Wen Ding Ding.
Whenever it comes to Lin Huiyin's feelings, people are the most talked-about people, in addition to her husband Liang Sicheng, there are also poet Xu Zhimo and scholar Jin Yuelin.
As a famous talented woman and beauty in the ** period, and a famous female architect in New China, Lin Huiyin was called "the most beautiful April day in the world" by the outside world, but she was never burdened by the label given to her by the outside world.
The world only relish her gossip news, but they don't know whether it is to treat themselvesFeelings, or treat her own career, sheAll are extraordinarily sober.
Today we will talk about Lin Huiyin's feelings, in the face of three relationships, she is extremely sober, she uses her sober attitude to protect her whole life.
, Xu Zhimo
Lin Hui has been talented, well-behaved, sensible, smart and clever since he was a child, and has unique opinions, so he is deeply loved and appreciated by his father Lin Changmin.
In 1920, Lin Changmin traveled to Europe, and he took Lin Huiyin, who was only 16 years old, as a translator and assistant, hoping to increase her knowledge and broaden her horizons.
During this period, she met Xu Zhimo, the romantic and idealistic poet Xu Zhimo who wrote the famous poem "Farewell to Kangqiao".
At that time, Xu Zhimo was studying in the UK, and Lin Changmin was his mentor, so he specially came to visit, the teacher was not there, Lin Huiyin received him, and the poet fell in love at first sight with Lin Huiyin, who was beautiful and lovely, smart in ice and snow, generous and decent, and talked extraordinary.
He pursued her frantically, wrote her love letters one after another, and was obsessed with it until he couldn't sleep at night.
What girl doesn't have a spring?
Lin Huiyin also has a good impression of Xu Zhimo, the poet's romance and sensibility are very consistent with her natural artistic temperament, but she is very rational and restrained about feelings since she was a child.
At that time, Xu Zhimo already had a family in China, his wife Zhang Youyi was gentle and virtuous, and they also had a son.
When Lin Huiyin learned of all this, he categorically rejected his pursuit.
Xu Zhimo is unwilling, he thinks that he and Zhang Youyi are arranged marriages by their parents, and they have no emotional foundation, and now that they have finally met true love, he is unwilling to give up.
It just so happened that Zhang Youyi came to visit relatives with her child, in order to be able to pursue the goddess in her heart, Xu Zhimo did not hesitate to file for divorce during his wife's pregnancy, and signed a divorce agreement just after the birth of his youngest son.
But Lin Huiyin still did not accept Xu Zhimo's courtship.
Because her father warned her that he didn't want his daughter to marry a man who abandoned his wife and children, and Lin Huiyin didn't want to anger his father for a married man.
She also understands that she must not be a reviled third party and thus destroy her future.
At the same time, she is quite sober in her choice and judgment of love, and she knows that no matter how romantic the poet's love is, it will eventually not be able to withstand the test of firewood, rice, oil and salt in the long life.
She once said: Xu Zhimo didn't love the real me at the beginning, but Lin Huiyin, whom he imagined with the romantic emotions of a poet, but in fact I am not that kind of person.
So she very soberly and rationally cut off this relationship that was not favored by the world.
, Liang Sicheng
Liang Sicheng is the son of Liang Qichao, a famous thinker, educator and writer.
Lin Changmin and Liang Qichao are close friends, and they have privately engaged their children to marry, but they are also open-minded to respect the wishes of the two young people.
Liang Sicheng is a gentleman with poetry and books, not tall, nor romantic, but quick and versatile, he likes Lin Huiyin very much.
And Lin Huiyin believed in his father's vision, and he was not disgusted with Liang Sicheng.
Once, when Liang Sicheng was hospitalized in a car accident, Lin Huiyin often visited and took care of him, deepened their understanding of each other, and their relationship warmed up rapidly, and finally decided to trust each other for life.
In 1924, under Liang Qichao's arrangement, the two young people went to study at the University of Pennsylvania in the United States.
During his studies, Lin Changmin passed away, and with Liang Qichao's care and sponsorship, Lin Huiyin was able to successfully complete his studies.
After returning to China in 1928, the two naturally tied the knot.
Liang Sicheng once asked Lin Huiyin: "There is a sentence, I only ask this time, and I will not ask again in the future, why did you choose me?"”
Lin Huiyin replied: "The answer is very long, I have to spend my life answering, are you ready?"”
Facts have proved that Lin Huiyin's choice is correct, Liang Sicheng has a lot of care and tolerance for her, and the husband and wife raise their eyebrows, not only sharing joys and sorrows, but also sharing joys and sorrows.
During the Japanese invasion of China, the two fled all the way to the southwest.
On the way, Lin Hui contracted severe tuberculosis and was bedridden for a while.
Liang Sicheng learned to give infusions, injections, decoctions, sterilization, and personally took care of his wife, even if he was also infected.
And when Lin Huiyin's illness improved slightly, he took the initiative to wash his hands and make soup for him, so that her husband could work with peace of mind.
The two love each other, have the same three views, make progress together in their careers, tolerate each other in life, and always advance and retreat tacitly and complement each other in the trivialities of daily life.
, Jin Yuelin
After Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng got married, the family held salon gatherings almost every week, ** some literature, philosophy, current affairs and other related issues, the great philosopher Jin Yuelin is a frequent visitor.
Jin Yuelin and Lin Huiyin have the same cultural background and have similar interests, and the two can talk very well.
Later, the two families became neighbors.
For a while, Liang Sicheng went out to investigate, worried that Lin Hui would be weak and sick, so he entrusted her to Jin Yuelin to take care of.
Jin Yuelin admired Lin Huiyin and took great care of him
And Lin Huiyin also admires Jin Yuelin, and communicates with him whatever he has in his heart.
After going back and forth, the relationship between the two deepened.
After Liang Sicheng returned, Lin Huiyin told her husband frankly that she was very distressed because she was in love with two men at the same time.
Liang Sicheng understood her abundant feelings and believed in his wife, and he told Lin Huiyin that he would give her full freedom no matter what she chose.
In the end, Lin Huiyin still chose to continue to be with his lover and spend the second half of his life together.
Lin Huiyin knows very clearly that she and Jin Yuelin are attracted to each other, and between her and Liang Sicheng is responsibility and responsibility, and she can't forget the original intention of getting married because of her momentary passion.
This relationship is not as gossip as rumored by the outside world, Jin Yuelin has always accompanied them as a relative, and Lin Huiyin's children respectfully call Jin Yuelin Jin's father, which also shows that the two of them have a clear conscience in this matter.
In 1955, 51-year-old Lin Hui died young due to illness.
Jin Yuelin was grief-stricken, and he wrote an elegiac couplet for Lin Huiyin:
"A poetic waterfall, April day in the ancient world".
Looking at Lin Huiyin's life, thoughts, and choices, we will find that she is a truly sober woman, and her choices are beyond that era.
In particular, she is quite sober in her choice and judgment of feelings, so she can become Liang Sicheng's partner worthy of protection for a lifetime;became the white moonlight that Xu Zhimo loved but couldn't love, and his heart and mind;Become the red rose that Jin Yuelin buried deep in his heart and waited silently.
May the women of the world be like her, in the world of feelings,AlwaysKeep a clear head,Choose and stick to the right person who is right for you.
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