A relationship that Ruby Lin has always been reluctant to admit, but it is supported by conclusive evidence, that is, she has lived with director Tang Jili for 8 years.
However, due to a slip of the tongue in an interview, this relationship was ** under the sun for the first time and was scrutinized by everyone.
This untold past is not as simple as it seems on the surface, it is just a breakup story of mutual agreement.
The reality is more complicated than we think. And it is precisely because of this relationship experience that Ruby Lin almost had the idea of never getting married for life, which shows how serious the situation is.
What happened to make Ruby Lin choose to remain silent and stop mentioning this relationship?
Ruby Lin had a beautiful and sweet relationship experience before Tang Jili became the director.
When she was 16 years old and in high school, she got together with a basketball player at her school and experienced a beautiful first love. It's a pity that they were too young at the time, didn't know how to cherish it, and didn't know how to deal with feelings, and their relationship only lasted four or five months before it ended.
This story is best known as Ruby Lin and Zhiying Lin.
Ruby Lin looks quiet and elegant, but she is actually a racing enthusiast. The two met because of filming, and they may also have feelings because of their common interests and personalities.
In short, when Ruby Lin was 18 years old and Lin Zhiying was 20 years old, they came together and were recognized by both parents.
Ruby Lin is the only girlfriend who publicly admits to being engaged to Lin Zhiying, which is enough to show that the relationship between them is very deep.
It's a pity that after Lin Zhiying served in the military, the two started a long-distance relationship, coupled with the rising fame of their respective families, and the scandals continued one after another. This model couple, known as a "talented woman", finally announced their breakup after 5 years.
Looking back on the scene when the two broke up back then, it can be said that they broke up peacefully, but when they broke up, it can be seen that Lin Zhiying was still a little reluctant. He said to ** at the time: Her heterosexual relationship is really good!
At this time, Ruby Lin met the well-known director Tang Jili, and the two became acquainted because of their work.
Many people think that it is impossible for Ruby Lin to fall in love with a man who is 16 years older than herself, but in the interview, although Ruby Lin did not admit the relationship, she mentioned her criteria for choosing a mate for the first time:
I don't limit my boyfriend's age, even if he's a decade older than me, I'm able to accept that.
In order not to negatively affect her career and public image, Ruby Lin has been secretly managing her relationship.
Even when someone photographed them traveling together in Thailand, she always chose to remain silent. Subsequently, a person familiar with the matter revealed that they had already met each other's parents and were ready to enter the palace of marriage at any time.
Since they met in 2000, it can be said that Ruby Lin has had a deep impression of each other. The two decided to live together soon after, and began an eight-year couple.
As a high-profile female star, Ruby Lin's ability to achieve such an achievement also shows her determination.
However, in a relationship, not all efforts will be rewarded, and not all efforts will be rewarded. Ruby Lin entrusted everything to the other party, but in exchange for Tang Jili's betrayal.
Moreover, the object of the cheating turned out to be Ruby Lin's best friend.
The two closest people betrayed her, and Lin Xinru's inner pain can be imagined. Therefore, when mentioning the relationship with Tang Jili many years later, she just said:
We didn't get to the stage of falling in love, just a simple friendship, so how do we end this relationship?
Ruby Lin's dissatisfaction and grievances are revealed after comparing the evidence before and after, and she will "retaliate" against the other party in her own way many years later.
Ruby Lin and Su Youpeng once reached an agreement: if they are still unmarried at the age of 40, they will decide to be together.
After Ruby Lin was betrayed by Tang Jili, although she lost trust in her marriage, she longed to re-experience the sweetness of love. She once thought that she could only barely make up at the age of 40, but she didn't expect that on her 40th birthday, Huo Jianhua suddenly confessed to her after getting drunk.
They came together without warning, and even Ruby Lin's least favorite marriage was changed because of Huo Jianhua. The two got married and had a daughter, and Ruby Lin suddenly changed from a gossip heroine to a woman with a family.
However, now 14 years have passed, but whenever she looks back on those 8 years, Ruby Lin still harbors indignation and cannot forgive them.
Many years ago, they used to have a relationship with Ruby Lin, but now it has long ended. Ruby Lin "took revenge" on them through her thriving career and happy family, and she lived better than them, which was the best blow to them.
Ruby Lin cherishes her family very much, although she occasionally has disagreements with Huo Jianhua, but seeing this husband who cares about the family, the resentment in her heart can be calmed. With such an excellent partner, his career has also reached new heights, and it can be said that he has lived a life of a winner in life.
Although time can fade the pain of the past, the pain remains. The only thing Ruby Lin can do now is to "take revenge" on those who hurt her by becoming better, which also helps to alleviate the resentment in her heart.
May Ruby Lin and Huo Jianhua grow old together and be happy all the time.