The afternoon sun is a little hot, and I feel like I sweat when I walk outdoors in cotton clothes.
But he was reluctant to return indoors, how could he bear to refuse such a generous sunshine?With such beautiful weather, how can you not accept its gifts?
A colleague invited me to eat fruit with her, and I felt that there was still room in my stomach, and I couldn't shirk the strong invitation, so I simply ate together, chatted and ate, and enjoyed the rare leisure time.
The host Lu Yu once said: "Accepting the kindness of others is also a virtue. ”
Actually, when I first read this, I was struggling with one thing.
A friend who had not long been acquainted with the text sent me two packs of Longjing from the south, saying that it was a specialty of his hometown and gave me a taste.
Some of them are disrespectful, and they feel that they have no reason to accept it. After all, the acquaintance time is too short, and the communication is limited to the Internet, so it is really apprehensive to accept such a gift.
Lu Yu's words were like timely rain, which made me dispel my worries, accept it with peace of mind, and then give her a gift in return.
She was very happy, and then we communicated more and more, the distance of space is no longer a problem, and the resonance of the heart makes us feel that we have met people of the same frequency.
When I was talking to my son, I told me about it, and he told me: "Be good at accepting other people's kindness and even benefits, so that it is conducive to the mutual flow of relationships. ”
Once again, I was touched by my son!What a thorough insight that I can't compare with those who have lived half my life.
Thinking about it in the past few decades, I have really lived too restrained and too restrictive. I always don't want to trouble others, and I can't accept kindness and help from others.
I think that it is a virtue not to cause trouble to others, but I don't know that distance arises because of this, and affection will gradually drift away.
I saw a passage on the Internet: "Blunt refusal, alienated politeness, may avoid trouble, but it also dilutes affection." ”
Accepting the kindness of others at the right time will not cause trouble, but will fulfill their sincerity and bring each other closer and closer. ”
Sometimes, what we think is troublesome just makes the other person feel needed and affirmed. As a result, joy rises, self-confidence returns, and the value of life seems to have been greatly improved.
So, when it's time to be troublesome, you have to be troublesome, and don't hesitate to accept it. Let affection flow, and let communication nourish each other in various ways.
Just like this afternoon sunshine, such a good weather, accepting and wandering in it is the best way to live up to the beautiful encounter.
There is also a colleague's fruit, and the mood she wants to share, everyone is happy to eat it, and the twisting is a big bad scenery. Why not go with the flow?It not only fulfills the good intentions of others, but also has a moment of leisurely companionship.
Be a little more free and easy, and maybe there will be more joy. Be open-minded, and your worries may be lighter.
Winter is deep, walk more in the sun, accept the gifts of nature, and feel the beauty of life.
As you get older, you can experience more in the world, do not refuse the kindness of others, and appreciate the different fireworks of life.
In the depths of the season, a ray of sunshine is given to you. May you learn to accept kindness, to perfect others, and to fragrance yourself.