When people reach their twilight years, they are struggling, and there are three things that must be kept tight-lipped and cautious in words and deeds
As the years go by, we grow old, our steps become heavy, and we are no longer as light as we were when we were younger. However, even if we can't walk anymore, we can't forget that there are things that require us to keep our mouths shut. Let's take a look at three things that people need to keep secrets when they get old.
1. Family conflicts.
Family conflicts are a problem that every family may encounter, and the elderly are often more likely to recall past conflicts and disputes. However, family conflicts are private matters and are not suitable for public discussion. Older people should learn to keep these conflicts in their hearts and avoid mentioning them in front of their children, so as not to cause unnecessary disputes and misunderstandings.
2. Personal Privacy.
As we get older, we have less and less privacy. However, even if others know about our privacy, it shouldn't be an after-dinner conversation. The elderly should learn to protect their privacy, not to easily disclose their personal information and family situation, and avoid becoming the object of entertainment for others.
3. Past experience.
Everyone has their own past, and these experiences make up the trajectory of our lives. However, past experiences should not be our capital to show off or complain. Older people should learn to let go of their past experiences and not mention their past too much in front of their children, so as not to arouse their disgust and unhappiness. At the same time, past experiences should not be a way for us to compare and attack each other, which will only make our relationship more strained.
In short, the three things that people need to keep their mouths shut when they are old are family conflicts, personal privacy, and past experiences. Older people should learn to keep these secrets in their hearts and avoid talking about them in public in order to maintain family harmony and their own dignity. At the same time, we should also learn to cherish our present life and enjoy the time we spend with our families, so that our old age will be better and happier.