Recently, Internet celebrity Papi sauce has once again aroused heated discussions among netizens with her unusual marriage method. The decision she reached with her husband to go back to their respective homes during the Chinese New Year, not to have a traditional wedding, and to avoid seeing their parents together, was hailed as a symbol of the new era.
This marriage model provides a new perspective for many couples who are about to enter the palace of marriage and newly married couples.
During the Chinese New Year, one of the most common questions is which family the newlyweds should choose to spend the New Year in. Traditionally, marriage is often understood as the integration of the woman into the man's family, and at important times such as the Chinese New Year, the arrangement of the man's family is more likely to be considered.
However, with the development of society and ideology, more and more people have begun to realize that marriage should be based on equal status and mutual respect for both parties.
Therefore, the "each home to his own home" model advocated by Papi sauce just solves this historical problem, so that the problem of choosing which home to go back to for the New Year is no longer tormented.
Some people believe that the marriage model of papi sauce has been recognized and supported by both parties, and fully embodies the values of individual freedom and choice in marriage in the new era.
This model is not simply to abandon tradition, but to find a suitable way of marriage under the premise of equality and willingness of both parties. Obviously, such an option is not something that traditional families can easily accept, and it requires both families to be open and inclusive.
Many netizens expressed envy for Papi-chan's marriage style, believing that she showed great foresight in dealing with the difficulties in traditional marital relationships.
Modern life is all about two people working together, and the key is how they view each other and each other's families. This independent choice significantly reduces family conflicts and stress, and also allows both parties to have more freedom and space.
Of course, there are those who are skeptical about this way of marriage. Some netizens feel that papi sauce may only be applicable to individual situations, and the environment she is in may be more special, and if ordinary families follow suit, they may be misunderstood or even opposed, and may even affect the stability of their marriage. Traditional values and family values are deeply ingrained in Chinese society, and it is not easy to change them casually.
However, it must be admitted that Papi-chan's marriage style does make people rethink marriage and family relationships. This reminds us that marriage is not just about entering another family, but about two individuals creating a new family.
Life after marriage is not only the integration of two families, but also the pursuit of harmony and happiness by husband and wife.
Everyone should have the right to decide on the various choices of family and marriage according to their own needs and desires, and not blindly follow tradition. Every couple should work together to find the best way for them to live and not care too much about what the outside world thinks.
In the end, the true meaning of marriage lies in the two of them facing challenges together, enjoying sweetness, and moving forward side by side.
Perhaps, we can take some inspiration from the marriage model of papi-chan. This model seems to be a new door opened for us by the times, allowing us to have a new right to choose.
It is up to us to boldly explore and find our way to our own happiness. In this article's Premiere Challenge, let's embrace this opportunity to explore.