From ancient times to the present, there is a folk Xi that the newlyweds are called "godfather and godmother" to show an extraordinary cordial relationship.
In fact, whether it is for others to receive relatives, or whether it is a very harmonious relationship between friends and making the younger generations more intimate, you can't easily recognize others as "godfathers and godmothers", and don't easily be "godfathers and godmothers" for others.
Why is that?
Because in this world, there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. When others think of you as a "godfather and godmother", their purpose is to seek your blessing and touch your luck.
Generally speaking, most of the spouses who recognize their relatives are unlucky, have poor families, and want to change their current situation. Generally speaking, the recognized party is full of blessings, happy families, has boys, and is a bit of a powerful person in the local area.
No one who recognizes "godfather and godmother" will recognize a person from a beggar-like family as "godfather and godmother".
This often happens in life, making you have to believe that "blessings" can be stolen by others.
More than 10 years ago, a colleague in the same office approached him and asked him to marry his nephew.
Brother Liu didn't understand these rural Xi, so he agreed. Who knew that the nephew and his wife of his colleague recognized Brother Liu and his wife as "godfather and godmother" and began to move around like relatives.
No one could have imagined that since he was called a godfather by others, Brother Liu's luck has been carried all the way, bad things have happened one after another, villains are entangled, and his career is not ......going well
At the same time, the nephews of their colleagues have been blessed with good fortune one after another, and the discerning person has stolen the blessings and luck of the "godfather and godmother" at a glance.
Is this a coincidence or cause and effect?No one can tell. After all, good fortune and luck are things that cannot be seen or touched.
There is also a kind of people who think that others are "godfathers and godmothers" because they are not in good health, afraid of premature death and bad luck, and need to borrow the blessings of others to ward off disasters and difficulties for themselves.
More than ten years ago, Sister Zhang's eldest son was killed in a car accident, and the couple was devastated. At this time, the youngest son fell ill again......
was instructed by others to say that the youngest son needs a "godfather and godmother" to raise him. And this "godfather and godmother" needs to be a certain year to be good.
In desperation, Sister Zhang searched among acquaintances according to this requirement, and finally found a qualified colleague Huang and his wife.
At the beginning, Huang and his wife did not agree to this relatively business of recognizing "godfather and godmother", and later couldn't stand Sister Zhang's tears and bitter pleading, and agreed to be Sister Zhang's youngest son "godfather and godmother".
About half a year later, my colleague Huang Moumou drove back from the city late one night and hit an elderly man on the highway.
Originally, there were still old people there who would walk on the road at this time, and my colleague Huang Moumou couldn't let him. Afterwards he said to us: for some reason, the steering wheel does not listen to the command, it has never happened.
Since then, my colleague Huang Moumou has never driven again, and they think that this is someone else's "godfather and godmother" to prevent disasters for others, and they have suffered disasters.
That's why we say, "Whoever lives in the world, stay away from those who steal your blessings."
The Xi of recognizing "godfather and godmother" has an uncomfortable feeling for both parties, after all, there is an unfamiliar feeling mixed with the relationship between the relatives found.
Others have a purpose to recognize relatives, in fact, they want to steal your blessings. Do you agree?