In loveIt's beautiful, and marriage is bondage. Many willIn loveIt is regarded as the beginning of happiness, whileMarriageis considered synonymous with bondage and pain. This notion is not difficult to understand, because inIn loveWe can enjoy sweet moments while inMarriageWe have to take on more responsibility and pressure. However, not all people agree with this view because:In loveIt's really different from getting married. As the saying goes, "Not for the purpose of getting married."In loveIt's a hooligan. "For most people, if they are not very determined not to marry and have children, they will choose to get married and have children at the urging of their elders. Therefore, before a man proposes to a woman, he needs to make sure that the woman is willing to marry him without embarrassing himself.
When the woman asks you how many times you have talkedIn loveThey don't want to hold on to the past, but they want to understand your past and improve themselves on that basis to get along better. However, many men are defensive about this question and are reluctant to answer or lie. In fact, for women who really want to marry you, they won't talk to you a few timesIn loveAnd change the perception of you. Therefore, men do not have to feel pain or hate women for asking this question. For women who like you, they're really just curious. However, one needs to be cautious when answering this question and not reveal too many details to avoid making a bad impression on the woman.
Men are usually averse to talking about money, because it is easy to give the impression of materialism and money worship. However, when a woman wants to marry you, she will care about your financial situation because the economic base determines your future life. So, when a woman asks about your annual income and savings, don't rush to make a bad impression of her. Their purpose is not to decide whether to marry you, but to plan for the future. They don't care how much money you have, as long as you can meet their needs, they will be willing to spend their lives with you.
When a woman asks you if you envy those friends who are married, she cares about youMarriageviews. If you answer with envy, she will let down some of her guard and ask you further why you are envious. And when you answer that you don't envy and think that marriage will lose your freedom and bear greater responsibilities, they will have reservations about you in their hearts. Because they want to marry you, they are right to youMarriageThe attitude is very concerned. If you don't plan to enterMarriage, don't show envy, let her understand that you are rightMarriageattitude also lets her know that it may take longer to marry you. And if you also want to get married, then boldly express your envy, I believe she will also be happy to accept.
InIn lovewithMarriage, both men and women test each other's thoughts and attitudes. By understanding women's true intentions when asking questions, men can better answer questions and avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. MarriageIt's a big decision that needs to be thought twice and made sure both parties are prepared and willing to take on the corresponding responsibilities and pressures. As Congreve said, hasty marriage often leads to remorse. Therefore, in the treatMarriageYou need to think carefully to make sure you're genuinely willing and ready to step inMarriageof the temple.