high-spirited posture, and become a true strongman.
Life is like an electrocardiogram, with ups and downs, highs and lows. Such twists and turns can make us better feel the passion of life. Every growth in the face of adversity is a metamorphosis, as depicted in movies and literature. Therefore, don't be afraid of the twists and turns in life, because it is only through grinding that we can see better scenery.
Let's remember that the straw is often the last thing that kills us. Some may be surprised to hear this, but let me tell you a story.
In a ** "My Uncle Hule", there is a young man whose family lives in poverty, Philip. He received a letter from his younger brother Hule saying that he had made a fortune outside the home and planned to support Philippe in his life when he returned home. So, Philip waited excitedly, but as the days passed, he never waited for his brother's money. As a result, more than ten years of his life went from bad to worse, and he ended up with nothing.
This story teaches us that sometimes in life we expect too much from external things and entrust our fate to others. However, when you put all your hopes in others, you are left with endless disappointment. Other people's promises and illusory fantasies are just a small straw that can't carry your weight at all. So, don't always get obsessed with the straw that seems to be a lifesaver, because while indulging in it, you may find that this straw will only sink you deeper and deeper.
The road of life is full of unknown joys and sorrows. Sometimes, you may feel like a fog ahead and you can't see where the future is heading. But as the artist Xia Yan said, "There are many truths in the world, and as long as one day you can understand them, it is not too late." "Doctrine is not meant to be heard, but used to be used. It is only through action that we can truly understand and apply these truths and make them the wisdom of our lives.
Finally, let us know how to let go of too much baggage and release the heaviness in our hearts. Let us learn to appreciate the beauty of life's twists and turns, because it is these twists and turns that make our lives more colorful. In the long journey, let us keep an open-minded heart and use wisdom and perseverance to create our own happiness. Life is like an electrocardiogram, with ups and downs, and the real miracle is often hidden in the magnificent journey of life.