My wife, Li Fang, and I have been married for five years. I still remember the romance and hardships when we first fell in love, and I miss the memories of that time very much. In the past few years of my working life, I have been quite busy, often having to work overtime until late to get home, so I have been a little negligent in taking care of Fangfang.
Although our relationship has always been good, even if it is no longer as sweet as when I was younger, I believe that Fangfang's feelings for me should not change. However, an incident happened last week that made me question the relationship.
On that day, I deliberately finished my work ahead of schedule, intending to surprise Fangfang. I bought her favorite ice cream cake and prepared to go home in the evening and warm up with her.
But when I opened the door, it was empty and Fang Fang was nowhere to be seen. "Fangfang, where are you?"I shouted a few times, but there was no response. I called Fangfang a few **s, but no one answered.
This is completely inconsistent with her Xi, Fang Fang knows that I am going home, how can she suddenly not be at home?A premonition of uneasiness began to rise in my heart. Is something wrong?
I hurriedly called several of Fangfang's friends, and they all said that they had never seen Fangfang. That's when I noticed that Fangfang's wardrobe door wasn't completely closed. I know that Fang Fang is usually very detail-oriented, and she would not be careless.
There were alarm bells in my heart, and I wondered, how could Fangfang suddenly have these things?She was often away from home lately, and mysteriously mentioned to me an old classmate named Wang Jian, whom I had never heard of before.
This gave me a terrible conjecture in my mind, and although I couldn't believe it, I had to find out the truth. At this time, I heard Fangfang talking to a man in the room, and I heard Fangfang's voice.
Anger instantly surged into my heart, and I banged Wang Jian's door: "Fangfang, I know you're inside, come out quickly!."The room was suddenly silent, and after a few minutes, the door only opened a crack, and Wang Jian's face squeezed out: "Brother, who are you looking for?"”
I gritted my teeth and said, "My wife is in your room, call her out!".Wang Jian seemed to be taken aback, but quickly regained his composure: "Brother, you are mistaken, I am alone at home, without your wife." ”
I was almost blown up by this brazen lie: "Don't come with me, I can see my wife's bag and shoes!".Let you call her out quickly!"Oh, brother, my apartment is good, it's normal to put shoes and bags at the door, it doesn't mean that your wife is in my room."
Wang Jian seemed to be playing dumb. "You!"I lost my mind completely, and I almost rushed up to fight him. But in the end, I held back and paced back and forth anxiously outside the door.
Time passed minute by minute, and the door of Wang Jian's room was closed, and there was no movement inside. I waited at the door for more than 40 minutes, but there was still no response from inside.
Just as I was about to call the police, the door finally opened. I hurriedly stood up, ready to rebuke Fangfang for her infidelity. But to my surprise, Wang Jian was the only one standing behind the door.
Your wife isn't here, really isn't. Wang Jian spread out his hands and showed me the scene in the room. Indeed, there is only a messy bachelor's room, and there is no Fang Fang's figure.
What about my wife's shoes and bag?She's here!"I'm still angry. "Brother, there is a debtor and a debtor, that's not your wife's thing. Wang Jian took out a women's handbag, "This is what my colleague forgot to take away, I'll show you the business card." ”
When I looked at the bag again, I found a business card from a strange woman, and I realized that I had just been too suspicious to speculate. "I'm sorry, brother, I misunderstood you.
I was very embarrassed. "Brother, you don't trust your wife so much. "Wang Jian reminded me. I nodded, recognizing that my over-precaution was the problem at hand.
I shouldn't easily suspect that Fang Fang will cheat. "Don't take it personally, family harmony is the most important thing. "Wang Jian patted me on the shoulder generously. I apologized to him and left his place in a hurry.
Back home, Fangfang has not returned. I called her apologise, but she didn't answer. At this point, I felt even more anxious. Is Fang Fang okay?Did she perceive my crazy behavior?
Will she really be angry?These questions swirled in my head.
Two hours later, Fang Fang finally returned home. "Fangfang, you went to **?I've been looking for you all afternoon!I nervously stepped forward. "I accompanied my aunt to have an operation, but I didn't hear my phone. ”
Fang Fang replied calmly. I just remembered that Fangfang's aunt had recently been diagnosed with cancer and was preparing for surgery. Due to my busy schedule, I forgot about it. "It's okay, I should have told you in advance.
Fangfang didn't get angry, just smiled and joked to me: "You always imagine something out of nothing, believe me." I nodded, my heart full of gratitude to Fangfang.
This incident gave me a lot of inspiration. I must correct my suspicions, and I can no longer doubt Fangfang for no reason. Only with trust and understanding can our relationship last. I will also cherish my current life and care more about Fangfang's mood.
I was determined to make Fang Fang feel my deep love and respect, and not to let work dilute our relationship. I'm going to take care of her as the most important person in my life, just like I did five years ago.
After that incident, I began to reflect on my actions. If a person is always suspicious of his partner, then sooner or later there will be problems in the relationship. Now, I understand that rebuilding trust between us is the most important thing, not continuing to be unfounded suspicion.
Therefore, I decided to surprise Fangfang and take her out for a short vacation to relax. I booked my plane ticket and hotel a month in advance, and planned to take her to the island resort for three days.
I secretly prepared tickets and food for Fangfang's favorite performances, wanting to give her the biggest surprise during the trip. The night before departure, I excitedly said to Fang Fang, "Madam, I have prepared a surprise for you, tomorrow we will leave for our honeymoon!".”
Wow, really?Fangfang's mouth opened wide in happiness, "I thought you forgot about the date!.""I will never forget this time, I have already booked everything, tomorrow morning for the 7 o'clock flight.
I smiled and hugged Fangfang. When the plane arrived on the island, the tropical scenery soothed our fatigue. The tall coconut trees and the turquoise waters are all refreshing.
We walked hand in hand on the beach and discussed what to eat for dinner. "Let's go eat seafood!Fangfang said happily.
Tonight, I'm going to take you to the hottest seafood restaurants, and I've booked a spot for you. "I smiled mysteriously. After a delicious seafood feast, I took Fang Fang to the comedy show she'd always wanted to see.
The joyful atmosphere of the scene also infected us, and Fangfang and I both smiled from ear to ear. After returning to the hotel, I arranged Fang Fang's favorite rose petals in my room, Fang Fang was very happy to see it, and we played around in bed together, as if we were back in our youth.
Thank you, my dear, for everything you have in store for me. "Fang Fang leaned into my arms and said. "I love you too. "I gave Fang Fang a gentle kiss on the forehead. After that, we went to the beach, blowing the sea breeze, drinking coconut water and chatting, talking about love and the future, and finally found the sweet time we had before.
Honey, have we been a little estranged lately?"Fang Fang looked at the sea and said. "It's my fault, I'll spend more time with you in the future. "I squeezed Fangfang's hand.
This trip allowed Fangfang and I to rediscover our long-lost passion. I've learned that two hearts can only really come close if they keep getting to know their loved ones better.
I will try to be a more considerate companion and let Fang Fang feel the deepest love in my heart. On this island trip, we rediscovered the sweet love we had at the beginning.
When I got home, I decided to change my overly utilitarian lifestyle and spend more time with my family. First of all, I adjusted my work, reduced the out-of-home tasks for business development, and tried to get home from work as early as possible.
I usually try to pick up my children to school and accompany them to do their homework. I started learning Xi cooking, trying to master the home-cooked meals that Fang Fang and the kids loved. On weekends I take them to the park to play football or to the zoo.
The children have also clearly felt the change in me and are more dependent on me than before. One day when I came home from school, I was looking at the tablet with Fangfang, and my son Xiao Ming ran over and hugged my thigh and said, "Dad, I like you the most!".
I couldn't help but moisten my eyes, rubbed his little head and said, "Silly boy, Dad loves you the most." Fang Fang looked at our father and son and smiled.
In the evening, Fangfang suddenly said to me: "Husband, I found that you have really changed, and you are much more careful and thoughtful than before." I smiled and hugged Fangfang: "This is all a change that only happens when I see you."
We're going to keep each other like this all the time, okay?"Well, I'll understand you better, too. Fang Fang nodded.
Wang Jian suddenly came to me and said that he was being pestered by my wife, which affected his work. I was so angry that I almost went to Fang Fang to confront her, but I soon realized that such a reaction would only deepen the misunderstanding.
I decided to deal with it calmly and sensibly. So, I took a few deep breaths, and then calmly said to Wang Jian, I will communicate well with Fang Fang, and I believe that she should not pester him.
If there is any misunderstanding, it can be resolved privately, without affecting each other. Wang Jian seemed to breathe a sigh of relief, told me a few words and left. When I got home, I told Fangfang about today's incident, and she laughed when she heard it, it turned out that she was just asking Wang Jian a few work questions, and she didn't pester him at all.
It dawned on me that I was thinking nonsense again. I quickly apologized to Fangfang and said that I would believe her. Fang Fang didn't mind, but praised me for not being impulsive, which showed the progress of our relationship.
After these reflections, I realized that the core of the trust problem lies in me. Only by constantly correcting our suspicions and defensiveness, and working hard to give sincerity, can our relationship be long-lasting.
I was determined not to listen to rumors in the future and to be a more confident person and partner.
Walking in the sunshine and watching Fangfang and the children laughing and laughing, I felt fulfilled in life. Because I understand that love is not about monopoly, but about giving and supporting each other.
With this understanding, conjugal love will stand the test of time, and I will become a better husband and father. After much reflection, I finally realized how important trust and understanding are in a family.
True happiness can only be attained by giving unconditional trust. Recently, Fangfang's mother has some health problems and needs to go to the hospital regularly for physical check-ups. As an only child, Fangfang took on the responsibility of taking care of her mother.
One day, Fangfang told me that she might have to go to the hospital to accompany her mother a lot lately, and she couldn't cook at home regularly. "Mom is sick now, and I need to spend more time with her.
You and Xiao Ming will solve the meal by ourselves these days. Fangfang said to me a little reluctantly. "It's okay, you can rest assured to accompany Auntie, Xiao Ming and I can take care of ourselves.
I understood Fangfang's difficulties and expressed my support. "That's great, I'm ready to go out. Fang Fang breathed a sigh of relief. So in the following days, I temporarily took family care leave from the company to concentrate on taking care of Xiao Ming's daily life.
Every morning, I personally make croissant sandwiches for Xiao Ming and send him to school. After work in the evening, I will pick up Xiao Ming and go home first, and then call ** to order takeout to solve dinner.
Xiao Ming was not very Xi to not having a mother at first, but soon our father and son found the skills to get along.
Every night before going to bed, I will report Xiao Ming's recent situation to Fangfang through **. Fangfang looked at the scene where our father and son got along well, and she was also very pleased. "Husband, thank you so much.
I thought Xiao Ming would be emotional, but I didn't expect you to get along so harmoniously. Fang Fang said gratefully. "You just have to take care of your aunt in the hospital, and the two of us men can have a good time at home.
I said with a smile. In this way, in mutual trust and understanding, we have passed this special period. I also deeply appreciate the value of giving, which brings us closer together.
Two months later, Fangfang's mother was discharged from the hospital. Fangfang returned home and happily hugged me and Xiao Ming. "My dear, I've worked hard for you all this time.
Fang Fang gave me a gentle kiss on the face. "We're all so good, it's great to have you back. I hugged Fang Fang tightly. "You have given me the greatest support, I am really touched. Fangfang's eyes glistened with tears.
No matter what happens in the future, we will support each other. I stroked Fangfang's hair, this hardship made our family stronger. I am deeply aware that love requires understanding and dedication from both parties, not just one-sided control or suspicion.
It is only by giving unconditionally that we can truly feel love. Fangfang smiled and said to me, "Husband, let's grow old together." I replied softly, "I will always protect you mother and daughter."
Through these misunderstandings and difficulties, I have come to understand the importance of mutual trust. Only by giving wholeheartedly, regardless of gains and losses, can love last. In the blink of an eye, our Xiao Ming was already in the fifth grade.
This lively and active child has gradually become more stable. One day I came home from school, obviously with worry on my face. "Dad, I have a question for you. "I obviously want to say and stop.
What's the matter, let's talk about it. "I encouraged him. "My tablemate Aaron lost his father, and his mother was the only one to take care of him. But I've heard that Aaron's mother seems to be looking for a boyfriend a lot and doesn't have much time to take care of him.
Do you think that's good?"Ming Ming asked me worriedly. After understanding Ming Ming's doubts, I patiently explained to him: "Everyone's fate is different, and we can't ask others to be the same as our family.
The key is to respect the choices of others. You have to be sympathetic and care more about Aaron instead of criticizing his mother. ”"So, what should Aaron do in the future?
Is it going to be tough without a father?"Ming Ming is still worried. "As long as Aaron's mother is good to him, life can be very happy. Love comes in many forms, and it doesn't have to be a standard family model.
I patted Ming Ming on the shoulder. Ming Ming nodded, as if he had figured it out. I am also relieved to find that our children have empathy and a sense of justice, which is good.
That night, I told Fang Fang about it. She was very much in agreement with my approach. "We should teach our children to be tolerant and compassionate, not to limit others. Fang Fang said aptly.
That's right, only with a broad mind can we accept and understand different families. I emphasize. "In the past, I used to judge other people's character, but now that I think about it, it's really inappropriate.
Every family has its own troubles, and we don't have the right to criticize. Fang Fang sighed. Indeed, understanding and inclusion are the cornerstones of a long-lasting relationship. We all need to keep improving.
I said with deep feeling. We as a couple came to a consensus and decided to lead by example and become a model of tolerance for our children. There is still a long way to go in life, and we will accompany our children to grow up together.
No matter what difficulties and misunderstandings we encounter, we will maintain trust and understanding. This is the foundation of eternal love. Looking out the window at Fangfang leaning on my shoulder and the two children playing in the garden, I felt happiness in my heart.
Through these ups and downs, we have come out stronger. I sincerely thank God for allowing me to meet Fangfang and spend this life with you. "It's a new decade, let's continue to work together.
Fang Fang said to me with a smile. "Okay, I'll always be there for you. I replied softly.
Time flies, and our children have grown up and started their own families and careers. As parents, we are gradually entering old age, with gray hair and faltering steps.
But we still feel the same heart and will spend the rest of our lives together. Xiao Ming is now married and has a pair of lovely twins with his wife. On weekends, he would drive his grandchildren to visit us.
As soon as the door is opened, the two little ones will happily throw themselves into Grandma's arms, shouting "Hello Grandma!".", let Fangfang feel good. Fangfang and I also often go to Xiao Ming's house.
Seeing him and his wife so affectionate, my heart welled up with the relief and pride of my old father. "Dad, you and Mom are really models of affection and have set a good example for us. Once Xiao Ming said with emotion.
Haha, we're just ordinary old husbands and wives. I replied with a smile. "No, Dad, you have given me a lot of inspiration. I will love my family as much as you do.
Xiao Ming said seriously. I was moved and relieved. It turns out that our efforts over the years have sown the seeds of love in the hearts of children. "Wife, we are really happy, the child did not disappoint us. Fang Fang sighed.
Seeing them doing well, we feel at ease. I said with a smile. Today, we are also living a leisurely retirement. Every morning I would wake up early to prepare a hot breakfast for Fang Fang, and then we would savor it slowly and watch TV and chat.
When the weather is nice, we go for a walk in the community park to enjoy the sun and small talk. Sometimes the grandchildren would come over and we would play together and have a good time.
In the middle of the night, I would snuggle up with Fangfang and reminisce about our past. From acquaintance to whitehead, we have always supported each other and had the best time of our lives.
Thank you, my dear, for being with you for so many years. Fang Fang said softly. "I would also like to thank you for your understanding and support. I gently kissed Fangfang's forehead.
As the years go by, our hearts are still tightly connected. The years we have walked together are our most valuable wealth. I am truly grateful to God for allowing us to meet and spend this wonderful life together.