Yu Feihong is now 52 years old, but she is still single, and her appearance is gentle and beautiful, just like a few decades ago.
Why is an actress and director with such an outstanding personality and appearance still unmarried?
The host asked her bluntly: How are physiological needs met?She was invited to participate in a show, and the host has always been blunt and bold.
After a few seconds of silence, Yu Feihong replied, and the audience immediately burst into warm applause, which is really a model of a queen of high emotional intelligence!
Yu Feihong relied on the role of "Amazing Fairy" in "Xiao Li Flying Knife", and his appearance entered the audience's field of vision with a gorgeous appearance.
Her figure appeared in classic film and television dramas such as "The Sword of the Third Young Master" and "Mansion Gate 2".
In the entertainment industry, handsome men and beauties emerge in an endless stream, and Yu Feihong's appearance is also one of the best.
Some netizens said that even now, this person looks like Gao Yuanyuan, Carina Lau, and has the shadow of Faye Wong.
These stars were all top personalities of the time, and their appearances were unique and distinctive, forming a stark contrast.
It can be seen that people have a very high evaluation of Yu Feihong's appearance, and she is indeed worthy of the title of "goddess of immortality".
Did Yu Feihong not get married because he was hurt by a man?Or is it because she didn't find the right match?
Many netizens have speculated, but in fact, Yu Feihong has maintained a simple love life since his debut, and has only had a public relationship for more than 50 years.
That refers to Liu Yunlong, also known as the "Godfather of Spy War".
Liu Yunlong and Yu Feihong's roles are the same, they both direct and act.
Liu Yunlong has left his footprints in films such as "Secret Calculation", "Blood Mist" and "Kite", and he can be called a "big guy" in the field of spy war films.
Liu Yunlong not only has an excellent performance in "Secret Calculation", but also has a very attractive male charm as the leading actor.
Determined gaze, thick eyebrows and big eyes, high nose bridge, plus usually play the image of a "tough guy" and the character is full of patriotic feelings.
His fans are not only women, but also thousands of men, and his looks appeal to both women and men.
Two exquisite-looking people met at the Beijing Film Academy and began a newborn relationship.
However, it just so happens that neither of them is the kind of person who sees love as a priority, and these two people seem to be very similar to each other, and they both pursue the same goal, which is "career first".
After graduation, Liu Yunlong and Yu Feihong both devoted themselves to their work, and they rarely had the opportunity to meet.
At first, everyone was busy with their own things and there were no disputes, but then it turned out that it didn't matter if they were important to each other or not.
The two reconsider whether they should continue because of this relationship that exists in name only.
In relationships, it is often said to choose a complementary partner: one is committed to the cause, while the other is best present as a strong backing.
With the same thought, Liu Yunlong realizes that his life is very busy, so he longs to have a virtuous, sensible wife who can take care of him.
He knew in his heart that this person could never be Yu Feihong.
Yu Feihong has her own unique thoughts and ambitions, she does not want to be a little woman who passively takes care of the family, but hopes to continue to pursue her career.
Although there is an emotional bond between each other, marriage is not only maintained by love, but also whether the two parties are compatible with each other.
Yu Feihong and Liu Yunlong can develop a romantic relationship, but they are not suitable for entering the palace of marriage.
The two eventually chose to let go of each other and ended their relationship. Over time, they eventually broke up.
Several years have passed, but Yu Feihong is still single. Now 52 years old, she participates in variety shows and still maintains a beautiful and generous demeanor. What is surprising is that the host of this show turned out to be the rumored "scandal object" Dou Wentao.
Although Yu Feihong has been single for many years, he is not without emotional experience.
Although the host Dou Wentao has always been the focus of her scandals, even if the two are frequently rumored to be scandals, they have never confirmed their relationship.
In this variety show, Dou Wentao asked Yu Feihong a question as the host: "Why don't you consider getting married?"”
Yu Feihong did not hesitate to show that she supports the doctrine of not getting married, and she is not a person with twists and turns.
She also said that there is no rule on what people must do when they reach their age, and it is not necessary to get married and have children in their 20s.
These ideas have always been instilled in everyone.
Is it the only right choice to follow the trajectory of life that everyone generally believes?
Everyone has the right to make a choice, whether they choose to marry or not to marry, to have children or not to have children.
As long as we make choices that we won't regret, it doesn't seem necessary to let others dictate.
Dou Wentao nodded and heard Yu Feihong's answer.
Dou Wentao was attracted to Yu Feihong when he first met her, but he clearly knew that Yu Feihong was destined to be a "high-flying bird" who could not be tethered by anyone.
Wang Shuo also mentioned that for Feihong, he can only watch from a distance, and cannot play at will.
Her image is like a "lotus" in everyone's eyes, white and noble, and no one seems to be able to let her put down her transcendent posture.
Although Dou Wentao felt some regret, he still couldn't hide his love for Yu Feihong.
With the encouragement of his friends, Dou Wentao gradually changed his mind. He realized that if he pursued Yu Feihong, he was destined to seek trouble, and this relationship would never come to fruition.
Being her confidant and friend allows the two to stay in communication for the rest of their lives.
Dou Wentao's idea of Yu Feihong remained deeply in his heart, and he has been with him for 20 years, and finally made the two become real close friends.
In order to increase the appeal of the show, it is usually necessary to create some exciting plots, so the "scandal" between the two is also mentioned, and Yu Feihong reacts quickly to it.
She expressed that she was not the kind of person Dou Wentao was pursuing.
Although this is an alternative way of refusal, it does not cause embarrassment to Dou Wentao, which shows that Yu Feihong has a fairly high emotional intelligence.
Dou Wentao also half-jokingly continued: "Of course you are the object of my love, but unfortunately this love can only be watched and cannot be actually enjoyed." ”
Another guest of the show also asked curiously: "If you don't get married, how do you solve your physiological needs?"”
As a writer, Feng Tang often goes deeper"Gender relations"This topic, and this expression may touch on the sensitive points of the average person.
Yu Feihong is not an ordinary person, she thought about this question carefully, and replied: "This is also a part of life, just like eating and sleeping, there is nothing special. ”
Addressing this need is like dealing with everyday things.
When people are hungry, they need to eat;When you're tired, you need to rest. For the problem of physiological needs, we should solve it in a normal way.
Although Yu Feihong resolved these words, everyone still doesn't know who helped her solve her "needs".
She also points out that women often involve an emotional element when dealing with this "need", while men are different and are able to meet this "need" even in the absence of emotion.
Yu Feihong's point of view is that men are more driven by physiological needs when dealing with problems, and will take action regardless of whether the other person likes it or not.
The conversation was blocked, and Dou Wentao and Feng Tang never continued to speak.
Yu Feihong answered every question carefully in this show, and even if some of the questions were quite tricky, she also answered them with excellent performance.
Over the years, Yu Feihong has actually been rumored to have various scandals, some involving rich people and some involving actors, but none of these rumors have been conclusive, just some unrealistic speculations.
is related to her experience, so Yu Feihong has a relatively "relaxed" attitude towards marriage.
In fact, Yu Feihong is not unwilling to fall in love or get married, but she hopes to choose a lifestyle that suits her.
She shared a short story about marriage on the show, telling about a couple who got into an argument over the placement of shoes and even moved their hands in anger.
The fact that two people get married in one day and then divorce the following day shows that marriage is actually an important way to test whether two people are suitable.
When it comes to this issue, we often see that many couples are intimate when they are in love, but once they are married, they may dislike each other. This is most likely because the living habits of the two people are not quite suitable.
The girls insisted that the laundry be done that day, while the boys insisted on waiting some days before doing the laundry. In addition, boys may want to smoke and drink alcohol at home, while girls are opposed to this behavior.
If no one is willing to compromise, the conflict will continue to grow, and the only outcome may be divorce.
Yu Feihong said that she is a free person, and if she thinks that being single is better than getting married, then she chooses to be single.
If one day she meets the right person and thinks that getting married will be better than her current single status, she will also consider getting married.
Therefore, getting married is not a choice, but rather a consideration of which lifestyle will bring the greatest happiness. If you're already happy to be single, why even think about getting married?
When Yu Feihong pursues her career goals, even if she pays a lot, it is enough for her to feel happy in her heart.
When filming the movie "Holding Hands", Yu Feihong's appearance has already become the "white moonlight" in the minds of many people.
Her passion for directing is growing day by day, and after 10 years of hibernation, she is finally ready to release her own film "Love Has an Afterlife".
After four years of revising the script, Yu Feihong can be said to be extremely persistent, in order to restore the plot and scenes, he traveled to several regions after the start of filming.
It wasn't until she came to the Gaoligong Mountain area in Yunnan that she officially decided to start filming.
Then she faced new difficulties, the weather was bad, which made the daily shooting cost as high as hundreds of thousands, and she had to sell everything such as the house to ensure that the shooting was completed.
She invested more than 40 million into the film, but the final box office was only more than 2 million, and it failed to achieve the expected success.
Despite this, she still has no regrets, and her hard work also brings a touch of comfort, because her careful production won her the Best ** Award at the 17th Beijing University Student Film Festival.
She said that she spent the best 10 years of her life to complete this matter, and her heart is full of satisfaction and no regrets.
Yu Feihong is indeed a unique woman.
Despite her good looks and a chance to be an instant hit, she gave up her thriving career as an actress in order to chase her dreams;Because of the breakup of her career and campus lover, she is still unmarried and childless.
What she did was seen as "unworthy" by everyone, but at the age of 52, she still appeared in the limelight with a radiant face.
She declares to everyone that she has never regretted the choices she has made, and that she is now living her best life!