There is no difference between going out of the cabinet and getting married, out of the cabinet in ancient times referred to the marriage of the princess, and later generally referred to the marriage of the woman. In ancient times, the pavilion was the boudoir, and the unmarried women lived in the attic, so the married women were called "out of the pavilion".
The process of the exit ceremony.
1. The host is on the stage.
Generally speaking, a special master of ceremonies will be invited to preside over the banquet, and if there is no special master of ceremonies, a more talkable relative, friend or elder will generally be invited to preside over the whole ceremony.
2. The bride-to-be appears with her parents.
In the banquet, the bride and the bride's parents belong to the protagonists of the banquet, so generally speaking, there will be a link where the bride-to-be and her parents will appear first.
3. The prospective groom appears.
After the bride and the bride's parents appear, the groom will appear, and the master of ceremonies needs to praise the groom at this time.
4. The prospective groom offers flowers to marry.
In front of many relatives and friends in the bride's family, the groom proposes to the bride and asks the bride to agree to marry him. Proposing in front of relatives and friends for them to witness is actually a very romantic part.
5. The prospective groom passes the examination.
It is not so simple for the groom to propose marriage at the banquet, after all, there are so many uncles, uncles, brothers and sisters present, and if you want to take the bride away, you have to answer questions. Only by answering all the questions correctly, the bride will accept the groom's bouquet and agree to his proposal.
6. The prospective groom kneels to worship his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
After the bride accepts the groom's flowers and marriage proposal, the groom-to-be will kneel down to worship his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and change his name to his parents, at this time the father-in-law and mother-in-law will generally prepare a red envelope for the groom.
7. The groom-to-be makes a declaration of love.
The bridegroom-to-be is to make a declaration of love for the bride in front of them, so that relatives and friends can witness their happiness and hand over the bride-to-be to him with confidence.
8. The mother combs her daughter's hair.
A comb of hair: the mother-daughter relationship is deep.
Comb your hair again: Parents tell you to keep it in mind.
3. Comb your hair: Respect your in-laws and do your filial piety.
Comb your hair again: May a couple have a bright future.
Five combs of hair: May you husband and wife be loving.
Six combs of hair: a hundred years of good fit.
Comb your hair again: a successful career.
Eight combs of hair: good luck is the head.
Nine combs of hair: forever.
9. Toast. The bride-to-be and bride-to-be and their parents thanked the guests and toasted them to express their appreciation.