In the midst of gloomy days, don't let the cold fate rejoice.
Since fate has come to us, we should retaliate with a calm attitude.
In the event of cheating, the wives can choose to take revenge on the cheating man and the mistress.
But it's definitely not used, you don't even disdain to retaliate yourself, causing both defeats and injuries, and even a scene of injuring 800 enemies and losing 1,000 and burning jade.
Because it's not worth it, he's not worth it for you to take revenge on him and ruin yourself.
Previously, an original partner and Jiaxin said that after her husband cheated, she wanted to take revenge on the cheating man.
is also because of the basis for cheating on the man's grace, if she is unhappy, she can also cheat.
So she found a male friend and also developed an extramarital affair.
And it's still the kind that doesn't shy away from cheating men at all, and brings people home.
This male friend has known each other since childhood, got married and divorced, and has always been single.
Her husband also knew this male friend, and he had expressed it before, saying that she and this friend had an abnormal relationship or something.
The original partner also said that if the two of them are interesting, there will be nothing to do with her husband.
She never thought about cheating, but because of the stimulation of the cheating man, she still did the thing she hated the most.
This original partner said, how do you feel after cheating?
On the one hand, I feel very cool.
Extramarital affairs are indeed full of excitement and freshness, and she has experienced it.
Coupled with the fact that she was cheated on by her husband, she has been emotionally broken, and she is very painful every day.
This male friend gave her not only physical satisfaction, but also psychological comfort.
And knowing that she really found another man, her husband was also very devastated, and he looked like he couldn't accept it.
She felt that the man who cheated first experienced her painful mood at that time, and it was also cool that the revenge was successful.
On the other hand, I feel a lot of psychological pressure.
She is not a profligate person herself, and after getting married, she kept her due distance from this male friend.
is still a very conservative person, and she has never been married to her husband or ex before getting married.
So cheating and finding someone else's man is actually a challenge for herself.
She will feel psychologically stressed, feel that she has betrayed her marriage, and she is also an immoral person.
At the same time, she also feels guilty about the child, feeling that the child is innocent, she retaliates against the cheating man like this, the relationship between the husband and wife must be broken, and the child will also suffer.
This original partner said that it is very painful but also very cool to retaliate against a cheating man by cheating.
The suffering of this original partner is very normal, because the suffering of human beings, except for death and disease, is caused by the three views.
Wives will feel miserable because the matter of cheating itself does not conform to your three views.
So whether the other half cheats and betrays you, or you cheat to take revenge on him, it is you who suffers.
As for the cheating man, he will also feel very painful because of his wife's revenge.
Because in the concept of a cheating man, it should be determined that his wife will not cheat.
They think they know their wives very well, even if they say it, if you are not convinced, you will cheat, they still think that the wives know that it is angry words, and the wives will not violate their wives' three views if they are angry.
The vast majority of men can't accept the betrayal of their wives by their other half.
Their pain is not the same as that of their wives, it is more of remorse, the pain of not saying that kind of thing.
Although it is said that this wife's revenge will make the cheating man painful,
But Jiaxin still doesn't recommend that wives take revenge on cheating men like this, because the enemy is injured by 800 and self-loss of 1,000, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Although a cheating man can also be painful, the degree of his pain is far less than that of his wife.
The pain of wives is not only at the time of cheating, but may continue to accompany them forever.
is like the original partner who confided in Jiaxin, and she was divorced later.
Although the man cheated first, she also cheated, which is not reasonable.
The division of property is basically five or five points, and the reason for the divorce is not said to be that the man is cheating.
Because this original partner is actually more afraid, the cheating man will tell her about cheating too.
Later, after the divorce, he was with the male junior, and he was not happy.
Because she cheated in marriage, even if the cheating partner was this man, people thought she had a problem.
So I'm very wary of her, worried that she will cheat again or something, and the relationship is not very good.
So many times, cheating or being a third party has an impact on a person not only in the present.
It's not that you repented later and didn't do it, or that you did it in the first place to get revenge on others.
Everything can pass, no one else mentions it, and you can get by yourself.
This matter may not be able to get by, and the impact on you may be lifelong.
Especially if you have three views is normal, cheating or being a third party is just an impulse.
Then even if others don't know about it, your own heart is condemned, and your life is very painful.
Jiaxin is not against wives taking revenge on cheating men, but to use appropriate methods, not to hurt the enemy by a thousand and self-damage to eight hundred, it is not worth it.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.