Title: Why do children get closer to their mothers?A deep reflection on family affectionIn the process of growing up children, both boys and girls prefer to cling to their mothers at an early age. However, as they grow, this tendency gradually changes. Parents with children and daughters find that when their children grow up, they are more willing to be close to their mothers, and they want to tell their mothers everything. Even after going out to work or school, the first thing I say when I get home is often "Where's Mommy?".
If Dad is at home and Mom is away, they will ask, "Where did Mom go?""It shows a strong longing for my mother. When encountering problems at work or trivial matters in life, children are more willing to share with their mothers, and expect their mothers to come to the house in a hurry. This phenomenon has triggered deep thinking and discussion. Some people think that it is very difficult for men to find money outside the home, and life is more stressful, but it is also true that children love their mothers more.
It should be said that whoever pays more for the child and who cares more about the child will be more intimate with the child. However, in most Chinese families, mothers give more for their children, so children generally have a better relationship with their mothers. In the city, the mother pays more, so the children are more close to their mothers, while in the countryside, the father is the pillar, and the woman is rarely in charge, so the children understand the father more, feel sorry for the father's difficulty, and are closer to the father. Some netizens expressed a different opinion on this.
Some people think that parents are dedicated, but the fields are different, and whoever accompanies them more will depend on whom the child will depend and who he misses. For example, some people are brought up by their grandmothers and miss their grandmothers, and some people are brought up by their grandmothers and miss their grandmothers. Another friend said that the father is the support of the family, and the mother is like the decoration of the house, and both are indispensable. While the father is strong and hardworking, the mother is gentle and generous, handling the housework, and needs the comfort of her children.
Therefore, when children respect their mothers, they have the greatest respect for their fathers. This in-depth reflection on family affection has aroused people's deep thinking about family roles and parent-child relationships. Both parents and children have new thoughts and understandings in this discussion about family affection. This phenomenon highlights the importance of emotional communication and connection between family members, and also reminds us to try our best to love and understand each other in our respective roles and build a harmonious family atmosphere together.
This discussion has also brought people deep thinking about family relationships, which may lead to more people's awareness and attention to family and affection.