In 2009, Lian Yiming called his wife Chen Shi in the United States and said, "When will you come back?"Let's go through the divorce formalities. ”
Chen Shi still wanted to struggle a little more, so he said to her husband with a compromise: "For the sake of my daughter, break up with her, I will treat it as if nothing happened." ”
Obviously, Lian Yiming had already made up his mind, and he didn't pay attention to his wife's pleas, and hung up directly.
At that time, Lian Yiming wanted to divorce his wife because of another woman.
But Chen Shi didn't want to divorce, she wanted to give her daughter a complete home, so she chose to leave the United States temporarily and chose to escape.
When it comes to the name Lian Yiming, many people may be unfamiliar with it, after all, he has not appeared on the screen for many years.
When he was young, he created many classic roles.
For example, the upright and brave Ye Dalong in "A Pair of Embroidered Shoes", the criminal police captain in "Blood Romance", and the villain Qing Cang in "Three Lives, Three Worlds and Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms".
So, who has such a great charm that makes Lian Yiming abandon his wife and daughter?
01 The bumpy road to learning Peking Opera
In fact, Lian Yiming did not take the road of an actor at first, when he was a child, because his father liked to listen to Peking Opera very much, and Lian Yiming often went with him.
I have listened to Peking Opera a lot, and sometimes Lian Yiming can't help but sing a few words.
As soon as his father heard it, the young Lian Yiming sang decently, so he decided to train his son in this area, which can be regarded as fulfilling his dream of Peking Opera when he was young.
Therefore, Lian Yiming devoted himself to the Peking Opera interest class for systematic chemistry Xi.
After completing his studies, he successfully entered the top institution of Xi, the China Opera Academy.
After entering a professional college, Lian Yiming worked harder, and with his outstanding performance, many teachers were full of expectations for him.
However, because he was in the development period of his body, Lian Yiming's voice began to become rough, and his height suddenly jumped to 180 centimeters.
Such conditions made him lose the opportunity to become the protagonist in Peking Opera, and he didn't even have the opportunity to perform on stage, and the only role he could play in the troupe was to carry the banner.
After studying Peking Opera for so many years, but it is no longer useful, Lian Yiming is very disappointed in his heart.
But he knew in his heart that he must not sit still, and since this path did not work, he would take another path.
At that time, it happened that Jet Li's movie "Huang Feihong" came to Beijing for filming, and he was born in martial arts, so he decided to play tricks in the crew.
Taking this opportunity, Lian Yiming was able to develop in the Hong Kong film and television industry, and began to play tricks in some Hong Kong action movies or serve as a stuntman in martial arts scenes.
In movies such as "The King of Gamblers 2" and "Kyoto Detective", Lian Yiming can be seen.
Later, the development of Hong Kong action movies came to a standstill, and Lian Yiming began to move to the mainland in search of opportunities.
After returning from Hong Kong, Lian Yiming chose to join Hairun Film and Television Production Company.
With his previous acting experience and playing foundation, he has undoubtedly been put to good use, not only for important roles in the play, but also sometimes as a martial arts instructor and executive director.
In 2001, he first collaborated with Zhao Wenzhuo on "Hero Zheng Chenggong" to open up his popularity in the mainland.
Then, he took over the filming of works such as "A Pair of Embroidered Shoes" and "Six Groups of Serious Cases", which were well received by the audience.
With one hit drama after another, Lian Yiming has successfully gained a firm foothold in the mainland entertainment industry.
Not only that, but at the same time as the development of the career, I also met love.
02 The sea of fire was saved for life
Speaking of Lian Yiming's encounter with his ex-wife Chen Shi, it is actually very dramatic.
Before talking about this, let's get to know Chen Shi first.
Chen Shi changed his name to Chen Jiayan after divorcing Lian Yiming, and he is also an actor who once played the ruthless black-bellied maid Fang Xiaoxiao in "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang".
In 2002, Lian Yiming participated in the filming of "Tracking" as an actor, and at that time, Chen Shi went to visit the class because he was familiar with director Xu Shuang.
After the drama was completed, Chen Shi saw the stills from his friend, and Lian Yiming's ** attracted her attention at that time.
At that time, I felt that this actor was fresh, so I took a few more looks. The more I look at it, the more I think this person is quite handsome, maybe at that time, Chen Shi fell in love with Lian Yiming at first sight.
This also laid the groundwork for the two of them to meet.
In 2004, the two met at a friend's party, Chen Shi took the initiative to talk to him, and the two chatted very well.
After this, the two often contacted each other privately and soon fell in love.
After only a few months of dating, at the end of 2004, they registered their marriage.
As he grew older, Lian Yiming was not only satisfied with filming, but also began to get involved in directing.
In order to support her husband, Chen Shi also chose to participate in his first independently directed "Wildfire Spring Breeze Fighting Ancient City".
In the process of filming this drama, Chen Shi also saved Lian Yiming's life. At that time, the crew suddenly caught fire, and Lian Yiming and some staff members were still working in the house.
At that time, Lian Yiming didn't run out because he wanted to rescue the crew's clothes and props.
Chen Shi saw that Lian Yiming was delayed, so he ignored the fire, rushed into the fire, and pulled Lian Yiming out of it.
At that time, Chen Shi was already pregnant with their daughter, and after the child was born, she returned to the family.
However, even the marriage that carried the grace of saving lives did not survive the seven-year itch.
In June 2009, Lian Yiming said in an interview:"I don't really want to act in family dramas, in fact, I hate being married on the same stage. ”
At that time, not long ago, he accompanied the group actress Yang Ruoxi to the lake with great interest, but in the face of his wife, he actually said such indifferent words.
On the whole, it seems that there is a problem with the relationship between Lian Yiming and Chen Shi.
03 abandoned his wife and daughter and fell in love with Yang Ruoxi
At this point in time, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi were filming "The Process of History". At that time, Yang Ruoxi had just broken up with her uncle Liu Wei who had been with her for many years and was in a period of lovelornness.
At that time, in order to appease Yang Ruoxi's emotions, Lian Yiming invited her to cruise on Taihu Lake with the crew and actors.
The two people gradually got along with each other and gradually developed feelings for each other.
Lian Yiming did not hide this situation, but directly had a showdown with Chen Shi and filed for divorce.
However, how Chen Shi retained it, he didn't even pay attention to Yiming.
Even if he went to the United States to escape the divorce, he did not change Lian Yiming's decision.
In order to divorce as soon as possible and be with Yang Ruoxi, Lian Yiming even chose to leave the house directly.
Chen Shi saw that her husband's heart was no longer on her and her daughter, so she chose to let go.
After divorcing Chen Shi, Lian Yiming couldn't wait to woo Yang Ruoxi and established a relationship with her.
After Chen Shi divorced Lian Yiming, he changed his name to Chen Jiayan.
After having a daughter before, Chen Jiayan chose to rest for their small family and concentrate on taking care of the family.
But her sacrifice for her family did not exchange for Lian Yiming's sincere treatment.
And her experience is also sounding the alarm for the majority of women, after getting married, they must have their own careers and must be financially independent, so that they can have the right to choose and speak.
After the divorce, Chen Jiayan returned to filming again, and played the role of the Queen Mother in "The Promotion of the Crown Princess" a few years ago, and became popular again with the popularity of this drama.
Later, he also independently hosted the talk show "Grandma Said" and became a host across borders.
On the other hand, Lian Yiming disappeared from the public's field of vision. In recent years, there have been continuous directing works, but it doesn't seem to be very popular.
And because he has been wearing the hat of abandoning his wife and daughter over the years, it may appear on the screen, and not many people will pay for it.
I don't know, Lian Yiming, who is now in a collapsed reputation, regrets his original choice?